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I'd rather it be a service you have to pay for, as I don't think I could trust free advice.

I put my memory card from my camera into the slot on my computer, it uploaded the pictures just fine. It has no eject button, usually I just pull it right out. It is really stuck this time, though. Any ideas on how to get it out without breaking the card or computer?Thanks for any advice on this.

This is only one of many examples I could give. Ever since I read On the Road when I was 15, I never say the word "sad." I always say "doldrums" or "in the doldrums." Is anyone else out here as neurotic about the words they use as I am?

This is only one of many examples I could give. Ever since I read On the Road when I was 15, I never say the word "sad." I always say "doldrums" or in the doldrums. Is anyone else out here as neurotic about the words they use as I am?

My dog had surgery recently and I was looking at the itemized bill today and it says he received a pint of blood. Where do they get the blood? Is there a doggy blood bank or do they take it from dogs that are going to be put to sleep?

A new nail salon opened up near by recently and I tried them out today since they are closer than the nail salon I usually got to. They soaked my nails in water and fresh lime juice, then rubbed each nail with a slice of fresh lime. I can't imagine the benefit of lime juice to your nails, but why else would they do this? Any clues? Thanks!

When people search for friends profiles by using their email addresses is there anyway to make your profile not come up by your email address? I stupidly used my work email for my profile and I dont want coworkers knowing my business.

A friend and I were talking last night about how some people are just naturally happy, even if circumstances in their lives have at times been tragic. My friend, who is also my doctor, says, "I sincerely believe there is a "happy" gene some are born with and some not and one day science will identify it." I have been thinking about this since, and would like to hear some others thoughts on this.

I have a friend that prides himself on how totally nonjudgemental he is. Tonight I had dinner with him and a married friend of ours. The married guy has a great wife and he is cheating on her. He asked for our opinions. Jason,(Mr nonjudgemental) really likes our friends wife, I could tell he wanted to bash married man about the affair. Yet, to stay true to character he said things like," I sometimes feel Im so nonjudgemental its a handicap. I just want good things for both of you, but I can't comment on the affair. I'd never judge someone." My advice was end the affair or tell your wife and let her decide whether she wants to stay or not. Jason really pissed me off. He acts SO righteous its sickening. In your opinion is he a better person for not passing judgement. Is giving advice passing judgement? I do not feel I judged married man, I gave advice. Opinions? Thanks

Including shoes and accessories. I spend an average of 150 and usually get my boyfriend to buy me maybe one or two outfits a month.

Im not talking about the new world series of pop culture. There used to be a game show on pop culture trivia I believe on the gameshow network. Does anyone remember the name? Thanks

I am not a violent person, I have never physically hurt anyone in anger. However, a few times a year I will be violent when someone touches me while Im sleeping. Last night I did it again and I have no memory of it whatsoever. My boyfriend got up in the middle of the night to go to the bathroom, when he returned to bed he went to kiss me on my lips though I was asleep. He says hes done this plenty of times and I never wake up or move at all. However, last night I tried to bite his lip and reached up and dug my fingernails into his face. He said that then he jumped back and said, "Why did you claw me and try to bite me?" I replied, "I didnt." Then rolled over and went back to sleep. Does anyone have any insight on this? Thanks

My boyfriend (Taurus) and I (Gemini) have been together about 18 months. I fell in love with him after dating 2 months and told him that I loved him. He swore he'd never fall in love again, but he'd be monogamous so everything was swell. About 2 months ago, he confessed his love (awww) for me and I was very happy at first. Now he has totally changed. He is VERY jealous and controlling now. I feel like he watches every move I make. Is this typical behaviour of a taurus or just a jerk?

Three old ladies named Gertrude, Maude and Tilly were sitting on a park bench talking about the days events. Suddenly, a flasher approached them, opened his trench coat and exposed himself. Gertrude immediately had a stroke. Then Maude had a stroke. And Tilly, being the oldest and most feeble, couldn't reach that far.

Ali and I have been best friends for 25 years now.(since we were8) She just recently toldme that her and her husband have threesomes with women often and have been doing so for years. She also sees women alone. Im a little hurt that she didnt tell me sooner (she said she feared my reaction) Other than that, Im fine with it. I loveher and she will always be my best friend. The problem now is that is ALL she talks about when were together. She told me, Im fine with it, but can't we talk about something else like we used to?When I asked her that she said, "This is what I feared. You judging me." Any advice on how to let her know I just want my bestfriend back?

I asked my friend Buffy this recently and she replied, "Having no desires." I loved that, and Id like to hear some others thoughts on defining happiness.

When I travel for work and strangers ask me where Im from, I always wonder what stereotypes run through their minds. Im from Spartanburg, South Carolina.