Leah Farmer

Okay, so i'm watching season 3 of True Blood on my computer and i finish episode 3 and i'm 10 minutes through episode 4 when i have to pause it and cook dinner right quick for my son. It doesnt take long, maybe 20 minutes, and I come back and un-pause it, and VLC stops my movie and shows me this little white box that says ''Error: File reading failed:VLC could not read the file.'' So i tried restarting the show again. It plays for a few minutes and then errors again. I tried playing the next episode and it wont even play it at all!!! Help!!! What do I do to fix this?

My husband and I met in October of 2003, and began dating. It was fun and all, and we started sleeping together on new year's eve. The thing is, on Jan 14th of 2004...I got pregnant. I wanted to keep the baby, and so did he, so he told me we would get married and then the child would have a mom AND a dad. He promised to take care of me and told me he really did love me and had wanted to marry me from the moment he first laid eyes on me...that he had waited for me for 33 years. :) It was so very sweet and I told him so, but give me some time to think on things and I would give him an answer soon. I contemplated not only how having a baby would change my life, but could I do it alone? Would it be any easier to have a husband by my side, even though I wasn't in love with him? I read my bible and came to the conclusion that Jesus wouldn't want me to turn away such a wonderful man who He obviously put in my path and life. Also, I wanted my child to have the best that I could give it...so I met him and told him that I would marry him. :)

Here we are 7 years later, still married, and very good friends. He is a terrific dad, and even works 6 days a week so that I can be a stay-at-home mommy for our now 6 year old son. We still kiss, and hug, and tell each other we love the other....but the problem is this: I love him, but i'm not IN love with him. But I want to be. I'm so incredibly lucky to be married to someone so wonderful and I want to be in love with him. There's only one thing...i don't know how to go about it. I've never been in love with anyone before. Also, my husband has some slipped and bulging disks in his back, and he takes some pretty high pain meds to control it, so his testosterone is completely void. So its not like we can just have hot steamy sex and fix it all, ya know? I'm just lost. Can anybody give me any advice?

My husband and I both recently have come to the agreement, that we believe that BOTH of his parents may have Alzheimers. Now, we know that his Dad already does. It's been diagnosed and is being treated now. But, my mom-in-law has Power of Attorney over herself AND her husband. Everything they own is in her name. The only problem is that we believe, withgood reasons, that she ay either be in the early stages of Alzheimers, or some type of Dementia. She is very hateful and rude to me when she didn't use to be, among other things. She also stays confused alot, or will forget things i told her earlier that day or the day before. She also CONSTANTLY loses her glasses and medications. What can my husband and I do to force her to go to the doctors? We have no legal hold over her, but we stil believe she's not mentally well anymore. What should we do?

My husband and I have been having fairly regular intercourse, but as he wants no more children and my medicines prevent me from taking a contraceptive, we just use the "pull-out" method. It has worked for going on 5 years now. We have a son who's almost 5, so that's how i know! LOL. Anyways, I don't remember having a June 2009 period. I don't think i've had one since May. They have been every 28 days since after i gave birth to my son, so to miss one is weird. But, also my stress level at home is very high...we chose to move in with my in-laws because my hubby's dad has Alzheimer's and his mom has polio and Bi-Polar Disorder. I stay at home all the time with them...it gets VERY tense. So i could possibly explain the missed period, but in addition to that, my nipples are more sensitive than usual and i've been having gas and some constipation along with one whole day of nausea and heartburn, but no more since. everything from the sensitive nipples to the heartburn has only started occuring in the last week or so. I talked to my husband and he's going to go buy a test tonight on his way home from work, but i'm really nervous. Does anyone out there think i could really be pregnant again? *Let me explain tho why i'm nervous...our first child was born with a rare condition called Gastro schisis. His intestines were growing outside his body intead of inside it. We went through Hell and back with the pregnancy and birth and the first year of his life. Everything's good now, but my hubby is a little jaded and doesn't want to risk another child being born with complications or to see me in such utter devestation and pain. I hope that explains a little bit. It's not that we wouldn't love and cherish another child and be thrilled to be parents again, we're just worried too.* Thank you for any answers or help.