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it is making him sick he is losing interest in school &sports & is very controling of her they had sex & she was thinging she was preg- and found out she was not she only lives up the street from him his mom & brothers try talking to him about it that it is gone out of control but he dont want to even try to understand he stays up on the phone to her till all hours of the morning until his mom & dad had to take all the phones and take it in there bedroom at night they are nice to her and have her over at the house and take both of them out on family outing school has just started and already he phoned his mom to come and get him he says he is not feeling well now we find out that his little girl friend told him that she is going to go to an other school that she dosent like that school so now he is going nuts about that crying and all so what to do the family is sick over this what can we do to help him understand that this is sick &shouldent be happening to young kids HELP

days ago this person told me that she thinks that it is the reason that she cant keep a man because of what happen when she was 7 years old and her stepfather at the time made her pull her pjs down and while he was looking at her private part masterbated and then said go to bed now just like noting happend and later when she was afew years older he went down on her she then told her mother and her mother called the police and reported it but he was never charged her mother threw him out and no one ever botherd with him since the ? is what can she do about it now since she feels that there has never been a closer for her and blames that on the way her life went since . she has me what i think she should do and i dont know please help me to help her for iam her mother and love her dearly