Little One

I'd buy a Martin or Taylor if I could afford it but Takamine and Washburn both have a sound I like and are affordable to me. Which one is going to be a better investment overall? I like electro acoustics to sound like acoustics when plugged in; I had the John Lennon epiphone which sounded too hard and cold for my liking, unlike these.

This question refers to a guy where we have been mutually interested in eachother for over a year but nothing has happened (YET!) for various reasons. The other day, he mouthed "I love you" to me subtly but unmistakably. Could he be anything other than serious? Ie men, would you do this yourself if you didn't mean it? And I can't ask him at the moment, I know that would be the easier option.

I met someone last week and am kicking myself that I didn't ask him to stay for a drink at the bar we were at but I wasn't feeling well so decided to go home. Next time I see him, I plan to ask him to stay for a drink. We seemed to click when we had a little chat and even shared a bit of banter and a laugh. He's older than me, but a mutual friend has said he's single, which is a good start. But do men mind being asked out or do they feel emasculated by it, eg, feel their role is being taken away from them if that makes sense? And would asking him to join me for a drink be enough of a hint that I am interested in him or just seem to matey? I've been celibate for over a year and have also never taken the plunge and asked someone out before...

...stroke a girl's face and hold her hand, playing with her hand as you do so? I mean cutely, not sexually...In addition, what does it mean when you're hugging a guy and he rubs his face all over yours? These are all things a male friend does with me, although nothing has happened between us yet. He knows I fancy him but I don't know if what he's doing is just being affectionate or if it's his way of letting me know he likes me too.

I would love some answers here. Firstly, nothing has happened physically with this man who I am going to talk about, other than the hug I'll explain later.

Going back to the summer, I'd nipped into a venue he was playing at to quickly ask a mate who worked there a question. I then left and when I came back later, I saw the man who'd been on stage, on the stairs, and he'd noticed me dash in and out. It was one of those instant moments and he began, not in an arrogant way but trying to impress me, telling me the songs he can perform etc and promising me a favourite of mine (not saying which!)

I came the next week and he dedicated that song to me and smiled lots and I decided to tell him I am interested, something I've never done before. He seemed thrilled and said he is "flattered to f**k" although he did tell me he is taken.

There was this nasty girl at the venue a lot over the next few weeks, who began spreading rumours and internet stalking me so badly I deleted most of my friends off Facebook and then beefed it up so you cannot search for me or message me or anythig if you're not on my friends list.

I kept away from him thinking she was his GF and she was jealous although nothing had happened. He saw me a few weeks later and asked what was wrong so I explained but she is not his GF, just some silly bird obsessed with him.

She then moved to the other side of the world so I am back. He began singing to me, as his GF was not there, and there was loads of banter, and we just spent the evening talking, drinking and flirting and he admitted he was interested.

I then saw him on my birthday and again he sang to me and dedicated songs to me and was lovely as his GF was not there.

On Friday, same as above, and even when I put on a green cardie he started playing Greensleeves. He knows he is the only guy I have ever liked (as in more than just fancy because he's hot), and that he is not even my usual type but there is something inexplicable drawing me to him. He was upset aout something and confided in me; I hugged him but he held me really tight and it was more than platonic, and we also kissed on the cheek in a more than friends way...

I know this is harsh but he has crossed the line in his mind and he is clearly not as happy with his GF as he could be with me. There are no kids involved, so I am wondering how to, without obviously saying anything or hinting, get him to leave her for me.

I can give him everything she can and more. I just currently am there a lot, looking good and having fun especially as often I am the only lively one there.

I would love some answers here. Firstly, nothing has happened physically with this man who I am going to talk about, other than the hug I'll explain later.

Going back to the summer, I'd nipped into a venue he was playing at to quickly ask a mate who worked there a question. I then left and when I came back later, I saw the man who'd been on stage, on the stairs, and he'd noticed me dash in and out. It was one of those instant moments and he began, not in an arrogant way but trying to impress me, telling me the songs he can perform etc and promising me a favourite of mine (not saying which!)

I came the next week and he dedicated that song to me and smiled lots and I decided to tell him I am interested, something I've never done before. He seemed thrilled and said he is "flattered to f**k" although he did tell me he is taken.

There was this nasty girl at the venue a lot over the next few weeks, who began spreading rumours and internet stalking me so badly I deleted most of my friends off Facebook and then beefed it up so you cannot search for me or message me or anythig if you're not on my friends list.

I kept away from him thinking she was his GF and she was jealous although nothing had happened. He saw me a few weeks later and asked what was wrong so I explained but she is not his GF, just some silly bird obsessed with him.

She then moved to the other side of the world so I am back. He began singing to me, as his GF was not there, and there was loads of banter, and we just spent the evening talking, drinking and flirting and he admitted he was interested.

I then saw him on my birthday and again he sang to me and dedicated songs to me and was lovely as his GF was not there.

On Friday, same as above, and even when I put on a green cardie he started playing Greensleeves. He knows he is the only guy I have ever liked (as in more than just fancy because he's hot), and that he is not even my usual type but there is something inexplicable drawing me to him. He was upset aout something and confided in me; I hugged him but he held me really tight and it was more than platonic, and we also kissed on the cheek in a more than friends way...

I know this is harsh but he has crossed the line in his mind and he is clearly not as happy with his GF as he could be with me. There are no kids involved, so I am wondering how to, without obviously saying anything or hinting, get him to leave her for me.

I can give him everything she can and more. I just currently am there a lot, looking good and having fun especially as often I am the only lively one there.

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him tonight; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

He was drunk when he tried to kiss me but sober during the rest. Just I got confused when we didn't end up properly kissing the other night. I'll try that statement and see what happens.

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him tonight; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

He was drunk when he tried to kiss me but sober during the rest. Just I got confused when we didn't end up properly kissing the other night. I'll try that statement and see what happens.

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him this week; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

He was drunk when he tried to kiss me but sober during the rest. Just I got confused when we didn't end up properly kissing the other night. I'll try that statement and see what happens.

Other than Limp Bizkit and Salt N Pepa, and Red Hot Chili Peppers, what else?

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him this week; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

He was drunk when he tried to kiss me but sober during the rest. Just I got confused when we didn't end up properly kissing the other night. I'll try that statement and see what happens.

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him this week; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

He was drunk when he tried to kiss me but sober during the rest. Just I got confused when we didn't end up properly kissing the other night. I'll try that statement and see what happens.

I've been mates with this guy for a few months. Last time I saw him, he wanted to kiss me but although I really wanted to, I had a boyfriend so nothing happened. He rang me the other day, and I was on my way home from seeing a show and he asked, "Oh, who did you go with, your boyfriend?" And I explained we're not together any more, and he said he was sorry to hear that and we had a little chat and he then said, "I'm sure there'll be someone else very soon" and he also said that "You always look dead sexy" although he's only ever seen me in jeans and Ts. I saw him the next day as planned as I was going to a gig he was playing at and he kept winking and smiling at me. Nothing happened that night, but when I had also mentioned he looked really hot, he said he was "made up" and We also had a hug when he came off stage although I kissed his neck not his cheek as I am short...

I am seeing him this week; we are going to a gig in a social group of mates and I was wondering, do these signs point to him being interested? He is single, I know that for certain. I was thinking of saying something along the lines of "remember that time we were together and you offered a kiss, is that stll open as I want to redeem it now"....

This man I like has a girlfriend but I think they may be split up as he has been flirting with me more than normal lately and he cannot keep his eyes off me as well as in conversation with a mutual male friend, making very complimentary comments about me. I sent him an email telling him I like him, as inthat I want to do something about the feeling we seem to have for eachother judging by all the flirting, gazing, singing, etc, and so far there has been no reply although the other day he said he would try and get onto that email more often. I am going to see him on Friday and in a non accusatory way ask about the email, as I want to now tell him in person I want him in case he did not believe me or thought I was kidding or maybe did not even read the email. But why is he being so slow off the mark as he has already crossed the line in his mind.

A guy who I met a few months ago has been pussyfooting around me as I have with him and I know he likes me too so I am going to do something about it. What should I say/do as I do not want akwardness as we are socially around eachother at least once a week generally...

Signs he likes me include teasing, singing to me, remembering little things, showing concern and interest, looking at me a lot, especially if I am there with another male (I do NOT do this to make him jealous, he knows theyre only my mates as I have a lot of male friends but he still seems jealous).

SO what do I say to him to make him mine?

A guy who I met a few months ago has been pussyfooting around me as I have with him and I know he likes me too so I am going to do something about it. What should I say/do as I do not want akwardness as we are socially around eachother at least once a week generally...

Signs he likes me include teasing, singing to me, remembering little things, showing concern and interest, looking at me a lot, especially if I am there with another male (I do NOT do this to make him jealous, he knows theyre only my mates as I have a lot of male friends but he still seems jealous).

SO what do I say to him to make him mine?

A guy who I met a few months ago has been pussyfooting around me as I have with him and I know he likes me too so I am going to do something about it. What should I say/do as I do not want akwardness as we are socially around eachother at least once a week generally...

Signs he likes me include teasing, singing to me, remembering little things, showing concern and interest, looking at me a lot, especially if I am there with another male (I do NOT do this to make him jealous, he knows theyre only my mates as I have a lot of male friends but he still seems jealous).

SO what do I say to him to make him mine?

A guy who I met a few months ago has been pussyfooting around me as I have with him and I know he likes me too so I am going to do something about it. What should I say/do as I do not want akwardness as we are socially around eachother at least once a week generally...

I have known someone since January, and we have been pussyfooting around eachother. He has admitted to 2 friends of mine that he likes me and fancies me. He really does seem to flirt with me but he never does anything about it so I am going to have to. Because he's my mate now, I like him as a person as well as physically so dont want it to be TOO sexual, as I want him to see me as more than that although some hint of sensuality is what I want to convey so he thinks of me in that context a little bit. I am seeing him later this week. What can I say or do? I have never been so nervous in my life but I need to tell him!!

I am asking for help here because all the ones I saw online were a bit too far away for my liking so any feedback from maybe people who have been there or live there would be welcomed.