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  • I want to work on a ship/yacht, possibly sail around the world?

    I am interested in sailing, traveling and working aboard a sailboat/yacht/ship. Does anyone know what i should do to accomplish this?

    3 AnswersCruise Travel1 decade ago
  • this girl is confusing me, what should i do?

    so there is this girl who broke up with her bf a month ago, he was a complete asshole to her, made her feel like ****.. She was all about me at first, until we kissed. the kiss was great, but she said she wasnt ready and felt like a whore. i said we shoudl just be friends. aobut a week later, she comes to see me and hang out, and is all over me, touchy feely and all that. we go out a couple days later to see a band. she is acting stand offish after i am acting like i like her. I finally ask her wtf is up, and she is crying and sober btw, and im like listen, i like you, we can just be friends, but if we are gonna, lets just be friends nothing more. she doesnt konw what she wants, but its getting so annyoing to me. Im not asking for much, just the ability to go out and possibly kiss and act like we are dating somewhat and not have to pretend like we dont care about each other and play games. So what should i do? she didnt say anything in particular, and im getting super annoyed by it. Any thoughts??

    2 AnswersSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • this girl ive been seeing has been acting weird, what is going on?

    so she broke up with her verbally abusive bf a month or more ago, weve been hanging out since. We didnt do anything physical, and finally kissed after about a month. it went wonderfully, we both really enjoyed it, and she stayed the night. the next day she wanted to hang out and go to a friends party w me, and i coudlnt, since i was busy.. She then texts me "have fun with your ex" and i texted back im not hanging out with her...

    anyhow friday she was sick, and she was texting she couldnt hang out fri night, and that she thinks her getting sick was like god telling her we shoudlnt have done that. i said i enjoyed it and i was looking forward to seeing her, she then texts that she isnt ready and i am and she doenst think we should do that. she is too worried about destroying our friendship.....

    so my take on this is that she is insecure, and after we took the next step, she got scared and when id idnt hang out with her the next time, she assumed i was seeing my ex, who i never hang out with. so she was obviously jealous... i can only assume shes trying to see how much i like her, but i am annoyed that she is so insecure.. I know its a dumb thing to have to deal with , but what do you all think? we def like each other and i really think every girl is ready, its just a smokescreen to say that.

    thanks

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • Feel like my hand isnt mine?

    Lately ive been experiencing a strange feeling as if my hand/arm isnt connected to my body. This only occurs when im texting or looking at my hand while doing something. It has never happened before, and seems to only involve the left hand. It definitely feels really weird and disconcerting. I have had some damage to my left shoulder, i dont know if that oculd have anything to do with it, or if it is a brain problem... any advice or if u have ever heard of this before, please, let me know!!

    thanks

    1 AnswerOther - Diseases1 decade ago
  • woke up with weird feeing in abdomen, very weak....advice?

    went to sleep this morning at 2 am and woke up at 3 am with a weird feeling in my whole abdomen, not pain necessarily, but a weird feeling making it a little hard to breathe... i tried to walk it off and get my mind off it, but it is still there.. it almost feels as if im going to fall asleep even as i type this, and for some reason that scares me, like it might be some internal bleeding.... so my question is, if there is no real pain, is this probably nothing serious? what could it be? to make me feel so weak and tired, and weird??

    1 AnswerOther - Diseases1 decade ago
  • i am looking to travel around the world for free or very cheap, anyone know of any ideas?

    so i have 4 months off, and am willing to go much longer if i find the right opportunity... i am willing to travel light and live cheap... i just want to see the world and experience everything....so if anyone knows who i should contact or how i should go about this, any ideas woudl be greatly appreciated!! thanks!@

    2 AnswersOther - Destinations1 decade ago
  • does penis enlargement excercises like stretching and jelqing really work? has anyone uses these successfullY?

    thats it, if u have used them with success, let me know, thanks

    7 AnswersMen's Health1 decade ago
  • poker etiquitte question on texas holdem,?

    playing in a nl $ 1/2 game, less than 60 dollars left, flop comes K 4 3 rainbow, player to my left bets 15 dollars, i call holding king ten, turn is a 4, i have 45 dollars left, he bets 15 again, then while im thinking of going all in, he shows me his king, and says i want to get out of the hand, i assumed he wanted to know if i had a four or a king, and i raise all in, which was what i was probably going to do anyhow, he folds and him and another player make it seem like i exhibited bad etiquitte..

    i contend he did, by showing me his card, it influenced the amount of money i could win, had he not shown me, he would know that i dont know his cards, and i could be bluffing... by him showing me the king, it gave him a sign that i felt my hand was better, which it was... why woudl i check, and give him a free card, when he is betting into me?

    i consider it bad etiquitte to show cards during play, especially before i have acted on a bet, and when i raise that bet, i dont consider it bad etiquitte, especially when i have the best hand.. any thoughts?

    5 AnswersCard Games1 decade ago
  • shoulder pain, going on at least a year... anyone know the injury?

    had hurt shoulder in high school, was fine for a long time, then about a year ago hurt it again lifting someone over my head, or benching...didnt hurt initally but the next day it was very sore and unable to lift arm above parallel to ground... gradually got better, but never full strength... from time to time will wake up and it will hurt quite bad lifting arm at certain angles or speeds...

    after a few days, it will go back to normal, still hurting from time to time, and lacking strenght... but useable.

    so my question is what is wrong with my shoulder that it will hurt so bad for a couple days, and never fully get better?

    do i need surgery, or physical therapy?

    3 AnswersInjuries1 decade ago
  • shoulder pain, going on at least a year... anyone know the injury?

    had hurt shoulder in high school, was fine for a long time, then about a year ago hurt it again lifting someone over my head, or benching...didnt hurt initally but the next day it was very sore and unable to lift arm above parallel to ground... gradually got better, but never full strength... from time to time will wake up and it will hurt quite bad lifting arm at certain angles or speeds...

    after a few days, it will go back to normal, still hurting from time to time, and lacking strenght... but useable.

    so my question is what is wrong with my shoulder that it will hurt so bad for a couple days, and never fully get better?

    do i need surgery, or physical therapy?

    1 AnswerInjuries1 decade ago
  • can someone translate this phrase from german to english? thanks!?

    Evo sada se spremam da idem u urgent care. Nemogu nista jesti, ni gutati

    3 AnswersLanguages1 decade ago
  • can someone translate from english to german a phrase for me?

    after the rain comes the sun

    3 AnswersLanguages1 decade ago
  • can anyone translate this phrase from english to german for me? thanks!?

    ok what i want to say is, i love speaking german, especially to a beautiful girl!

    12 AnswersLanguages1 decade ago
  • question about insurance, i was driver, owner has no insurance, but i do?

    so i was driving my ex gfs car a while back, and i got pulled over... she didnt have up to date insurance, but didnt notify me of that..

    i myself have insurance on MY vehicle, it is liability coverage, nothing major.

    so what happens? what is the penalty? am i still guilty of driving without insurance? i woudl assume i am, which sucks, but i just got back from the bmv and they said nothign was on my record, maybe it takes a while to show up?

    anyone with knowledge on the subject, your opinion/facts are much appreciated, thanks! p.s. this is ohio i live in

    3 AnswersInsurance & Registration1 decade ago
  • change in vision upon standing, what can cause this?

    26 m, no relevant medical history, upon standing today and a few other times, i noticed my vision going dim, esp in my left eye, lasts for 30 sec or so, and then returns to normal..

    for a while now i have also noticed red and sometimes green lines in my vision at times, does anyone know what might cause this?

    2 AnswersOptical1 decade ago
  • cant seem to take a deep breath after excercise, chest was hurting a bit towards the end, left outer chest?

    so i am in moderately good shape, 5 9 175lbs, started working out 4 weeks ago... today i ran, and towards the end the left outer part of my chest was hurting, not severe, just slight.... i had trouble catching my breath after being done, and couldnt seem to take a deep breath

    im 26, and i do have a history of anxiety and palpitations, but i am not sure about this one.... it seemed once i burped that i was able to breathe a lot better..... like it added some space or soemthign.... so what could this be? i dont feel lightheaded or anything, and i was not numb anywhere, just the slight pain and then the inablity to take a good full deep breath.... i only ran for 20 some minutes, but it was interval training, which is a minute or 2 of intense running, followed by a minute or two of moderate jogging....

    any advice woudl be appreciated... thanks!

    4 AnswersRespiratory Diseases1 decade ago
  • palpitations, seem pretty frequent, am a bit worried... help!?

    so i was alwasy in decent shape, but havent done much cardio... i have had palpitations due to anxiety before, and they would come and go...ive been working out pretty hard for over 3 weeks now, and for the first 2, i felt great.....

    so now the last 3 times ive worked out, ive had some pretty annoying heart palpitations...sometimes concerning... they seem to be after i am doen working out, and im not sure if it is becaues of the adrenaline that is still going thru my body when my heart slows down...

    it is concerning, and i hope someone has an answer.... i seem to be getting agitated at the same time. so if that helps, help!

    p.s. the only thing that has changed is my ex gf has been contacting me, and she is so wishy washy, she frustrates me... so i am not sure if that is part of the problem

    1 AnswerHeart Diseases1 decade ago
  • ok need advice here, meeting her tomorroww, maybe for the last time..?

    so i dated this girl for a yr and a half...we broke up 7 or 8 weeks ago... we have been long distance for 9 months before that, anyhow, she broke it off with me after telling me how much she was in love with me..... she siad she met someone and that was the last we talked...

    till a couple days ago, we started talking again... she was home, and wanted to hang out... initially i said no, but then she told me she was leaving again in 2 weeks for a job out in nevada....

    well, she is still seeing the guy she met, and i know she went for it cause i want to stay in ohio, and i coudlnt come out there to see her.... it was conveiniet for her, and he was there....

    she still wants to talk, even after 2 months of me not talking

    anyhow, we are meeting up tomorrow for a drink, even tho she is still seeing the guy and is leaving in a couple weeks

    she doesnt have to go, and she has no idea that i still have feelings for her... i dont intend on telling her i love her... but i want her to stay.... i can let this go just fine... but im a romantic, and i am just wondering what i shoudl say to really have the most effect....i can tell she is still attracted to me, and respects me quite a bit... i have been playing it cool and being fun and a little unavailable but......

    she is leaving, if she thinks im not interested anymore, she will definitely go... i know it sounds foolish a bit, but im strong and i know what id be getting into, however dumb it sounds...

    so, do i tell her listen, i want u to stay.... do i say i love her, do i just tell her i cant make any promises, but i want to see where this goes...

    she can stay for 3 months for her job, or she can leave and come back after 3 months.... if she leaves, it will be over for me, esp because of the other guy, who i dont even bring up.... so what do i say? i got the meeting, we have been talking... i know i need to be fun and exciting, and light hearted... but i have to say something soon if i want her to stay, what would be most effective???

    1 AnswerSingles & Dating1 decade ago
  • heart problems?? 26 yr old male, exhaustion and panic?

    so i played football all my life till i was 20, and i do concrete for a living, so during summer i am in really good shape..

    i have had incidents of panic attacks, but havent had one for quite some time now...

    i recently started a new workout regimen, and am in the second week of it....after finishing a pretty tough workout, i was incredibly exhausted, barely able to stand up.... sat down, ate a banana, and drank some water...suddenly i had an extreme panic feeling like i was going to pass out at the same time....

    it passed after about a minute, and i calmed down again... i have been checked with ekg and blood work many times, and always told i am clean bill of health...

    so why the sudden exhaustion and panic?? if anyone has any ideas, let me know... btw im 5 9 175 lbs, no medical history besides the panic attacks...

    3 AnswersHeart Diseases1 decade ago