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I am due at the end of October and I am feeling very unsure about the labor & delivery. My husband and I do not want any family in the room with us, but I would like to have a voice of experience there. I have been hearing alot about Doulas and I have heard of midwives but I don't know what the difference and I cannot finad a reliable source online. Can you help me in the right direction?

I have a repetative motion injury I have been fighting with the work comp insurance company over for the last 18 months. I haven't gotten a lawyer yet because I have had a hard time find anyone who can recommend one for me and I don't want to pick some person out of the yellow pages. Can you help me?

My company is offering to relocate me to Albuquerque, New Mexico. I have never lived out side of San Diego, California and I don't know anything about the area or climate. Do you know of some reliable source of info, preferably on the internet? Do you know anything about the area? Please share!

When my husband and I started dating a very good friend of his really didn't like me and let all of his friends know it. Because of her I have had a hard time earning my way back into thier good graces. When we started planning our wedding my husband asked another good friend of his, who happend to be her boyfriend, to be a groomsman. Initially he said yes but two weeks before the wedding he backed out, leaving us one groomsman short the day of.

Now, she is getting married to someone else who was once a good friends of my husbands who due to unrelated circumstances disappeared for a while and whom I don't know at all. She is trying to be my friend all of a sudden and has asked my husband in her wedding as a groomsman. What would you do? I know I should let bygones be bygones but . . . It took me years to win back his friends and I am still not comfortable around her nor with my husband hanging out with her since she bad mouthed me behind my back.