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  • How to deal with my really bad anxiety?

    I ve been dealing with anxiety for about 2-3 years. At first, I went to a therapist for a good 2 years due to my depression and my anxiety came after i was diagnosed with anxiety. The therapy worked for just a few weeks then i fell into a pit of depression and anxiety. Now, I only suffer from anxiety, I went to see my doctor for a couple months and she put me on multiple medication to control my anxiety. The medication did work but days i forgot to take my medication, my anxiety seemed to have get worse ( i have the worst habit forgetting to take medication) so I got off the medication and then after I seemed to cope well and not suffer anxiety as bad (I use to have (3-10 attacks a day).

    As a student and exams coming up soon, I really need to be awake and alert. I have an issue where I get tired really easily and just tend to doze off and sleep. I tried drinking coffee and energy drinks but they make my anxiety a lot worse to the point i get immoral thoughts and it gets very difficult for me to breathe. So I can t drink any caffeine drinks anymore but then again, i can t even stay awake for more than a few hours.

    Has anyone experienced something similar? Any tips?

    4 AnswersMental Health6 years ago
  • Overcharged credit card at restaurant, what should I do?

    So I went to dinner with a friend a fortnight ago. The bill between us came to £30. We wanted to split the bill so we planned I pay £20 on my card and she pay £10 by cash. We told the waitress how we wanted to pay and she punches in £30 in the credit card machine and I question her why £30 and says she would change it later. So I basically paid £30 and my friend gave her an extra £10 basically.

    I look at my transaction thinking she would alter my credit card bill from £30 to £20 but it stayed at £30.

    I'm going to my bank tomorrow to explain what happened along with the reciept. The only issue I have is im not sure whether the bank will believe me because my reciept says £30 and there won't be evidence my friend paid the rest in cash. I will give the bank my card details, reciept and info about the restaurant. I know it's just a tenner but I'm a student and struggling for money (that dinner was a one off).

    So what should I do? Thanks

    2 AnswersFriends6 years ago
  • Questioning my sexuality, PLEASE HELP!'?

    I'm a 17 year old girl. I have always liked boys, I've only ever had boyfriends, my first loves were boys and I can spot a cute boy from a mile away.

    However, I do find females attractive but I have no desire to build a relation with them, I want a boyfriend not a girlfriend.

    I just find it really frustrating that I can find a female hot and compliment them a lot (appearance wise) and that sometimes I'm curious what would happen if I kiss them but I would never.

    Straight porn, I always look at the guy, the girl honestly bored me. When I masturbate, I always think of a guy but when I close my eyes at night I always visualize a pretty girl and it really makes it difficult to sleep.

    I also say randomly throughout the day "I like guys" in my head and when I see a girl I say to myself "I don't find that attractive". It makes me feel like I'm in denial.

    I don't know if this is my anxiety building up (SOCD) but it's really really bothering me. I've read a lot of information on this stuff and to be honest I consider myself straight (or mostly straight). My bisexual friend said I am totally straight, but these thoughts are really really frustrating me.

    I've never emotionally liked a girl, I've tried to experiment if romantically I would get attached and it has never happened. Physically, I really don't even want to dare and experiment.

    I don't know if it's denial or anxiety. It's bothering me so much and I can't sleep because it's all I think about

    HELP?

  • Questioning my sexuality, HELP!!?

    I'm 17 years old and a girl. I've only ever had boyfriends, my first loves were boys. And currently infatuated by a boy I know.

    It's just been really annoying me and causing my anxiety to rage because I'm really confused that I might be bi sexual. In the future, I honestly hope I end up with a guy and have a family. I think guys are the best.

    But currently, I've been thinking females are hot/attractive, I sometimes check them out, point out what I like about them. Sometimes when I see a female I get horny but want to do the sexual stuff with a guy.

    I'm more comfortable around guys tbh and less with girls, I tend to judge girls more even though I've had bad relationship with guys.

    I've never romantically liked a girl, I would just think they're hot and sometimes get horny looking at one. When I watch straight porn, I get bored when the cameras on the girl and mainly concentrate on the guy. I tried to imagine myself with a girl and it felt good but then I stopped because it felt weird then I imagined myself with a guy and it felt like 10x better.

    I'm really confused! And it's driving me insane

  • Questioning my sexuality? PLEASE HELP?

    I'm 17 years old and a girl. I've only ever had boyfriends, my first loves were boys. And currently infatuated by a boy I know.

    It's just been really annoying me and causing my anxiety to rage because I'm really confused that I might be bi sexual. In the future, I honestly hope I end up with a guy and have a family. I think guys are the best.

    But currently, I've been thinking females are hot/attractive, I sometimes check them out, point out what I like about them. Sometimes when I see a female I get horny but want to do the sexual stuff with a guy.

    I'm more comfortable around guys tbh and less with girls, I tend to judge girls more even though I've had bad relationship with guys.

    I've never romantically liked a girl, I would just think they're hot and sometimes get horny looking at one. When I watch straight porn, I get bored when the cameras on the girl and mainly concentrate on the guy. I tried to imagine myself with a girl and it felt good but then I stopped because it felt weird then I imagined myself with a guy and it felt like 10x better.

    I'm really confused! And it's driving me insane

  • Confused about my sexuality HELP!!!!?

    I'm a 17 years old girl and I've only ever had boyfriends. I use to be so infatuated with boys. But now, for 2 or 3 months I've been questioning my sexuality.

    I don't know if it's my anxiety or what but I find girls really hot and attracted but I don't think I'd ever want a girlfriend because it's weird and different to having a relationship with boys.

    I find myself just saying to myself I like boys and sometimes I like girls and then I get so confused.

    Right now, I have a crush on this guy but I feel like I'm attracted to girls and it's freaking me out. I don't know if I'm in denial or bisexual or even turning lesbian? I'm so confused

    Whenever I watch porn, I concentrate on the guy, the girls bore me. I tried to imagine myself with a girl(like kissing or hugging) and I back off but I don't know if it's denial. If im ever with my female friends, I'm like in my head "I wonder how it would be if I kissed her or touched her hand" but I don't do it because that would be weird

    I am just so confused, someone help me?

  • Questioning my sexuality HELP PLEASEEE?

    I'm a 17 year old girl. I've only ever had boyfriends, I mean I love boys and I can spot a cute boy from a mile away. From time to time I've questioned myself if I might be bisexual. I think girls can look hot/attractive but if I imagine myself with one, that's kinda grossing me out. I'd never want to pursue a relationship with a girl. But I feel like I'm forcing myself to like guys more.

    I'm so confused, I can see a girl on the streets and be like wow she looks hot, I wonder what it would be like if I kissed her. Then a few seconds later I'll be grossed out like ew no maybe not.

    I feel like maybe I am bisexual but in denial but I honestly want a boyfriend rather than relationship with a girl.

    I don't know, I'm just really confused. Can someone help? I don't know if it's my anxiety just having me over thinking (because right now I actually like this boy I know) or am I really bisexual? So confused

  • Confused about my sexuality HELP!?

    I'm a 17 year old girl. I've only ever had boyfriends, I mean I love boys and I can spot a cute boy from a mile away. From time to time I've questioned myself if I might be bisexual. I think girls can look hot/attractive but if I imagine myself with one, that's kinda grossing me out. I'd never want to pursue a relationship with a girl. But I feel like I'm forcing myself to like guys more.

    I'm so confused, I can see a girl on the streets and be like wow she looks hot, I wonder what it would be like if I kissed her. Then a few seconds later I'll be grossed out like ew no maybe not.

    I feel like maybe I am bisexual but in denial but I honestly want a boyfriend rather than relationship with a girl.

    I don't know, I'm just really confused. Can someone help? I don't know if it's my anxiety just having me over thinking (because right now I actually like this boy I know) or am I really bisexual? So confused

  • i keep thinking about a girl i just saw... (im a girl too) HELP?

    I was in a restaurant at midday and i saw a girl at a table and she was like beautifully natural that i couldnt stop looking at her.

    I thought to myself "what if i kissed her lips?" but then i stopped myself from thinking that because i thought that was weird.

    Honestly, ive been questioning my sexuality for a little while but all my bi and lesbian friends say im totally straight because i don't want to ever pursuit a relationship with a female.

    i just dont know why ive thought about this girl and just remembered shes so naturally beautiful. Honestly even writing this is making me feel freaked out because i dont want to have this thought on my mind. Im just really confused, any help?

  • Where do I go for a pregnancy blood test?

    Can my GP do it for me or can I go into a walk in centre?

    I've done 2 urine pregnancy tests and both came out negative. It's been over a month I haven't gotten my period and I just have a feeling I'm pregnant

    3 AnswersPregnancy7 years ago
  • I don't know if I'm pregnant! I'm 17!?

    During like the end of May, I had protected sex (with a condom and it was during my ovulation time), he made sure the condom wasn't broken or anything. 3 days after (before 72 hours) I took the morning after pill. And a few days after, I started contraception pills.

    I started getting paranoid when my June period was one week late. I took a pregnancy test that came out negative so I thought I was okay.

    However, my July period never came, I took a pregnancy test again and it came out negative. But I feel like I have symptoms so my uterus feels hard and I have cravings. I compared my stomach to pictures of a 3 month pregnant stomach (I normally have a flat stomach but I have a small bump (no way near as big as the 3 month but I'm still paranoid).

    I'm not sure if I'm actually pregnant or is it me just being stressed out and paranoid?

    3 AnswersPregnancy7 years ago
  • I don't know if I'm pregnant! I'm only 17?

    I had protected sex back in June (we used a condom), but we did it during my ovulation time (I know I was stupid). I was paranoid so 3 days later (before 72 hours) I took the morning after pill. That month, my period was one week late. I took 2 pregnancy tests that both came out negative. So I thought I was okay.

    Then I begun to take contraception pills daily. But then my July period... I missed it. I don't know if it had anything to do with the pills or my stress so I took another pregnancy test and it came out with negative.

    But I'm still really anxious about it. I have cravings all the time. Whenever I enquire my doctor about this worry she just asks if I used a condom and I say yes so then she says "then you're not pregnant, it's fine".

    What do you think?

    1 AnswerPregnancy7 years ago
  • I keep questioning my sexuality. PLEASE HELP!?

    Im a 17 year old girls. Ive only ever had boyfriends, i mean i can spot a cute boy from a mile away. To be honest, I have only ever crushed or loved boys.

    Im questioning if im bisexual or bicurious (i have nothing against it, it just keeps giving me anxiety). I think girls can look attractive but I don't think I'd want to have a romantic relationship with a girl. I just find some girls attractive and check them out, but when it comes to emotional feelings, i don't have any.

    For a second, i was thinking what if I was transexual because i think "wow im gonna be a female for the rest of my life" which is fine by me but I don't know, i was just questioning myself if i was a guy (but having sex with a girl is weird).

    I have no idea whats running through my head, im so confused and my anxiety has been sky rocketing. Do you think im just overreacting or is my sexuality changing. I am so so confused!

  • i cheated on my long distance boyfriend! Do i tell him?

    In February, I broke up with my ex boyfriend because things were getting too hard but he thought we were still together. I made out with another boy, the week after I made it clear that we weren't together anymore because he kept assuming we were still together.

    From February til now, we still talked everyday. It made me realise i love him more and more. From February til now though, I had tried with other guys and gave my virginity away to my guy best friend. And I told my ex boyfriend that I gave my virginity away and have gotten with other guys while we had broken up and he was heartbroken.

    He pretty much stopped talking to me but now we're taking it slow and reaching to the point of being stable again.

    Should I tell him that I made out with another boy when he thought we were still together? I just feel so bad but i truly do love him.

    4 AnswersSingles & Dating7 years ago
  • Am I pregnant? I'm only 17?

    The last time I had sex was in May and we used a condom (but I wasn't on birth control). He told me he checked that the condom was not broken. After two weeks, my period was a week late (my June period seeing as we had sex at the end of May) and I took two pregnancy tests incase and they both came out negative.

    I started birth control at the end of May, so currently I'm 3 months into birth control but my July period never came (it's not 17 days late). I retook a pregnancy test two weeks ago and it came out with a negative - the reason I retook it was because I was getting anxious about it.

    I'm wondering am I actually pregnant or did i miss my period due to my anxiety and depression?

    1 AnswerPregnancy7 years ago
  • Questioning my sexuality! HELP?

    I'm 17 and a girl. I've always liked boys, I've only had boyfriends and I mean I can spot a cute guy a mile away. I have on and off confusions if I'm bisexual? Sometimes I'd check out girls because they look hot, but I've never emotionally liked a girl at all. I'm really really confused. I tried to imagine myself doing something with a girl and if feels a bit weird and different to being with a guy.

    I'm really confused, can someone help me ouf

  • I feel weird and confused. Questioning my sexuality?

    I'm 17 and a girl. Lately my body feels so weird like rigid and sometimes it gets hard for me to breathe. I just feel so out of place and don't feel comfortable.

    Also, I'm really confused if I'm bi? I've always liked boys, I've only ever had boyfriends. I've never bad sexual attraction to girls, I check some girls out and think they're hot but personality wise, I'm not attracted to girls at all.

    I'm so confused and I feel so weird

    Someone help?

  • Am I straight or bi?

    I'm a 17 year old girl. I absolutely love boys, I've had many boyfriends but loads of them screwed me over and broke my heart. Recently, when I see a girl like a picture of them, I think they're hot and start to get funny feelings in my stomach. Of course I still think boys are cute and whenever I go out, I try to catch their attention, but I have a feeling I'm bisexual. I'm really not sure, i try to imagine myself with a girl and it creeps me out. Whenever I masturbate and watch porn, I think of guys and when porn does the close up on the girl, I don't look because it seems weird and odd. But idk why I'm having this feeling.

    Can someone help? Is it just a phase or am I really bisexual? I'm kind of scared

  • I think I'm pregnant! I'm only 16!!!!!?

    Last Tuesday, I had sexual intercourse. I was not on birth control but we used a condom (which he checked it did not break) and I took a emergency contraception pill 68 hours after. But we did it near the time of my ovulation (I'm so stupid I know)

    Idk if it's the symptoms of the emergency contraception pills or stress or if I'm actually pregnant but I've been having a slight stomach ache, I'm more tired, need to use the toilet more, more hungry, I'm more depressed (I've had depression since I was 13), my boob was tingling the other day but they aren't tender.

    Of course I'm going to take a pregnancy test in a week or so but I'm really scared from these symptoms. Does anyone know if these are pregnancy symptoms or what? Please help me

    4 AnswersPregnancy7 years ago