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So one of my closest friends is engaged to this controlling witch of a woman. Should I tell him anything about it. Im not the only one who thinks shes wrong for him but no one wants to tell him anything. I dont know what the best choice is. 20 years ago I was faced with this same decision when my friend was getting married to young. (she was a teenager) I didnt say anything and regretted it. then 5 years after that another friend was marrying this physically abusive guy and I told her how I felt and she stopped talking to me and still married the guy. So i dont know. I dont want to lose him as a friend but I dont want to see him make a mistake. Shes a cruel heartless woman. (i have witnessed her cruelty first hand) What would any of you all do?

I not sure if I posted something to my friend page or not. I was about to repost but then I thought what if they deleted it. I dont want to repost if they deleted it. I know I should just ask them but there is a reason why i'd rather not (personal reason). I'd rather leave that option as a last resort. And no what I posted wasnt offensive or anything like that.

I dont believe in divorce but, I've reached the point where I no longer want to be with my husband, am I being to harsh? I'd like your honest opinions. Plz real answers.

Have we tried working it out, yes I can honestly say we have. We've talked about our troubles. We have gone to marriage counseling and have spent time apart to give each other room.

Here are some of the reasons I want to leave him.......(not in any order)

1. His side of the family......

a. they have stolen from us (money, clothes, shoes, 5 different mp3 players, kids blankets, tv, play station 1, and our car......et cetera.)

b. they are criminals (arrests that include drugs, weapons,prostitution, theft, and violence)

2. He's an alcoholic. his drinking has cost us alot, our home, car, money and his freedom (arrested) He says he's gonna quit but he hasnt.

3. Easily influenced by his peers. basically all his friends have to say his jump and he says how high

4. Doesnt communicate. They say communication is key to a good relationship. Not with my husband. Things he's done without talkng to me first (bought/sold a/our car, renewed a loan, pawned our stuff, lent/given out money)

Other minor things include, not calling me in over 24 hrs, lying to me that he was at work but was really out with the boys, leaving out of town for 2days with his family after I asked him to stay, got mad at me cuz I didnt do his laundry even though I dont live w/him. Theres more but I dont have the energy to type it all.

Dont get me wrong he's a good guy. But I think Im done w/him. God knows I've tried. He wasnt this way before. I still care for him very much and he provides financially and I know he loves us. i just dont think his effort is 100%

I alreay thought of Thriller and the monster mash. any other ideas?

I thought of thriller, and the monster mash but what else? Please send some suggestions my way. Thanks.

So I've read they are supposedly gonna turn Vampire Academy into a film. The first time I saw Emma Stone I thought she'd be a great Rose. I also think Rose McGowan would have too when she was younger. Anybody agree or have there own choices?

For those of you how have read Vampire Academy, can u recommend any other books that have characters like Rose and Dimitri. I just love their love story. I do prefer fantasy literature, but if there are other characters just as moving from another genre, plz dont hesitate to recommend it. I have been meaning to expand my taste in literature. Thanks! And plz, serious answers only.

I'm really into Fantasy Literature. Right now I'm way into Vampire books. I've read all of Twilight, 1-4 of Vampire Academy, and 1-5 of House of Night. I'm really looking into finding books along these lines. If no ideas, I also liked Harry Potter, Inkheart, all the Narnia Books and the mediator series by Meg Cabot. I'd appreciate any suggestions. Thanks!

I read it a long time ago so I dont recall much. All I do remember is the book is about a cowboy who marries this girl he thinks is a prostitute but in reality he is the first man she has ever slept with and they fall in love. Its a romance book and I think the author is Sandra Brown (not 100% though) and the title might be something like dancing angel or dancer's angel.....something like that. I know its not much but if anybody knows the book title I would really appreciate it. Ive been searching but I cant find it. Anyway, Thanks.

I know that there are some orbs that are explained as being dust particles or something thats reflecting light off of it. I have two photos, in one photo there are about 70 orbs all different colors and sizes. In the other photo of the exact same place only 10 seconds later, its clear not a single orb. anybody got any opinions. Plz real answers and opinions only.

We're good friends so I dont wanna lead him on cuz I'm married. I thought I had misunderstood his signals cuz he said Im like a sister. The kiss of death 4 girls who like guys. And there r even times when he just ignores me. But about 2 weeks ago we shook hands & when I started to release my grip to let go, he didn't. He held my hand for about 20sec. Then the other day I left him a note at his desk & then said he has come to expect & even rely on my notes. Then one time he & I were joking around & he said something that ended up sounding dirty & said y do these kind of jokes only come out when Im w/u. Its just little things like that. Am I looking to much in2 this? Is there neway to know 4 sure?

I read on the internet that the Y&R was going to be cancelled. Anybody know if this is rumor or fact. And if it is a fact anybody have the link with that info on it. Thanks!

I'm really into books like Harry Potter, The Twilight Series and Inkheart. I'm currently reading Blue Bloods (which I wasn't into but it grew on me) and I'm hoping to start the Naria series too. Anybody know any books like those I'd greatly appreciate an suggestions. Thanks!!!

Suppose you went with your friend to someones house looking for a friend of your friends While you were there you were asked to leave but your friend insisted on speaking to the person they went to go see. Then out of no were someone comes from behind you and hits you with a rake and you and your friend get beat up really bad with rakes and rocks. 3 months later you and your friend are getting charges pressed against you for assault against one of the guys. Now your friend is getting bailed for less than you are and in the newspaper it only mentioned your name as the person doing the assault. What might be the reason for that and what are your rights. Real answers are encouraged. If you dont know plz don't answer. If you have a link that can answer my questions that would be much appreciated. Thanks!

My husband and I have been having some problems. He lies, drinks to much and is easily influenced by his friends. When his friends and beer are not involved, we are very happy. He doesnt lie and is very attentive to our family, but once those two other things come into play he is the worst person on the planet. I'm tired of his antics and packed up myself and our kids and left. Since we've gone he's made an effort to improve his life but I'm afraid its only a band-aid fix. Any wives who have gone through this or husbands who use to act like that, got any advise its greatly appreciated. Its not a matter of love, we love each other and don't want to be apart but he's going down a path I cant go and I want to help him before he hurts himself. Plz help!!!

I enjoy watching kids shows and movies and I admit there are times I dont like something and I might write a bad review if I feel strongly about it, and I clearly state a reason why. Example, its inappropriate, like to much violence, Or maybe its supposed to be an educational show and its not very educational. But what really annoys me is when someone writes some like, I didn't like it cuz it was dumb. It was so kiddy, you might like it if your a kid. LOL!!! I'm over here laughing think well duh, their target audience is 6, 7 year olds, not someone with a 5 o'clock shadow. I was just reading some reviews about WALL-E and this one person wrote something like, Man Pixar what a bad movie I don't like it, it was so for a kid. Is there anybody else who is bothered by this, or is it just my own personal little pet peeve.

Does anybody know how long a sent email stays in someones inbox on myspace. Does the email delete after some period of time if it is unread? If anybody knows from either a source or from experience I would greatly appreciate it. Thanks!

I cant seem to remember and I'm tired of racking my brains. I recall seeing it maybe a 1-4 years ago. It was a contest that had people who look like celebrities compete. I remember there were 3 judges and some of the finalists included a howard stern, elvis presley and I think a george bush look-a-like. Plz help me!

I'm looking for any old friend of mine from high school. I've seen to come across a dead end. Anyone got good tips or any sites I can check. I know my friends full name, d.o.b, 2 previous addresses and the names of siblings, if this helps. Any suggestions would really be helpful.

random questions (just threw it together very random)

1. disney or nickelodeon

2. yahoo or google

3. living together or married

4. left handed or right handed

5. mom or dad (which parent would you pick)

6. daffy or donald

7. walmart or target

8. johnny depp then or johnny depp now

9. casual or fancy

10. shoes or barefoot

mine would be

1. disney

2. yahoo

3. married

4. right handed

5. mom

6. daffy

7. walmart

8. johnny depp now

9. casual

10. barefoot