Ross M

My girlfriend of 2 years, I know not long, are experiencing issues in the bedroom. Mainly me since I can't keep an erection that long and havn't been able to ejaculate. I do find her attractive and she's a very natural woman. I'm 24 years old and have seen my doctor and had a blood test done. Will go back next week when ready. It's really effecting our relationship and it's making me worried. Someone at her work, in the kitchen, has been flirting with her and it's stressing me out even more. We both agreed to work on it.

Basically I would like to know what it could be with my impotence and not ejaculating. I do ejaculate when masturbating and it doesn't take much... please help.

Greatly appreciate future educated responses.

It has been exactly 2 years that we were together and everything was going great, only issue that was going on for a while is that sexually it has been lacking spice and flare. I'm an average guy that MAY have a slight problem in the bedroom. We may think it's both of us who knows. Anyway we had a very VERY deep talk 2 days ago and said that the relationship is lacking excitement. I agree with her, she also mentioned that there was a coworker at the restaurant she works in that was interested in her. He started flirting with her. She said she let him know that she was with someone. But he kept being flirtatious and she was liking it. I guess it was new for her again. He also started sending her dirty texts a few days after the flirting and she didn't really stop him.

When her and I had the deep conversation she admitted to it all (obviously). We both started crying as we never pictured us apart or even having this big of a risk of that happening. She is very down to Earth and doesn't show off or fake it. No make-up kind of girl. I love her and she loves me. I understand her needing the excitement, she also admitted to being sex deprived as mentioned earlier, I was lacking in that area :( . She also mentioned she had some sexual thoughts of this coworker but trying not to and started crying when she said it.

We both said we want to fix and work on this. She pictures us in the far future she says. But I have a problem, major trust issues now. I have never felt that much pain in my life on the day we had the talk. Extreme pain, she had no idea how hurt I would be and because of that she felt almost as bad. ALMOST, I'm pretty sure I am feeling more pain than her.

Anyway, to the intelligent people reading this please help. I know 2 years isn't a long time but I love her, no teenage highschool love either.

Oh and forgot to mention, I go to Law School and she goes to Baking and Pastry arts school and works on weekends. That must also play a role?

Again thanks for answering and/or reading.

Just curious if anyone used 4T Plus Capsules. I am about to order them as they claim it's 100% natural and effective. Does it work, are there major side effects? Please help, my impotence is effecting my relationship and it makes me depressed. I really hope someone can help me here.

Thank you.

I have a very down-to-Earth girlfriend, such a nice wonderful person. Hard to find nowadays. I had to go on her laptop to look for a booking I have made for my travels. There were a lot of pop-ups and ads about pron sites. I thought maybe she was watching porn, I asked her and at first she said no. But few minutes later admitted that she has but only rarely. We have been together for 2 years now, I know not long at all, but should I be worried that I may not satisfy her or not her type anymore? We talked about it I was very disappointed but we talked about it and things are better now. I AM insecure when it comes to my physical appearance and how I perform in bed. We havn't had much sex in past month...I do feel bad but I do go to Law School and she goes to school full time as well. Should I be ok with her watching porn once in a while or no? Am I over reacting?

Thanks for the educated answers.

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Thank you in advance!

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As mentioned, my girlfriend hasn't had her period in two months but we checked all other symptoms that would occur during pregnancy and we could not match any other except her delayed periods. Our sex is mostly without protection but we always stay safe by me pulling out just before, I also don't ejaculate that much. She has had NO morning sickness, back pain, frequent urination or strange cravings. Her breasts have also not been swollen, sometimes they feel sensitive but not often. She is starting to worry and we are going in to the clinic tomorrow. We both go to Law School and would be nice to see what others have to say.

Thank you all in advance for those that answer intelligently. :)

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Thank you!

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I have also done many oil changes, did an engine flush, transmission service but this started slightly before all that.

Please help by providing best knowledge you guys have! Thank you!

Anyone have a code they can lend? I really want to test BEFORE I spend 60$ on it.

I really appreciate it!

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Does anyone have a guest pass they would like to lend me?

Thank you!

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Also if I do download songs with low bit rates (200 or lower) and if I convert them to a "higher" quality will it actually work or will the quality just get worse overall?