jenifer

So I been dating this guy for about 16 months I found out he was having an affair with another woman And we broke up for about a 6 weeks I forgave him and tried to move on but the woman keeps popping up saying she's gonna sleep with him again just to get back at me. At this point I'm tired of all the lies the disrespectfulness and this woman. So I confronted him, we got in this big argument and I jus let everything out that I was holding back which made him extremely upset and we hung up on each other. I feel relieved that I got to say everything I needed to say.

P.S. he never apoliged for cheating, he never admitted to cheating and after I for gave him I felt like he started taking me for granted and started not putting in no effort to keep me happy.

My Question is will he ever contact me again? Do I have to initiate contact or should I just give him some space and see what happens, and if so how much time do you think?

I really love this man and I don't want to lose him

I told my ex we need to talk. I just wanted to come right out and be blunt about how I feel about him and that I want things to work out with us, but he said he doesn't want to talk because there's nothing to say and that maybe we can talk sometime later. What does that mean? Does it mean he wants space/time or is he just not interested in me anymore.

FYI: we only been broken up for 3 weeks

Ok so I went out on a limb here and asked my ex to go out with me on New year's eve to have a few drinks, it's been about 3 weeks since we broke up, and it's been about an hour since I text him and still he hasn't responded. Should I just be patient and wait and see if he responds or should I text him again to see if he responds.

Before me and my ex broke up we didn't have sex for like 2 months and we been broken up now for almost 1 month so all together I been sexless for almost 3 months now and I'm ready to jump on just about any man. So do you think I should go to my ex to resolve this problem?