toddhagen88

well, it's since the first child really.... but she tricked me into thinking she wanted to make love once..... when really it was to have another baby.... (that's the last time..... 15 mths)

now she wants a boob job and we have no romance.... i don't push her but I'm romantic and we're both well above average physically. she's got personal happiness issues - gratefully handed down by her loving parents, and she's not willing to take personal responsibility for them now :(

I feel I don't have much hope of a + future...... what's the point of marriage if you can't be intimate - once a mth or for that matter once a year. (the shower is getting a bit old)

I'm not stupid - I've done the trips, dinners, dancing, shopping, massages, baths, listening, compliments, emails, text msg's, & phone calls.

I'm not saying I'm perfect - but I'm close haha. she's not made an effort @ all - as I guess I'm willing & "waiting".

she says, if I'm not happy - divorce me! - "nice" option eh!

she says "sex" is a power thing to her, and she doesn't look at it as enjoyment (she hasn't had sex without a semi buzz or been stimulated by extra treats).... I guess - since, we're now married and have two children..... and she has all the power.

do I have any hope? or am I doomed?

how do I get my power back?

The Canucks might be dangerous.... thou, I think they need to show more discipline in my opinion