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Me and my boyfriend went to see that movie "Us" and a funny scene came up and i whispered something to him, he whispered something back, (Don't worry, we weren't around anyone, no one was disturbed.) and he said something sarcastic. I flicked a kernel of popcorn at him playfully and he grabbed me by the collar and tries to put popcorn down my shirt. Maybe this isn't 'abusive' per se, but it was a bit much i think...

Thoughts?

I am a very shy and anxious person. I just got a new job (haven't worked in 3 years. Bad epilepsy after car wreck.) and every time i get a customer i absolutely panic haha just need some advice and at calming down a bit. Relax, breathe, all that good stuff.

There is this guy who used to be my friend that invited me to a huge party he was throwing. I accepted and came. Me and this friend have been intimate before and as soon as we got there, he was trying to get me upstairs, which i went.

It gets weird here: We get on his bed but get this... there is an angry, arguing lesbian couple in the other bed in the SAME room. How was he expecting me to want to have sex with him with a couple of lesbos fighting in the same room? I think he wanted to try to coerce them to like, calm down and join us?? What do you guys think??? This is so odd...

My boyfriend got in trouble at his job for flipping off the cameras there and then was late today for work.

He got off work around 3am and chose to go to another employees house to play videos and "talk about management stuff." He gets home around 8:30am-9:00, goes to get an oil change, then back home to sleep. His shift today is 5:30pm and he was 15 min late and his upper manager got mad at him for that and the flipping off thing and then he texts me saying it's not fair. I straight up tell him i agree with the other manager and he's all on FB saying no one ever has his back. Wtf...

I am shy. Very introverted. I have a small group of friends and honestly, that's all i need. My boyfriend is literally forcing me to befriend every single friend he has and it's wearing on my psyche.

He will tell me things like, "I see you posting pics on you IG of you and YOUR friends. Why can't you be like that with MY friends? Are they not good enough for you?" I would -never- say that about another person. I'm not even mean or standoffish towards them! I'm nice, but why be fake and act like i want a super deep, close friendship with them? I don't get it... Help?

I am shy. Very introverted. I have a small group of friends and honestly, that's all i need. My boyfriend is literally forcing me to befriend every single friend he has and it's wearing on my psyche.

He will tell me things like, "I see you posting pics on you IG of you and YOUR friends. Why can't you be like that with MY friends? Are they not good enough for you?" I would -never- say that about another person. I'm not even mean or standoffish towards them! I'm nice, but why be fake and act like i want a super deep, close friendship with them? I don't get it... Help?

We aren't dating anymore btw. Just an intimate friendship now. Judge if you must. How would respond to that?

This doesn't make any sense to me right off the back, but i am willing to listen and learn how this is.

Ok. I met this guy from a dating app, we had one date and it was great honestly. We didn't talk again after that date but i honestly didn't think too much of it because it was my birthday month and i was more focused on making plans for that.

Well almost 3 weeks later, he messages me again and i don't recognize his username and his profile pic is of his torso and he goes on about us seeing each other again and i say i'm sorry but we've gone out before? He then proceeds to tell me i 'must have been on something' for not remembering him and then a series of personal attacks that had nothing to do with anything. So... what? It's not that big a deal...

Lol i'm at my wits end with this poor guy. He hates his looks and his hair and says hes a 3/10 and why would a 10/10 like me like him or whatever. lol help

No worries, wouldn't dare try anything, just wondering if this has happened to anyone else.

I'm 24 and he's 34

I just feel like he says crude stuff to me and it's only a "joke" when i show i didn't find it funny and found it quite offensive.

Example: At the mall, a group of guys and only one girl were taking this huge selfie. (Selfie stick and all.) and i say to him something about wow! thats a lot of guys and only girl. (No, not sure why i said that, but really wasn't trying to hint at anything sexual.) And he says HA you know what that's like don't you? ... Like what? Was that him trying to say i've been in some sort of gang bang?? Because i have no idea why he thinks i would laugh at something like that.

Maybe funny to someone else, maybe i'm too sensitive, but i just couldn't find any humor in him saying that and when i asked him what does he mean, i get a, "Damn, it was just a joke." So... like what???

Bring it on, if you must. I was just watching something and some celebs were put on blast for "disrespecting a moment of silence" in remembrance of that black dude Michael Brown being killed back in like 2014. I was like, honestly, why should they care? Yeah it's sad but like... idgaf

If anyone wonders, i am 24 and he is 34.

We've known each other a good while and decided to give dating a shot. Been nice, but recently, i feel like he's just trying to make me jealous on purpose. Unprovoked and not asked, he told me he's slept with over 150 girls. Ok? Haha good for him i guess. Then he introduces me to his friend (a lady) and i like her just fine! But as we left her house he felt some urge to tell me they used to screw and then say, "...Ha, i mean, i don't know how jealous you get in that little head of yours!" But, and i'm being honest, i wasn't jealous. Like at all. I just find it strange he seems to -want- me to be. So...?

21 years old. Has trouble holding a job due to his bad attitude and would sooner die than admit he was wrong. Obsessed with weed. Doesn't want a real job and just wants to hustle weed which is not legal yet where we live. In public, always has to make a spectacle for attention. Bad hygiene. Sarcastic all the time. But, can also be b kind and caring.

Mom was a prostitute. i never knew. She knew she had it, married, and gave birth. Ugh... i'm just sad.