Jeffrey Reffert

So this girl that I really like got out of a bad break up, and I helped her through it, and we became good friends out of it. Tonight she was going to call me, but she said her grandparents were going to bed and she couldnt call. I was alright with it...until later when she said "Hey I have to go, Matt (Her ex) is calling me :/ gnight!" and I just responded "Oh okay, gnight :)"...but of course... I was DYING on the inside :'( She can get a call from him, but she cant from me...I just am so shocked and hurt that I cant even move. My heart sunk right to the bottom of my stomach...Girls, am I doomed? shes still not over her bf, but I really like her...I feel like she just said hes more important than you...idk am I doomed? Will there ever be a chance for a relationship here?

What on earth does it it mean when she said I had a cute voice?? i have never talked to this girl before and she was walking behind me and told me I had a really cute voice, and when i talked she sorta fangirled haha what the heck does this mean??? does she like me??

this girl came in to help her friend present today in speech class..she was so beautiful omg... I didnt talk to her, but later that day, I saw her in the hall, and she looked at me. No expression but she definitely was looking at me. Shes so pretty, Im thinking about introducing myself to her tomorrow, and telling her that I think shes absolutely gorgeous. is this a good idea? girls what does it mean when you look at a guy in the halls like this? we just happen to look at eachother at the same time, but is there any connection?

Alrght s theres this girl in studyhall. Omg shes beautiful. ive seen her around quite a bit, but now shes in my studyhall and sits very close to me. I sit there every day trying to figure out how the hell im ganna introduce myself. And ive come up with an idea. Tomorrow. When shes sitting in her seat and i am about to pass her desk, ill stop, put my hand on her desk, and say... "hey, whats your name?" (I know what her name is but I never talked to her before in mylife.) And when she answers ill say "well (her name), i just wanted to say i think you are absolutely beautiful." And wait for a response, and walk away. Girls what would you say to that? Do u think abt how hard it was for someone to actually do that? What would your reaction be if you had no idea who they were.

Im asking a girl out to the winter formal dance...but Im doing it in a very special way. I recently joined the Army and she always says shes so proud of me. So, I decided to ask her out in my military uniform with flowers. Girls, How would you feel if a guy did that for you? would it make a difference?

i see this girl I go to school with but never saw. How do I start the convo if she accepts my friend request?? help? like what do I say?

She already told me shes ganna say yes, but I wanna make it cute and something she;ll remember

Is this good?

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Christina- The past 17 weeks have been the happiest of my life. You have given me so much to live for. I have cherished everyday I've spent with you. I promise that I will always love you, protect you, and care for you, will you be my girlfriend?

she already said she wants to date me like ASAP and tomarrow were hanging out and I wanna ask her. im not afraid cuz I know shes ganna say yes, I just want to make it cute, and something she will remember forever. Heres what im thinking.

"sam- the past 17 weeks have been the happiest of my life. You have given me the greatest gift a man can ever get. You have shown me what love really means. The road ahead may be tough (cuz Im joining the military) but, I want to spend it with you. Will you be my girlfriend?" any suggestions?

girls what would you say?

well i know this girl and we talk once in a while since she sits next to me in spanish. and i started talkn to her on twitter and we hit it off great until,,,i asked for her number....no responsse:/ my initial thought was...NOT GOOD... but she kept on favoriting... and when my brother texted her she said no i dont hate him- and give my number to ur brother- and i cant text tonite but i can tomarrow:) what does this mean??? does she like me or does she feel bad. my brother never mentioned a phone number. all he said was that i thought she hated me. wat does this mean>???

well i knew this girl from my english class and we sit right next to her, but weve only talked maybe 2 times and on friday she and i started talking on twitter so I chatted it up and I sent her a gmorning message the next day- she favorited it and retweeted it. I kept commenting on her stuff and she favorited alot and as soon as I say hey i gatta go, can u text me- she didnt respond... I was worried. but then i commented again and she favorited that. then I said good night- no comment. then I said gmorning and she favorited that this morning... whats going on here? does she like me? is she playing hard to get? what does this normally mean from a girl?

Then just now, my brother texted her and said she doesnt hate me,and to pass her number to me. My thought on this was- well she doesnt hate me, but that doesnt mean she likes me tho either. but why did she want me to have her number tho? does this mean theres a chance she likes me?? i know its a lil complex- thank you for answering!

is this good? when she sets all of her stuff down I say "wow____ you look absolutely beautiful."

is this good? when she sets all of her stuff down I say "wow____ you look absolutely beautiful."

if a guy you know said to you: "wow,___you look absolutely beautiful today!" what would u say/do?

when you walked into a classroom and a guy you talk to a little bit said "wow ___, you look amazing today!"

what would you say if you walked into a room and a guy saw you and said "wow, you look absolutely gorgeous today!"

well i like this girl and she sits next to me in class, and i walk her to homeroom after. How do I flirt with her in class and when Im walkin with her? like stuff to say or do

well she and I have been talkin and I think shes really cool, and this is how I wanna ask her for her number. " sarah, you seem like a realyy cool girl, would u wanna text sometime?" is this good?

well im 15 and shes 13 and like weve known eachother forever and she seems to get really close to me once in a while. like when were sitting on the bench our legs will touch or our shoulders will bruch, and i put my arm around her and it doesnt seem to phase her like she doesnt like it but she doesnt seem to mind either. Im kinda confused. does she like me?

well i think im in love with this girl that ive known forever, and thing is she has a bf and theyre going on 3 months now. Idk how long its ganna last. But i rellly want her bad, and she sees me as an older brother, im 15 shes 14, and i asked to go out to lunch as friends this week, and she said ya, so im taking her out as friends, good step, but i know theyre bound to break up soon, and when they do, how do i capitalize on it?

ive gone on a no sugar diest and im running 3 miles in boots and heavy pants everyday. im doing exercise in the pool with laps and underwater swims (30 ft). Then i run 3 more fast miles in shorts and running shoes. am i off to a good start?