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Fight for it, or let it go?
I need some advice on what to do here. There's this girl that I've been going out with for about 8 months. I love her, I thought she loved me. Well we have been broken up for about 2 weeks now, and it's driving me crazy...But she already moved on, and has another boyfriend. The reason we broke up is because I got her pregnant, her parents found out, and they decided to get an abortion. I didn't really want an abortion, but I didn't want to ruin her life either, so I just went with what she wanted to do. So basically her parents hate me now, tht's why we broke up, and it just kills me to see that she's happy with another guy. It's really getting hard for me to get over her. Should I just sit back and watch, or should I beg!? I don't want to seem like that annoying guy that wont get over her, but I am. I just feel like i'm in love with her, and I've felt that way for the longest, and to see her do this just crushes me. She's 16 and I'm 17 btw if that clears **** up a bit. She's going out with a 19 year old now. Arggghhh idk what i should do :( I tried talking to other girls but they just aren't like her. I'm just in love and idk how to get out of it, she could have been my kids mother which gives me some sort of connection for some reason (the abortion is a whole other story though), I dont see how she can just move on while i'm just dangling. Please help:(
2 AnswersOther - Family & Relationships1 decade agoIs this an illegal search?
Okay, here's how the situation went down. I'm 17 and I went to the local Shnucks to get some gum and a Pop. On the way out when I got in my car I accidentally bumped a concrete light pole going about 4-5 mph, I quickly stopped and checked for damages to my car in the parking lot. The only damage done was a scratch to the plastic covering of my front plate. I got back into my car and drove to Sonic to eat, before I was about to pull out of Sonic a Undercover police officer pulled me over and asked me to step out of my car. I asked "What seems to be the problem officer?" He shined a flashlight in my face and asked if I've had anything to drink or to smoke. I told him the truth and said No. Then another police car arrived, and the officer asked me about the light pole I hit and saying thats why he pulled me over. I told him it was a simple mistake and that no damage was done. He then asked me if I smoked weed, He claims he brought the subject up through my Bob Marley shirt. I told him no I don't which was a lie. He then opened my car door and shined a flashlight all through my car, then walked away. He told the other officer that they need to search the car. I said "I don't consent to any searches sir." and then he got up in my face telling me he could tow my car away right now, and he threatened to bring the dogs. I told him I was just making him aware that I don't consent. He then started searching unjustly, no dogs were brought and he did not see anything in the open nor' did he smell anything. As they searched they found a glass pipe, and a homemade pipe under my seat. (I also had 2 friends in the car and they pulled them out and searched, found dip on one). They didn't find anything else. He came over to me then and asked if I knew where to get some weed. I said no sir'. He harassed me about it and I remained silent. He then told me to get in my car and go and I thanked him. He did not charge me with anything or do anything. But I was wondering if that was a legal search or not. If they did take me to court over the pipes or give me a ticket and I took it to court, would they win? Is it just because there police and better? Why was I searched, the officer claimed it was for a 'Hit and Run' but I don't think they can search under my situation.
Thanks.
5 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade agoIs this legal or not?
So I was txting some chick I've never met in person, but she lives in the same town as me though...I was txting dirty to her b/c I just thought it was funny ha and I'm talking real dirty like (i wanna lick ur butthole) n stuff rofl! ... Anyways today someone txted me from the number saying that I should never txt her again and that she is going to show the texts to her attorney and get me arrested? I'm not really scared or anything because I'm pretty sure there is no law saying its illegal for me to txt a grl dirty...Am I right? And plus She went along with it so how would I be the bad guy?
Anyways I was just doing it for fun bc I knew that i probably would never see her...
The person that texted me said that it was her mom and keeps threatining to arrest me or something...
I'm 16 and she said that she is 15, so a 1 year age difference.
Can someone tell me the possibilities of this situation!?
good answer 10 pts!
7 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade agoI don't understand money!?
This is gonna' be hard to explain but hopefully you'll catch my drift...
I don't understand why we really need money, or where money comes from...
Like I know we need money to do practically anything, but where did this even come from? What makes a piece of paper so valuable? I'd understand if it was like gold or something rare, but government could print out trillions of dollars and use it for whatever they wanted couldn't they? Who's to say they can't? I just don't get how the money system works for a country...
I know they it's pretty much impossible for everything to be free, and I understand that to get goods we have to pay other countries money, but couldn't the other countries just do the same? I mean what would happen if money didn't exist and we just traded like the old'n days? I don't really know how to explain what I'm trying to say haha...
Just imagine a world without money...Wouldn't everything be the same pretty much? Or is money just used as motivation so we can have people do labor and what not? But you wouldn't really need motivation because there isn't that much competition over who's getting the most money. You would just work to do what you need to do to survive.
IDK I'm confusing myself haha
Well hope this makes since, and 10 points goes to whoever helps me understand money better!! :D
32 AnswersInternational Organizations1 decade agoRight to Remain Silent/Self Incrimination?
I'm talking about in school systems and by police.
I was in a situation where I was being questioned by my principals and a police officer to tell them who all was involved in an illegal activity, and they said that if I don't tell I would be expelled for 2 semesters instead of 1, and the officer said that he'd charge me with a felony if I didn't tell instead of just a misdemeanor... Now to me this seems extremely ****** up, But I'd like a person with alot of experience under law and what not, I am under 18 but does that mean I have no effin rights?
IDK someone please help me!
3 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade agoCan you be punished more for not telling?
I'm talking about in school systems and by police.
I was in a situation where I was being questioned by my principals and a police officer to tell them who all was involved in an illegal activity, and they said that if I don't tell I would be expelled for 2 semesters instead of 1, and the officer said that he'd charge me with a felony if I didn't tell instead of just a misdemeanor... Now to me this seems extremely ****** up, But I'd like a person with alot of experience under law and what not, I am under 18 but does that mean I have no effin rights?
IDK someone please help me!
5 AnswersLaw Enforcement & Police1 decade agoSoundproof a little bit?
I'd like to soundproof my room just a tad, not nothing extreme...
Problem: I sleep with my TV on, My TV is against my wall, on the other side of the wall is my parents bed, my parents always tell me to turn it down to were I can barely hear it.
Would be much appreciated if you guys know a way to fix this problem besides moving my TV hah...
Again I don't want to do nothing major like tearing out my wall and junk...
Thanks :) 10 pts best strategy
7 AnswersDo It Yourself (DIY)1 decade ago