TwyztedChyck

I have been very happily married to a great guy for 3 years. No problems. Then suddenly, a week ago, my ex whom I divorced 16 years ago called me up. He wants me back in no uncertain terms. I still love him. He was my first everything. I can't help it. But I also truly love my current husband. He has been wonderful to me. I have no viable reason to leave him. I will always love my ex, and I have always regretted ever divorcing him. I stupidly thought he was immature and unmotivated, so I left him for another man (didn't work out). I am so confused. I love them both. My current husband doesn't know my ex and I are speaking. I can't bring myself to tell him. He will flip. He will leave, I know it. I really do love my current husband. I do not want to hurt him. I could live the rest of my life happily in love with either one of them. The question is which one?