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I was in a relationship with a great guy, we were only together for 3 months and I found out I was pregnant after being carefull!!! and it was after we had decided to end the relationship..

I always thought I would know how I would feel in this situation, my head is telling me that I am not ready for a baby, I am on a very low income and will not be able to support the baby very well... my ex, who has stood by me thoughout the very long and painful process on the NHS waiting list has said that he is really not ready and cannot afford to bring up a child...

However my heart is telling me another thing.... I am due to have an abortion next week, I am very scared of the procedure (surgical) and scared of how I will feel after...

Any advice from those who have been in the same/similar situation would be appreciated xx

I started seeing this guy a month ago and for the first two weeks things were really really intense and he seemed really interested.. in terms of texting taking me out... meeting up etc.. he said the best things to me...

Things all got a bit insense and so we decided to calm things down a bit... that was a mutual decision as we were both scared as we had got really close...

now he hardly texts, i feel like I am chasing him and even though I do see him, its once a week and although he seems interested its very different..

should i bother?? is he really bothered?

I went on a date with a great guy I met a few weeks ago, and for the past two weeks things have been really intense, he has been really interested and caring..

However... I have been working shed loads... as I have two jobs...ended up burning myself out and texting him loads on friday after far too many vodkas. I txt to apologise... and I kind of got scared as we really hit it off... then told him maybe we need a breather as it was all getting too intense..

He agreed and said how scared he was and didn't want anything too serious...

Things are very awkawrd now and he wants to meet up and keep things really chilled... slightly scared as I don't want to loose him hes the best thing thats happened to me for a long time... how should I act and what will scare him off??

when it comes to asking someone whether they want to meet up again and they say 'never say never'... they just mean no right?

I went to see an old friend who I used to like a couple of years ago, and we had a great time... we ended up sleeping together, but now he seems distant, and the texts have changed, even though he said he doesn't do one night stands, and was really caring... has he had second thoughts?

I used to work with this guy when i was a holiday rep and he worked for the same company! We always got on well and as I was with someone at the time nothing ever happened. We have kept in email contact with him and I am going to see him next weekend and staying over at his place which is a few hours away....

I am kind of concerened that he will think I have changed too much... and I am not what i was a few years ago... any tips on stopping being so nervous and how i should act?

This bar shift was originally mine and on saturday she said that she would like to do this particular shift instead, so offered to me and the manager who thought it was set in stone... I text her to confirm yesterday... she said she had the flu so prob wouldn't be able to do it, but would if i was desperate...

Me being a mate, thought bless her she has the flu, no worries will do the shift... i get there where she then decides to have a bottle of wine next to the bar with my flatmate and then go home and have a meal and get pissed at ours!!!

She is wondering what my problem is, I have confronted her, but she is a real ***** if you get on the wrong side of her so will now make my life hell...

What should i do I am working three nights this week??

Nightmare before xmas or what!!

Me and my flatmate nromally get on really well, we pay the same for the flat, and every time she has people over she expects me to go to my bedroom, so she have privacy...

I told her I felt a bit uncomfortable and a stranger in my own home and she has flipped out..... what should i do?

I have been a holiday rep and been working as a Receptionist for the past two years... I have decided to go back to uni next year, will I find it difficult being amongst young students?

He is the only person I have been with in the past year, and twice we were not safe... I know he has the all clear, but how can this be so?

She has got to be the most real person in that house!! Afterall we all do silly things and say silly things!! I think she is fab... sompared to stroppy Nikki where all she has to do is throw a tantrum and she gets what she wants.. sick of it!

My ex is saying that there is no way he could have given me chlamydia as we never had full sex without protection.

I was with him for a year and never cheated, and the health advisor has said it is most likely I got it in the past year...

I don't sleep around, but have been very foolish in the past when I was younger with a couple of people. I never cheated on this guy, but now I have told him he thinks i am a slag, even though he may have given it to me.

I have been treated and he is going this week.

How do I approach him again, and how do I deal with the comments that will inevitably be said as he is in the same kind of mate group as me?

I feel so ashamed and embarassed... Some advice would be great guys....