college girl

I recently started seeing a great guy. This will be our first Valentines Day together, so I'd like to do something to impress him. I was thinking about preparing a candlelit dinner <3 I'm a pretty good cook, but the catch is that he's diabetic and has a HUGE sweettooth lol.

He hates Splenda. I want to give him something yummy that wont hurt him. We'd both greatly appreciate any tips/recipes :) thanks!

I usually consider us a mature couple. I love him. Just to give you an idea of the seriousness I'll share that we're planning to move in this winter. He talks about marriage and money. We're comfortable with eachother's families. It's a normal, healthy kind of relationship with frequent sex and intimacy. I like to keep him on his toes. I'll send pictures or talk dirty... whatever.

It was during one of those talks that he asked me how I felt about a threesome. In the moment I was aroused and played into the conversation. I've kissed a few girls, no big deal. Ultimately, I started to get turned off when he got more excited than I thought was appropriate. He asked if the third could be a hispanic woman. I am not hispanic. I know that he had a thing a while back with a Puerto Rican bombshell before I knew him. Now I worry that he might not be over her.

This conversation brought out a lot of my insecurities. I wonder if he's comparing me to his past, or this picture in his head. I feel like if he pursues a threesome, then I will be disgusted by him, and less attracted. I'm not sure how to handle this. It's like all of a sudden, I'm no longer confident and sexually adventurous. Part of me even wants to break up- I know that's rash, but I'm totally over thinking everything now. Any advice?