Samatha

I dated a guy that I worked with for about a month. We saw each other every day at work and after, spent a great deal of time together. The relationship started off very fast and it felt like we had been dating for 3 or 4 months instead of just one. He shared an incredible amount of personal information about himself to me. I really thought I knew him. Everything seemed great. One day out of the blue he stopped calling and texting. I tried to ask if everything was okay and his response was he didn't have an answer for me. Now I have to work with him everyday and keep wondering why this ended so abruptly. It hurts to see him everyday and work seems very unbearable theses days. What do you suggest I do?

I've been dating this guy for three weeks now, he started off the first week calling me several times a day and hanging out frequently and now I am only hearing from him in once every other day. He says that he's still interested but just busy with other things in his life right now. He's been blowing me off lately also. He also wants to slow things down and says he needs to figure himself out before getting serious. He says he doesn't want to lose me in this process but I cant help but feel like i'm getting played. What do you think is really going on here?

I've been dating this guy for three weeks now, he started off the first week calling me several times a day and hanging out frequently and now I am only hearing from him in once every other day. He says that he's still interested but just busy with other things in his life right now. He's been blowing me off lately also. He also wants to slow things down and says he needs to figure himself out before getting serious. He says he doesn't want to lose me in this process but I cant help but feel like i'm getting played. What do you think is really going on here?

I just broke up with my BF of 3 years. I recently went through a tough year of my parents divorce and that put a lot of strain on our relationship. He was the only stable thing in my life at this time, how could he leave me like that. How do i move on now?

Me and my boyfriend have been doing this long distance relationship for 2 1/2 years now. He promised that we could move in together finally in april. He got a job offer even further away and took the job with out even look at other options. I love him and he loves me. This long distance relationship is so hard, and I really am frustrated with his decision to move further away instead of moving in with me and at least looking for work in my area as he promised. I can't move with him as I am still in graduate school and have 3 more years left. What do you all think about his decison to take the job?

Me and my boyfriend have been doing this long distance relationship for 2 1/2 years now. He promised that we could move in together finally in april. He got a job offer even further away and took the job with out even look at other options. I love him and he loves me. This long distance relationship is so hard, and I really am frustrated with his decision to move further away instead of moving in with me and at least looking for work in my area as he promised. I can't move with him as I am still in graduate school and have 3 more years left. What do you all think about his decison to take the job?

I dated this guy for two months. It was a very short relationship. The reason that it ended was because he went back to his ex girlfriend. I still think about him everyday. There is always somthing that triggers a memory of him. I know that we would never get back together. I've tried being incredibly busy, i've dated many other men since him. But i can't seem to lose him from my mind. This is hindering my current relationship. How do i forget him and move on. Its been a year and several months. What do i do??

My ex dumped me a year ago. When he did i was crushed and even to this day it still hurts. I had a connection with him that ive never had with anyone else. Im now dating someone else who i really do like. But we don't have that same connection and it isn't as strong as it was with my ex. I still miss my ex a lot. He recently contacted me and told me that he had made a huge mistake and he wants to get back together. He told me everything that i've wanted to hear from him for that entire year. What should i do. I like my boyfriend but my ex and i have a stronger connection, but he hurt me when we broke up and who's to say he wouldn't do i again.

Okay, dated this guy for only 2 months, i was absolutely crazy about him, i have never felt this this for someone before. I thought he felt the same, but i guess not; he dumped me. Its been 7 months he still wears my pink pony tail tie on his writs, i don't want to read into it much, but i've been thinking about it a lot lately. We speak here and there. He left for Europe 2 months ago and will return in 4 months. Do you think there is any meaning behind this; or am i being completely pathetic?

So I think that i got an STI from this jerk, he told me the that he had chlamydia one month prior to us dating; he claimed that he'd taken all the medication and it was gone, i trusted him. I think that i've got it now. I scheduled an appointment with the free clinic by me. I cant get in for a week. The other med. center by me charges 80$ a visit. Is it okay to wait a week, They symptoms are not Major YET.??? what do you think? Should i go to the 80$ med center, or wait a week for the free clinic, i figure meds are going to cost me big bucks....

Well, i felt like i was gonna get blown off by this guy i was seening for about 6 weeks. We had slept together already, and spent a lot of time with each other every week. We agreed to not be serious, but he constantly told me he was only seeing me and no one else. A week ago he stopped answering my texts and i hadn't seen him in a week. I was at a friends party, saw him there and walked up to him and said, I don't like being ignored. I wish you would have been a man and just told me to my face that you didn't want to see me anymore. Instead of stringing me along and blowing me off all week. He look very confused a first. He said that i was to good for him and didn't want to hurt me. He then told me that were not right for each other. At some point in the conversation he basically said he was no good. Did I over react about this whole thing and jump the gun? Did i make myself look like an ***? I feel kind of bad about it... it was only a week but.... i felt frustrated with him... should i have waited it out a bit longer?

So i've been seeing this guy for about a month. We see each other a couple times a week, usually when he's got work off. Last weekend he was gone with friends and i didn't get to see him, this weekend the same. It seems like he isn't making time for me anymore? Now when i text him it take more than an hour for him to respond. I don't understand what happened. Do you think that this relationship is going to end soon...

My relationships never seem to last longer than a month, what the hell is wrong with me?? apparenlty its me....

Well, me and my ex broke up about five months ago and we haven't spoken much since then. Just a little bit here and there. He dumped me. We ended on good terms i guess. When we meet up recently he was still wearing the bracelet i gave him. Its really not a cool bracelet at all. Its just a brown piece of string pretty ugly actually. But i would have thought he'd taken it off by now. Does it mean anything?

my ex is an extremely sentimental guy.

and I saw two months ago he had a bunch of bracelets on on and last time I saw him he had taken all of them off except for that piece of string. In my mind I'm still hoping that maybe he wants to get back together, or is that just completely ridiculous?

Well, me and my ex broke up about five months ago and we haven't spoken much since then. Just a little bit here and there. He dumped me. We ended on good terms i guess. When we meet up recently he was still wearing the bracelet i gave him. Its really not a cool bracelet at all. Its just a brown piece of string pretty ugly actually. But i would have thought he'd taken it off by now. Does it mean anything?

My ex texts me at least once a week. Just random things. sometimes saying he misses hanging out and such. I always reply, kindly. He never seems to reply to my messages though. If he wants to stay friends way does he keep doing this? Hes not the kind of guy to call me up for a booty call. We both really valued our friendship. Why doesn't he respond to my messages?

A good friend of mine I've known for quite a while now, got dumped by his girlfriend of 5 years. Apparently because she thought that He was into me. She was very jealous of me and him being friends, and she thought that we had something going on. We didn't. Anyways.. now He is hitting on my younger sister and it is all really weird to me. I don't know how I feel about this. Maybe I've always had a little crush on him . And well, I kind of always thought that he had a crush on me. But kept things strictly Friends, because he had a girlfriend. But all I really want is to just remain friends, and once he starts dating my sister, our friendship will end. This has happen before and it seems like we can never keep the friendship so. What do you think of this situation? What do you suggest. Don't tell me to talk to them about this. Any other suggestions?

So this guy that i've been dating for for about three months was crazy about me. He was so crazy about me I never saw what was coming. He dumped me. Every thing was amazing and going well. Then out of the blue, in a matter of two or three days, I could tell things were slowing down a bit, which was a bit odd, but I didn't think much of it. and well, he dumped me. I asked what had changed and he said that he needed to sort a few things out. And that nothing had changed how crazy he was about me (Well apparently something did). This has happened before. What is wrong with me? How can a guy be so madly in love with me, and then in a matter of a few days end things or become disinterested. Why does this keep happening? Is it me?

I dated this guy for two months.I know that it wasn't long at all, but i was crazy about him. I miss him so much. Everything I see and hear and do reminds me of him. Its been two months and it still hurts just as bad as the day he dumped me. Everyone i've dated since then just doesn't compare to him. I hate this. I just want to be friends again. But I don't know what to do. I feel like he was the only one who really knows ME, and gets me. Why can't we just be Friend. I went to a play with him the other day. We had gotten the tickets when we were dating but still we but with our own friends. I felt as if he was ignoring me the whole night, and it really hurt. He was never like this, not even when we were just friends in the beginning. Maybe I was the one ignoring him too but still. I really wish i could move on, I really do. What do you think about this situation. Should i do something?, why was he ignoring me the whole night?

Hey this question is mainly for guys. Says there is this girl you've been gone out with a few times, you both are at his place and it has gotten pretty late. He asks if you want to sleep over. If I say yes is he expecting sex? Yes or no. (please no lecture answers, telling me to have this conversation with the guy before hand, thanks)

So I recently got dumped by my bf of 3 months. We were really good friend before all of this. After he dumped me, he called me a lot and e-mailed be wanting to hangout and just talk to me, knowing him, i knew he didn't want me back or anything, he just missed our friendship. but I just made excuses and have been avoiding him for a few weeks now. I recently go an e-mail from him and he wanted to hangout. I now think that i'm ready to be friends again, and when i responded to to the e-mail he didn't respond back. what the hell does this mean? He was trying to be friends again for the past few weeks and I wasn't, and now that i'm trying hes not. Whats going on?