Alysha

A friend of mine has a son, and she's pregnant now with a daughter. She and her husband live in low income housing, and their neighbor smokes pot a lot. The smell gets into the apartment no matter what they do, towels under all the doors, covering the vents, and opening all the windows(not currently, cause it's -10 and winter, but during the summer they did). The pot gets so bad that sometimes I have to leave because of my sinus issues. Their son is a year and a half, and he starts coughing really bad whenever the neighbors are smoking, and he cries a lot. They don't have enough money to move, and the landlord said there was nothing he could do about it. The neighbors don't care that it's harming the kid, and the police have declined to do anything. I don't want the baby to develop asthma, either for the current baby or the new one, and I was thinking I would buy them an air purifier to put in the kid's room. That way when the neighbors are smoking pot they could put the kids in the room, turn the air purifier on high, and maybe put a towel under the door too. I can't find anything on if air purifiers help with thc though. Does anyone know if it would work? I really wish they would just move, but there's very few low income housing in our city, and they don't have a lot of money for a place.

I met my boyfriend through a close Friend of mine, who is married to my boyfriend's best friend. She and the boyfriend are also goof friends, and have been since highschool. The four of us would hang out together a lot, and then I recently started dating my boyfriend. I thought my friend would be thrilled, but she seemed kind of put off, and talked about how much she liked my boyfriend's ex. Recently she seemed to warm up to our relationship, even taking the bf shopping for Christmas gifts for me. Then this morning I woke up to a text from her that she'd had a sex dream about him, and was feeling really guilty. At first it didn't bug me, but the more I've thought about it's bugging me. She and he spend a lot of time together, and i trust him not to do anything, but I'm worried that she does have feelings for him. Should I be wary?

My desktop computer did not have wireless internet in it, so I bought a D-link wireless adapter to make it wireless. I have a Linksys router, and the wireless adapter can obviously find the router, but even when it shows it is connected it still won't go onto the internet. I've tried everything, and I'm about to throw it out the window.

and what could I do to fix it?

I'm feeling very uncomfortable about the online relationship that my friend has started. She's 20 years old and has never dated before, and he's 22 and has been previously engaged. They've only been together for two weeks, and already he's applied for jobs up here in Alaska (he's in Indiana right now) and is planning on coming up in the next few weeks. She's already said that she's in love with him, and it sounds like they've started planning on a long future together.

I tried to be happy for her, but I'm really worried about the situation. I tried talking to him, and all the messages that he sent seemed fine, but there was inconsistencies with things he told me about himself, and things that his facebook profile says. I've tried talking to her about this, and getting her to slow down, but she's not listening. What can I do before she makes a big mistake?

Lately whenever I eat a lot of meat (by a lot I mean a steak, or chicken breast, or burger patty) I've started to feel sick. I've also been in a lot of pain in my side areas around my kidneys, but they ruled out any kidney diseases at the hospital. I went without eating meat for a week, and the pain was completely gone. I'm wondering if there's any disease out there, or something, that could make a body unable to properly process meat, because I can't find one online.

I talked to my manager about it, and he said there's nothing that can be done, but since they don't let us keep our coats with us, and there are no security cameras where they make us leave our coats, does that make them liable? I'd accidentally left my camera in my coat that day, and when I got back it wasn't there. I have pictures on there of some really important events, and I haven't had a chance to put it onto my computer back.. I really want my camera back.

Awhile after we got engaged, I realized that my fiance's porn habit was getting out of control. He'd go two weeks without having sex with me, but he'd watch porn at least every day. I got him to agree to stop, and for awhile it went well. Now about six months later the sex has died down, and he's getting angry and me if I mention it. I can't find any proof of it, but how could I tell if he's been watching porn again?

My fiancee and I got engaged about three months ago, and at first it was great. I told him from the begining that I am not going to marry someone who looks at porn, so he said he would quit, then I found out later that he'd just lied and hidden it from me... multiple times. There was also a girl at his work who I'd once heard flirting with him while he and I were on the phone, he wouldn't tell her who he was talking to, and I found out later that she'd slapped his *** on a seperate occasion, and he didn't say anything to her about it. I decided to snoop a bit, and I found a draft message that he'd written but not sent on myspace saying "hey, I was just looking at your profile and it looked really interesting. You're the sort of person I'd really like to get to know, so message me back' I know him, and that's not the sort of way he talks to a guy... he says he didn't send it, and doesn't remember who it was too... but he also deleted all his inbox and outbox messages. He keeps telling me he's sorry, and I need to trust him... but I just feel like he'll lie to me again. I don't know what to do.

I've been searching the internet like crazy, and I can't find a good answer. I wanted lilacs at my wedding, but my fiancee wants to get married on August 1st... so I'm wondering if there's anyway to get lilacs in August... if anyone knows, or could help me, that would be really awesome!

my boyfriend recently asked me to marry him, and I said yes. While we were going over the wedding plans, he said that he's always wanted his best friend to be his best man... the only problem is that his best friend has been deployed to Korea since he and I started dating, and when he comes back he'll be living in Washington, while we live in Alaska. I don't feel comfortable having a man I've never met, who all I've heard about him is that he drinks, and he and his wife can't stay faithfull to each other, giving a speech at my wedding. Every time that I bring this up to my fiance, he says that if his best man can't give a speech in the wedding, then he doesn't want my maid of honor in the wedding at all. He's met my maid of honor on many occasions, and it frustrates me a lot.

My boyfriend wants me to spend the night all the time, but he won't quit snoring! i can't sleep with him, but I feel horrible not spending the nights when he asks... he's tried a lot of different things, but it just doesn't work! are there any good ways to either block it out, or get him to stop?

Every time that I've had sex it makes my stomach hurt a lot... It's this weird pain, like sharp knives cutting into the insides of my actual stomach. I don't know how to describe it very well, it just hurts... and this past time was with a new guy, and he was very... well endowed... and it hurts super bad right now... Can someone please explain for me why it hurts, and what I can do to make it not.

I think I'm pregnant. I've missed my period, i've got all the symptoms, and I'm taking a pregnancy test Tuesday morning to confirm it. The father already knows what's going on, to a slight extent of the little he's allowed me to tell him... which was, "My period is late, and I'm taking a test soon to confirm it. Don't worry, don't panic. i'll give you an update when I know more" after his first statement of that he was kind of scared, he hasn't really talked to me. We're not dating, but we are really close friends, and we slept togeather a couple of times. We talked about what we would do a few weeks ago if I did get pregnant, and he said we'd raise the baby togeather. Then yesterday I tol d him that there's a chance I'm pregnant, and he just kinda stopped talking to me. he said he's busy, he was at the gym, or studying for calc. but I feel like we need to talk about this. Should I try and get him to talk to me, or just let him totally block me out? oh, btw, I'm 17.

So, I was out with my boyfriend today, and we decided to have sex... But I feel like it didn't go right... Like, I've never had sex before, and I heard that it hurts. and that you bleed... But this didn't hurt, and I didn't bleed... And it just wasn't all that good.... So, I'm wondering, is there any chance that he didn't go in all the way, or something else like that that would make it so that it didn't happen right?? I dunno, I'm just feeling like it was supposed to be a lot different.