miss misschiff

was brought home at 8wks i started to socilze F with M. M being a year old male wanted to Screw F to death. well F didnt like M doin that i tryed to stop it and the owners of M told me to take my hands off they dog. mind you this is after i had asked them to stop M. F is gonna be kinda on the large side when she gits older at least 120 lbs. M is full growen at 6lbs, i asked Ms owners not to let M out side to play when F is goin potty but she still dose this, knowing that M is gonna try to screw F and F dont like it. i tryed to tell her that F is gonna git fed up with it and when F dose im not gonna stop F from puttin M in his place. the female owner looks at me and said well then git rid of your dog my dogs not mean couldnt hurt a 2day old baby, well 3days later M was let out again while F was goin potty F behaved nicely, when outta the blue, M teeth and all lunged for Fs neck. i let it go and now F trys to play (tho rough) M trys to kill her. wat should i say to the owners of M??

my family has had a number of dogs and cats, we just got an american bull dog,(now 9-1/2wks) we leave the crate open for her to go in and out during the day for a 'good' crate experence. but at nite when we put her in it and close the door (awake or already asleep) she starts barking, whining, scratching, and biting the door. it gets so loud it wakes my 2 yr old son, i dont want to give in to her but i also dont want to wake up and step in pee or poo with the lights off at 4 am if my son wakes up, as she wont wake me up in the early am and is not yet fully potty trained. help ive tryed every thing i can think of.