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ive been offered to move in with a mate of mine. shes working and im on jsa. would i be able to claim housing benefit and still get jsa if were sharing a flat? she doesn't make much money or anything.

I've been dating this girl for around three months now (although she's been away on holiday for three weeks) and she says she wants to wait for sex. The reason for this is that she's just come out of a long term relationship with her first boyfriend who she was going out with for four years, since she was 17, she split up with him in February. I don't mind that in principle but it's getting to the stage now where it's effecting the natural development of our relationship, to the point where I kind of have to keep my options open, even though I'm crazy about her and don't want to see anyone else. I'm pretty sure she feels the same way about me too. I mean, we kiss and hold hands and stuff but haven't taken things any further.

The simple answer is 'just wait' but I have been and will continue to if neccessary but ultimately, we're both adults and physical intimacy is an important part of an adult relationship and if that's missing, is it a relationship at all?