Ameille N

There this man I've been going with for two years...the whole time he was married. Im not really the type to do something like that. I dont want somebodies leftovers or somebody who has the serious potential to hurt me because they cant give me fully what I want. I dont know how I did it, but I did--and was never unhappy.

The man gives me everything I want, but I hold him to be my friend before anything elese, because we can talk to each other about everything---there are no boundaries. First it was just sex, then dates, trips, diamonds...wtf....I didn't expect this. Then we tried to have a baby....

Watever anyway. The only problem, of course, would be his wife...I never had a problem with her, but because that is TRULY her man, she has a problem. She slowly started to suspect, woman's intuition, and now she really seems to suspect. She's mad, of course.

What I dont understand is that this man works his *** of for her. Gives her everything she wants and more, does everything for their kids, and even acts as a father to a child that's not his. The woman will get a job, a month later quit. The marriage is evidently not fifty-fifty, but our relationship always has been because I cannot allow somebody to do everything for me. It goes against my heart. I've never been that type of person....

She's always bitching about something---and I've even held off our relationship for a time to see if her behavior would change if she did indeed have him all to herself. She's never happy and she never has to lift a finger. I dont get it....he's tired.

Something has happened where he has to be away for a while, and with him gone she totally flips. She understands why he has to go, and his disapearance is not the issue...Her belief that he is unfaithfull is. She plans too leave, forget what's good for the children.... but I know this has been a long time comming, far before me....

SO why they hell do I feel like shiit?

Why the hell is this hag always so damn unhappy?

AND what the hell do you think he should do about these situations---

me and her, cus it's very obvious sh'es done....?

HELP. I want real answers dont just answer because you want a petty two points.

I'm Camille and I'll be seventeen on New Years, and pole dancing/ stripping is my dream. Im not the averge teenager....

I moved out my parents house at sixteen, and I live with my god-brother and his family. I pay bills just like everyone else in the house although I've never been asked to--- my nephews daycare bills, my neices phone bills...I dont ask for anything. All the clothes I have I bought & I help go shopping and buy things for the house.

How am I getting all this money? I dont have a job, although I've looked long and hard, and continue to look, I dont ask my parents back home for money....Im a prostitute. I know, not the best career choice right?

I make decent money--- I learned how to seperate myself from my emotions a long time ago. Some of the people even want to ACTUALLY help you. Im proffessional, and a proffessional. But truly, I would rather be working at a club on stage. That's my dream.

There are pole-dancing aerobic classes---but they require for someone to be 18 and up to register...So, Im looking for someone, or some classes that would teach me and help me flourish. Money is not a problem, if I were to register at a gym somewhere, I'd be paying anyway.

Can anybody help me?

Atlanta

ya---I kno, sorry another question about my boyfriend, we've been goin out since his birthday, otherwise known as the night when Chicago failed to win the superbowl, Febuary 4th. We love each other so much. If I'm feelin lazy and been as bitchy as I want, of course when I'm on my period, he's the perfect sweetheart, understanding, caring, and patient. Everything I need. When he seems irate or has a problem we talk, kiss do what ever, play video games untill he feels at ease.

His mother and my father, as you may know. are goin out. When they found out we'd had sex a while back, they were mad as hell, said we couldn't go out, etc, so we'd kept it on the low... Is it wrong to love each other so much and be goin out? Or parens are never gonna marry, they've both been through divorces and still say they never want to marry again, and in the mean time our relationship has blossomed and taken turns that have only made it better in the long run.

OK, this is really weird but I noticed this maybe three or four months ago in my realtionship. me and my boyfriend share everything, and one of our favorite things to share is our bed...

NO not in the sexual way, I mean, we sleep so much better in the same bed. It feels like heaven, I've said anad he's said it...we've both admitted when the other is not sleeping in the same bed the sleep leaves us still fatigued, jet-lagged and strained, instead of sleepin on clouds it feels like we've been lounging all day on jagged rocks. Is there some kind of scientific answer? Or really any explanation for this? H.E.L.P

ok---I'm having a hard tim takin a break with my bf, but it's necessary because our parents r suspicious n we're not supposed 2 b datin since they r...what do i do?

what's the spot for a guy?

tell me---guys only

what do you GUYS consider the best thing for a girl to do during sex?

My boyfriend for some unknown reason really doesn't like me to buy him things, he allowed it like---once or twice, but he really otherwise won't allow it. He's got a job and he's seriously saving up to buy this $2,000 ring for me---but he really won't let me buy anything for him, why?

it's helping my report for of mice of men and how banning it goes against the 1st ammendment

Me and my boyfriend really get into it. It's like an addiction---but we do it cause the feeling of love is really strong. but when it's going down, it goes down, even if our parents are in the house or comming in the room every other second. We've only ever gotten caught once, and now they don't think we;re dating because they told us we couldn't. What do I do? i really love him and I still want to date him, the feeling is mutual. HELP?

I'm not going to see my boyfriend for two weeks because I go to a bording school and only come home ever other weekend. I was supposed to come home this saturday or sunday, but I'm not even sure I can make it to his his house.I've had two weeks of spring break, and have only sen him for three days..and I feel really bad---and my words seem useless, even though I know he will understand, I want him to know I really care. And I'm not trying to buy my way out the situation--but something has to work and explain my sorrow along with words. He's just as crushed as I am. I may have only been going out with him for two and a half months, but I knew him a year prior to this relationship.

There are a couple of girls I like, but I really don't know if they swing that way, and if they don't, I still want to be their friends and not creep them out. I think some are, but then, this could just be me wanting them to be, nto the truth.