Lisa T

I am 31 and my husband is 28. We are the reverse of the typical male/female sex stereotype. I am in the mood almost all the time, and he is hardly ever in the mood. I have always been this way. This isn't a sexual peak.

My extremely high sex drive combined with his low one causes great frustration for me. Most days I want sex while he is fine with having it only once or twice a week. There have even been a couple of times where we didn't have sex for 3 weeks!

Although I try very hard to be patient and understanding of the differences in our needs I still find myself sexually frustrated, which then sometimes leads to anger and resentment because I feel that my needs are not being met. I know that he possibly can't help being tired. I know that our 6 month old and teenage daughters are causes of stress and less alone time. My mother also stays with us at least twice a week while her husband works nights, because she watches the baby while we work.

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My husband and I are the opposite of the typical male/female sex stereotype. I want it all the time, and he doesn't. I would like to have it daily while he is good to have it a couple times a week. I am not even so sure if he wouldn't go even longer than that without. We have had three week dry spells before.

Someone told me that daily sex is unrealistic, and to quit being so selfish. I cannot help my high sex drive. I wish I could, because it causes A LOT of frustration for me. I do own a vibrator, but it just isn't the same. It helps to relieve some of the tension, but I need the human contact. A vibrator isn't warm, can't hold me, tell me it loves me, etc.

To add to the frustration factors in the household prevent us from having sex as often as I'd like as well. we have a teenage daughter who stays up late most night. We have a 6 month old infant. A couple times a week my mother stays with us when her husband is working nights because she watches our baby. The worst one is

I love my husband with all my heart, and I would NEVER cheat on him. With that having been said here is the problem:

Our sex drives are mismatched. I would like to have it at least once a day. He is good to have it maybe twice a week. When I don't get it I feel very frustrated, and it affects my mood. If it is longer than a few days I even start feeling resentful. I wish it wasn't this way, but it is.

Now, taking into consideration there are a few factors that get in the way. For one we have an infant who has taken to staying up until at least 10 P.M. The second factor is our teenage daughter. the third factor is my mother. She has to spend the night occasionally because she babysits the infant while we work.

The fourth factor, and the one that interferes the most, is that he is ALWAYS tired. He is literally asleep as soon as his head hits the pillow. Then, if he does happen to be awake long enough for me to brush my teeth and get into bed, he may start showing me attention, only

I hate losing 5 points, but this question has been nagging at me since it is cold & flu season, and all members in my family have colds.

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In a commited relationship, do you consider looking a porn emotional cheating? How does it make you feel to know that your significant other is gaining sexual gratification from looking at others?