Constance M

My bf of 2 years has type 2 diabetes and he has been for 5 years . The problem is his sugar is high like 300-500 sometimes and as a result of this his kidneys are affected , his eyesight and also he has nerve damage. I am afraid for him because he is also dropping weight rapidly . We dont live together but I know if we did I could make sure he is doing what he needs to. I just need advice on what to do for him . I have not seen him in 1 month all contact has stopped . The last time I talked to him was on his birthday 3 weeks ago and I am so worried about him because he let his health go it is if he doesnt want to live anymore .

Has anyone dealt with problem before ?

I decided to give my guy friend another chance we met last Feb and things were going great between us . We had a date and he did not show up for it and when I called him to find out where he was he turned his phone off . I called him and left a detailed message saying I am through and I walked away . Before we got back together I told him that if he did anything to break the trust its over . So I guess the relationship was not important by the way I am 38 and he is 45 .

But the ironic thing is he showed up for the $$ to get a haircut but not the date after 2 months of dates and I cant figure out why he would do this ?

Thanks all for your time and advice .

What does it mean when a man says to a woman that he never has had a woman to care for him before but at the same time he is very distant ?

In his past he has been mistreated by women and I tried to show him that I am different . He has a hard time showing his emotions as well . What should I do ?

Just the sight of him now makes me sick and he is the one who ended the relationship . I really cared about him and he treated me like sh** and now I am through forever . How can I tell him to leave me alone once and for all ?

I even got my cell phone number changed and now he calls my job .

Take care and thanks for all of your help

C

Would like to start running as I feel that this is a good way for me to trim down . I have been walking everyday for at least 6 months , I use my ab machine at least 3 times a week . I am losing inches and not pounds .

Thanks