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So my Bestfriend just broke up with her bf of 3 yrs. The reason they broke up was because he was mean and controlling sometimes but sometimes he was nice. I think he might have been bipolar. Anyways, my friend broke up with him and he won't stop calling her and he won't leave her alone. If he finds out she's somewhere, he'll show up where she is. Well my friend no longer answers to his calls. But now he has my number -_- i have no idea how he got it. He asked my bf to question me for him about his ex and then he asked for my number. Ovbiously my bf didn't do it but someone else did. And now when he calls his ex and she dosent answer, he calls me. I don't want to be mean and tell him to back off, i know he's hurting a lot, i've been through a tough break up also, but what do I do? Should I tell him myself or should i have my bf tell him to leave me alone. I don't want to break my bf's and my friends ex friendship, they're like best friends. What do I do?

I feel like I should just kill myself right now. Drive far away and kill myself where no one can find me. No body likes me. I don't have friends anymore except for one but She has another best friend so it dosent matter. I have a boyfriend but even he takes me for granted. He says he loves me but its hard to believe it because we just fought and i tried to make up with him but he just ignored me. I know my family cares but only my close family. I tried going to parties to make friends but all fails. I have two jobs and i quit going to school because i got two tickets to pay. Anyways. I just feel worthless. I'm in so much pain because my bf just fought with me and I tried for 1/2hr. To talk to him and apologizing to him and i tried talking to someone but no one will talk to me. No one cares and i'm just tired of being here alone in this world. The only thing keeping me from killing myself is my little brother and sisters and my parents. No one even knows i'm suicidal because no one will talk to me. I tried talking to them, i've told em i'm suicidal but they don't even care. I'm so fed up i'm willing to drive 2hrs. To sf bridge to jump and kill myself.

I need help. My roots of my hair keep dying but the rest of my hair isn't, what can i do to make it even?

Hi, i need help writing my resume. I have never ever in my life written one before. I don't have any job experience at all and i'm already 20 :O The only job i've ha is as a server. I carry dirty plates and cups into the kitchen on a big platter. and before the party starts, i decorate, set up the table and do chair sashes and bows, light up candles, do floral stuff, and sometimes carry the food out for people to serve themselves. but i'm trying to get another job because this job just isn't enough to keep me through. anyways, i need help writting my resume, what should i put?

Hi ^_^ so i wanna get another piercing, i just can't make up my mind. I'm stuck in between a tongue piercing and a belly button piercing. I'm gonna get them both done eventually but which one should i get first? I already have my lip pierced on my right side. I also have the top right of my ear pierced but i'm prolly also gonna get my left done (i think it's called industrial) the one with the bar :) Oh my gosh i'm so excited, i'm gonna have to save up a lot. Anyways, i would like peoples opinion on what my next piercing should be.

Hi, so last night i drank with my friend. I drank a 32 oz high life, and i'm 5'2" and wigh like 140lbs, so i'm pretty small. Well i felt all buzzed and stuff and was a bit tipsy but that only cause i chugged it. But i always drink a 32 oz. High life and i get a bit buzzed depending on how fast i drink it, but yesterday i trew up which was really weird because i never throw up after a 32. Oh and i also smoked a bowl before and 1/4 of a bowl after and also two cigarettes before s and one after and took a hit of off my friend cig while walking to an abonden house. Oh and i was perfectly fine at first ad then started feeling hella neaseous and after i threw up i felt better and then i didnt throw up again i just sobered up. Why do u think that is? Very weird >.<

Hey, so i wanna know if my ex is gay. We went out for 5 yrs. We were very sexual and all and he seemed to love my boobs. He seemed totally straight. But sometimes i wonder if he isn't. He jokes around with his friends about being gay and ****, its nasty, but does it mean he's gay or is he really joking? Okay so here's an example- one time he told me when he watches porn (girl and guy doing it) the guy doing the girl has to have a big D!ck. Also he was chatting with his friend and this is what they're chat said. First they talked about games (they're gamers) and then 30 mins. Later his friend types "butt sex?

Him: "*pulls pants down*"

friend: xD

Him: "what?"

"oh... Ur joking?"

"*zips pants*"

Friend: "o:"

"lol"

"xD

"******* guy"

It just really shocked me. Not just that one time he typed "suck my dick" to the same friend and his friend typed "*opens mouth*"

"lol jk". I think he really is gay but idk is this jist how guys joke around sometimes?

Hey, so i have this friend and he's a guy. We've known eachother for a couple years now (about 4 or 5), and i feel super comftorable around him and all, and i think its the same for him. but idk, things have been weird with me lately. Like whenever i ask him to hang out, he says yes and we hang out just as friends but lately i feel weird inside and i feel super happy when i'm driving to his house. And i'm not attracted to him like sexually or anything, i just think he's really cool and i enjoy spending time with him, he just enjoys life a lot and i feel like i enjoy life a lot more when i'm with him, and he makes me feel safe (drug wise). but lately i seem to think about him a lot, even when i'm sober. Like i think about him almost all day now. And whenever he handed me the lighter, i didnt want to touch his hand because i felt weird like butterflies or something inside of me. I don't want to have a crush on him and i don't want him to crush on me either because i dont want our friendship to be ruined and also my parents wouldn't allow me to be with someone like him. He's got long hair, listens to a lot of rock and metal (i do too), he has done drugs, he's a stoner (me too), and he does acid a lot. And i don't worry about that because i know he has control over it. And he's planning on quiting completly everything in a month, which i'm really happy for him but i know its gonna be so hard for him. Well idk what else to tell u, i just think about him a lot, i feel happy and weird inside, sorta awkward now but still somehow comftorable, i feel safe, when around him, he makes me laugh a lot, and i seem to want to hang out with him more than usual.and he seems more manly now not just like my skimny friend. Oh and i'm 19 so i know its not because i hit puberty or something lol. I'm just afriad i'm crushing real hard on this guy and i don't want to lose his friendship :/ what can i do? Is this me having a crush on him? And should i tell him whats going on?

Hey, so i have this friend and he's a guy. We've known eachother for a couple years now (about 4 or 5), and i feel super comftorable around him and all, and i think its the same for him. but idk, things have been weird with me lately. Like whenever i ask him to hang out, he says yes and we hang out just as friends but lately i feel weird inside and i feel super happy when i'm driving to his house. And i'm not attracted to him like sexually or anything, i just think he's really cool and i enjoy spending time with him, he just enjoys life a lot and i feel like i enjoy life a lot more when i'm with him, and he makes me feel safe (drug wise). but lately i seem to think about him a lot, even when i'm sober. Like i think about him almost all day now. And whenever he handed me the lighter, i didnt want to touch his hand because i felt weird like butterflies or something inside of me. I don't want to have a crush on him and i don't want him to crush on me either because i dont want our friendship to be ruined and also my parents wouldn't allow me to be with someone like him. He's got long hair, listens to a lot of rock and metal (i do too), he has done drugs, he's a stoner (me too), and he does acid a lot. And i don't worry about that because i know he has control over it. And he's planning on quiting completly everything in a month, which i'm really happy for him but i know its gonna be so hard for him. Well idk what else to tell u, i just think about him a lot, i feel happy and weird inside, sorta awkward now but still somehow comftorable, i feel safe, when around him, he makes me laugh a lot, and i seem to want to hang out with him more than usual.and he seems more manly now not just like my skimny friend. Oh and i'm 19 so i know its not because i hit puberty or something lol. I'm just afriad i'm crushing real hard on this guy and i don't want to lose his friendship :/ what can i do? Is this me having a crush on him? And should i tell him whats going on?

Hey, so i just got in a fight with my neighbor. I'm 19 he's prolly 40 or50. Oh and i'm a girl, he's a guy. Anyways he walks by my house everyday "supposedly to pick up his mail", now i know he only does it to take fruit from my trees because he never used to walk, he used to drive to his mail. I went out and told him "hey why are you taking fruit from my trees, if u want some ask" he got all pissed off and started yelling at me and threatening me and asking why i was giving him attitude when i wasn't until after he said that. And he threatened me on calling the city to have everything we built on our property torn down and calling the ASPCA on one of our dogs because it trespassed to their property even though its their fault for not closing their gate. Anyways i called my dad and told him everything and he told me to call the sheriffs if he comes again but i don't want my dad to get in trouble for building stuff on our property. My neighbor is such an asshole. He's always threatening us and calling the dog pound and getting in fights with my dad. Also his Son ran over one of our dogs one time on our drive way and killed it. We couldn't do anything because we didn't have any proof, but it's so unfair what they're doing to us. What can we do?

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My trees are hanging a little but he wasn't taking fruit from that tree, i could clearly see that he was taking fruit from the branches 'on' my property. I also think he was planning on taking more than just one because i saw him trying to choose another one and he had a medicine bag with him, possibly to take more in there. Also he threatened on breaking my tree and he was calling my 15 year old brother to fight with him. Can i file a restraining order even though he has to pass through my road to go to his house? like maybe have him drive through it not walk it because he's gonna keep taking fruit if he walks it. or can i file a harassment charge for coming to my property to cut my crops, threatening me to break my tree, yelling at me, calling me crazy, and trying to fight my brother?

Hey, so i just got in a fight with my neighbor. I'm 19 he's prolly 40 or50. Oh and i'm a girl, he's a guy. Anyways he walks by my house everyday and takes fruit from my trees. I went out and told him "hey why are you taking fruit from my trees, if u want some ask" he got all pissed off abd started yelling at me and threating me and asking why i was giving him attitude when i wasn't until after he said that. And he threatened me on calling the city to have everything we built on our property torn down and calling the ASPCA on one of our dogs because it traspassed to their prpety even though its their fault for not closing their gate. Anyways i called my dad and told him everything and he told me to call the sherrifs if he comes again but i don't want my dad to get in trouble for bulding stuff on our propety. My neighbor is such an asshole. He's always threating us and calling the dog pound and getting in fights with my dad. Also his Son ran over one of our dogs one time on our drive way and killed it. We couldn't do anything because we didn't have any proof, but it's so unfair what they're doing to us. What can we do?

My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. We've been together for 5 years, on and off. Well anyways i'm still deeply in love with him and he dosen't want to give me another chance :'( he said he's tired of us fighting all the time. That it's just a never ending circle. I think we can still be happy together. We don't really fight like other couples do, we don't raise our voice (maybe only once or twice have we done it), we don't hit eachother either. Maybe he just lost interest in me but it's all because of him. He decided to put distance between us, he decided to never call me. I know i'm stupid for still loving him and being with him despite that he took me for granted. Well he broke up with me again, he told me it would be better if we were just friends for now. But it's been a month and i remember everything about him and i miss him so much, i think about him all day everyday. What can i do to forget him or maybe have him fall back in love with me? Because i know he really truly loved me and perhaps he still loves me a little, he cried when i left him one time. That's when i realized we were meant for eachother but i don't know. I don't know if i should move on or just wait for time to pass and see how things with eachother as friends go or ask him again to stay with me but i don't even know how to ask him anymore. My heart is torn apart right now and i just want to be with him :(

I want to change my birth control method. I've been taking depo for about a year and a half now but it made me gain a lot of weight. I love not having so many periods though. I did a bit of research on the arm implant and uterus implant and i can't make up my mind, i have my appt. to change my method on weds but i'm so indecisive. I heard good and bad things about both. Gaah! i can't decide. what do you guys think is better? what should i get? and how long does it take to get them in and how much did it cost u? oh and is it free if u get depo for free at planned parenthood?

Thanks in advance :)

hey, so i've been going out with this guy for 5 years now and well he has a problem, every time we have sex, he cums in like 5 minutes. He says he can't control it only if he thinks of something gross or disgusting but he never does it because it just feels too good for him and he finds it really hard not to ***. Also he says the position has a lot to do with it also. anyways what can we do? or what can he do to help him last longer?

Thanks in advance.

So this is what i was thinking of telling her but idk. She hasn't done anything except invite him to a party and he hasn't done anything either but he also didn't tell me he liked her and that he had asked her out when we had broken up. So is this okay to tell her, so she can stay away from him? "Hi there J ^_^ umm i know we never really talked much err at all but i just wanted to ask you a favor. If you can please stay away from G. We've been going out for 5 years and we had broken up but now we're back together and i really want to make it work. I know that he had a thing for you, when he saw u at that one party and he asked u to hangout but now he's back with me. So if u can please stay away. Thank you. Oh and i'm sorry if i ruined ur chances. 

So this person told me that people aren't suppose to clean their ears because it's bad for you and tbey say that ear wax isn't gross until it's poking out of your ear. But then some one else said that it is gross and they can't stand it lol. What do u guys think is ear wax gross or not? And is it unhealthy to clean ur ears?

Hi. So i'm 19 years old and i swear a lot. I'm a prtty nice person but when i get mad i swear, i say so many bad words and i can't help it. I wish i could but once i notice my mouth is already blabbering out all these words. I don't have an anger problem because i'm not violent or any of that. I just swear and only that but i sometimes swear really loudly that i scare my sisters. So how can i stop sewaring? Please help. I gotta stop to make myself a better me.

I do 100 crunches/situps everyday. Will that help me lose weight? If so how much weight can i lose?

My boyfriend wants to take me to the movies again. I really like to go out with him and i enjoy his company. But he always takes me to the movies or takes me out to eat and well i get bored of that and we can't really talk much because it's the movies and when we go out to eat well we have food in our mouths. How can i tell him that i rather do something else because i get bored but with out hurting his feelings?

Hi, I'm 19 years old and i'm trying to convince my parents to let me spend the night at my boyfriend's house again. Well you see i've been going out with this guy for about 5 years now and we're really trying to get our **** together, so we can move in together. I use to spend almost every weekend at my boyfriends house and my parents were okay with that, but then couple months ago we broke up over some stupid stuff and then we started to go back out again. And well my parents found out that we had broken up and now they won't let me spend at least one night at his house, and he lives an hour away, so this is why i don't come home the same day because it takes an hour there and an hour back. Anyways my mom is okay with me spending the night there but my dad isn't, he's just really stubborn and he won't let me go, he says why doesn't he come for you early in the morning and drop you home later. Neither my boyfriend nor i work at the moment so we hardly have money for gas and so this is why we don't see each other often. Well my dad is really stubborn like i said, and since i live in his house i have to follow his rules, and it seems like he takes pride on that. How can i convince him to let me spend at least one night at my boyfriends house? i'm not a liittle kid anymore and if i get hurt it's gonna be my fault. i doubt i'll get hurt though because i know he loves me and we're trying to get everything together so we can make our own life. well please help. i'm trying to convince him for this sunday. Thanks.