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I'm 18 and recently began having sex. The first time I tried to put it in I bled alot, below the the opening of my peni$ where the foreskin is connected to the peni$ itself. I had sex since then with other women and it never happened but i always wondered why.

Also unlike, well from what i see, most guys that are uncircumsized in adult movies have no problem masterb@ting and carrying the foreskin back over the head of the peni$ yet when i try, it goes over but hurts cause its tight (the foreskin) as it goes over the base of the head.

I googled it and saw some people say that because i never used to carry the foreskin back over the head alot (except when i shower) that the foreskin hasnt stretched yet and i need to practice carrying it over so that it would hurt less. I dont know how true this is which is why im asking.

Is the foreskin supposed to be still attached to the underside of your peni$ after u already had sex or is it still attached because i dont carry it back over the head of my penis often?

Well not all but like 98% seem to be. Doesn't anyone want to enjoy life i mean not necessarily sleep around but enjoy your life and life in general before you devote half your time to that person who should forever be in your life? Every chick is always waiting on the right one...wtf you're like 18-19 or early 20's. I just see it as people should enjoy their life and figure themselves out and what they want then go from there. Reason for alot of divorces is because ppl think this is all they could ever want then time goes along and you either want more or can't deal with the other person..too much for you. You talking to a girl...from the time you enter that relationship, most start thinking about marriage. Can i at least get a job for about 5 years before you start thinking house on the prairie? Idk i just think alot of young women are fixated on it for some reason. Not saying that its bad but come on, i'm in my early 20's and your asking me if your wife material? Wtf i dont even know what im looking for in wife material. Sigh idk, maybe im just venting but that i never got why they seem so stuck on it? Problems during childhood or something i suppose

Ok so i'm 21 (gonna be 22 in dec). I started college but i had to stop because i dont have the cash. I can't get financial aid because they want to see my dad's taxes and he makes too much (he says i got to be independent so he doesnt pay for my college). I started and had an okay paying job this year and got to pay for college but now my job end in dec. Rather than working and studying and getting mediocre grades. I'm saving and missing this semester so that spring when i dont have a job i can be better focused on school and get better grades

I'm saying since i got a little cash to play with now. I'm basically looking for a job i guess but i have little to no qualifications besides my high school diploma and some intermediate computer skills.

What can i do to make money that doesnt require me to have a colege degree til i'm done?

What kind of classes should I be taking besides trying to get MOS certification...what else should i be looking for?

I just want to pursue something where i can pay for school and be independent at the same time.

Okay yes i am using her but its like this. I'm hitting it but also doing the legit boyfriend requirement and more so. I pay her rent, buy groceries every two weeks, get her clothes, take her out and all that stuff. Just chill in the park, go to the movies and such. I'm not cheating on her either. My confusion is that i just dont like her though. She's soooo wierd and talks about the most boring stuff like cartoons and crazy stuff. Its not my style but i just sit there and listen and go out with her an she's having the time of her life. She's not even that great in bed but i mean good enough. She does any and everything. Yet i mean even tho we're together. We never said we love each other or nothing. Still saying i like being with and around you so its not exactly like i'm lying to her either because i do like her just not her personality or looks in particular (she's ok..aint all that). I even told her that im not sure about this seeing as we cant even reach saying we love each other its just like i cant figure her out and got alot of other stuff (not gonna say i dont find u attractive to a woman...deathwish) but i mean i feel bad.

Should i feel bad i mean i was honest, straight but and doing my part. never said i loved her, i really do like her just not that deep and dont have a problem taking care of her in any way. Is this bad?

What is it? Just when i think i found it, turns out that it wasnt love but just a good times experience. What is it for you?

So this gay chick i knw, i tried to get her to give it up but she said she's gay and doesnt want that. I still tried and failed but we're cool or w.e.

Now that we're friends, everytime i talk to her she plays with my d!*k!! Like i'll be standing and she'll walk mad close and rub her butt on me or she sitting down and i walk past an she pretends to try to grab me and pulls me to her by my d!*k.

I mean wtf, if she a les why does she keep grabbin my stuff. Sometimes i joke with her an say imma hit her with it if she keeps grabbin it and she opens her mouth.

IDK wtf is she like doing or w.e. Is she like just having fun or wants it or sum? She went to the pride parade thingy and all that, she's always in the village yet no matter how much i tell her its not cool. She keeps grabbing my stuff. lately she started biting my belt. What is with her?

What does it take for you to sleep with a guy?

It seems like women have different idk; course requirements before they sleep with a guy.

What does it take for you to sleep with a guy?

Love, Sex, Money, Marriage, Fame Or It Just Depends On The Chemistry

I realized that women always want to "save themselves". For love, for marriage, for the right one, for THE ONE...always for something. Guys however just want to give it. I mean what's the difference though that make women make it seem like its idk...endangered or something. Women have genitals and so do men so why do they make it seem like its rare. I mean is it just because of the biblical because that i can understand. What i dont get is that non virgins also dont want to give it up because idk. so many reason.

Why is it guys have no issue with giving it?

Why do women have an issue giving it?

I mean what makes her genitals worth more than his? Or is it beyond that because i dont get why men want to give it but women say no. What is that really about

I was just told by someone they dont like sports. There are non-contact sports also so i mean are there really people that simply hate sports? If so why?

So basically this friend of mine, we started talking more closely. Late, long hours and such about her day and her life and all that stuff. Then one time i got jealous at a party because she was with this other dude. Usually at parties we just dance together or whatever but she danced with him. Twice at different parties (we met him again same party different day). I told her i liked her once n she never responded. Since i see them dance twice, one day she told me she wants to fck him and asked me if i think she should. I was confused so i just said idk and one liners till we hung up. I was like its over because of that but we still talk. Thing is though, i mean after that it seems like we're clearly just friends yet her older sister wants to go out and stuff. I mean i think i'll feel bad to go out with the older sister but then she didnt want me so i shouldnt yet still i will feel bad. Why is that? I dont really like the older sister though it can get their but now it would be just physically (which i think is just what the big sister wants...not so much for committment).

Should i say screw her for wanting to fck (if she hasnt already) the other guy and go with her sister? Or idk what should i do? Say fck em both? I dont think so because i never kissed or dated the little sister...we always went out with mutual friends so nothing really exclusive ever happened besides dancing alone. What should I do?

Similar to World of Warcraft or Lineage 2 (prefer similar to Lineage tho). What are some good games to play with great graphics not lame like runescape. I HATE that wack a$$ game. I need some good games that i can get fast exp/lvls...if you know any great Linegage servers that would be useful also

I really dont get why so many ppl ask what can i do 2 turn him on?

What guy does not get excited by seeing a chick naked? I mean lingerie just adds but i mean when i think about it. I have no idea what the hell a girl can do to turn me on besides get undress. To me foreplay is already part of the act so it has to come before that....dancing does NOTHING for me at all. I went to a strip joint once and was mad...i could get my chick to do the same for free and it really does nothing.

What do you ladies do to turn your men on?

Guys, what has your girl done to turn you on?

I see this question like a million times and now im wondering what the h3ll am i missing out on?

I'm in college in NY but i mean im struggling badly. Even if i was doing great. Its a 4 year degree; i need to find a job that can pay me at least $12 so that i can move out and continue to pay for college. My dad says he would help but he said that for college and i have been paying all my expenses; food; phone; transport; college and reduced rent for my step mom.

I need to find a permanent job that i can get paid at that rate. I was thinking construction but i have no skills in that department. I basically have minimum office skills. All i really ever did was IT Tech Asst. but not certified and Data Entry. I need a job where i can possibly start and pursue something that will allow me to sustain myself. I did a course in but never really understood mechanics but i am willing to try that if it will pay for rent and CUNY tuition.

I'm just lost..my step mom is really crazy(not just saying that she is) but its her crib so seeing that we dont vibe. I'll prob get kicked out soon and i dont know where i can go (besides the streets) and still be able to pursue my dreams. I'm so depressed its ridiculous.

I'll prb ask it as another question but i just wanna know also.

I hate math and sci...i hate numbers...like reading. What degree should i pursue?

I'm doing business yet became disenchanted with it because my business an econ teacher told the class(not me only). They have no idea why kids are still taking business when there's hardly any jobs.

I was told 2 try medicine even though i see blood and pass out. I also have a prob being around the sick so as much as that is an outlet. I dont believe i will perform at my best.

Any advice for a confused young adult living in NY (been in the US less than 2 years). Very hard place to start...i seen ppl kick out their family over money disputes that even with the family gone and they not getting the money either way. Their family is on the streets...that's just wrong...as hard as it seems 2 me now. When i get where i'm heading.....i'd despise myself if i ever stooped to that level....at least leave them on the floor or something rather than the street. Value for family and human life in NY is deplorable in many cases.

so its crazy like this. I like(d) this chick just used to go out cause we chill with the same peoples. Later on prob 2 weeks after hanging out often (with the rest of our friends).

I come to find out that her mother's madien name is the same as my last name. We both from the same country (moved to US after).

Thing is its a small country and i think my grandad got a sis or a cousin living in the same area her mother's family is from.

I guess that makes us some kinda crazy relatives because she'd either be my second cousin (grand aunt's grandaughter or my grand father's cousin's grandaughter - idk what that is...supposedly third cousins).

How do I stop liking her? Even with that aside, before i knew we were possibly related i told her i liked her. Yesterday she told me that she wants 2 f*ck (she asks me what i think) a dude i saw her dancing with at a party we went with all our friends. So I mean i'm confused as to how she sees us now...

i mean if im your third cousin..why da hell would you tell me that?

If we're not related and you know i like you...why the hell would you tell me that?

We talk often though not as often since this dude which is about 2 weeks ago but when we talk often late at night for hours abt her mainly til she gets tired and says goodnight.

Does she just see me as what ....a friend? I told her i dont do friends with chicks unless its my friend's girlfriend and i just gotta be polite. For those who wonder why i dont do friends with chicks...its because there's chemistry and i tend 2 get emotionally involved. I see it as we're clicking so why not make it into something more..maybe its childish but i tend to avoid it somewhat (people still call me about their relationship drama which i have no prob helping with).

basically i'm asking..wtf is her story...like is that heading anywhere? If not how 2 forget about her. I dont obssess or none but sigh...she mad cute. If i knew we were related i would drop it but im optimistic that we're not but i mean that relation is mad far. I dont even think i got it correct.

I mean how do i move on if we chill with the same peoples; i cant change my friends entirely for one chick and i dont wanna be mean to her either.

Okay one, i truly apologize for asking this extremely dumb question because its probably stupid and very hard to answer but the song is stuck in my head (everday i just hum the beat).

I have no idea who sings the song or what is the name of it. All i know is that i heard it in the club...DJ didnt even know the name he just had it on a CD called hot tracks.

Anyways; no matter what club you go to in NY they ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS play these two latin songs...i asked a Colombian guy who told me they were both old in Cali and he could only remember one of them. He said they were both poppin in Cali back then tho.

One of them (the one he remembered was) Lo Que Paso by Daddy Yankee (that's ma ****) but the other one which i like more i have no idea how to even write it. I dont know the singer or the name of the song.

It goes something like "Que dum da dum dee day daa daa, dum da dum dee day vaamonos vamonos or veeintidos veeintidos!"

Of couse you see i dont know the words but the last word i believe is said twice. Yes i do know that is not how you spell vamonos and veintidos but i think that's how he stresses on the second letter of the last word which he repeats.

If you know any DJs they'd prob know because its usually played either before or after lo que paso. Obviously i'm not latino but when this song plays; latina chicks go crazy...the latino dudes start partyin like rock stars..that's when the real party begins.

Thanks for any answers recieved..good or bad or lame ones lol. Singles and Dating-Top Cont. Even if u dont help me; i'll try 2 help you.

I'm 5'7" prob around 165-170lbs. My problem is that i appear muscular because i am slim built but in reality under my clothes i'm not skinny. I have the slim body but the muscles is not defined just look slim but no muscles. I am also developing a belly (prob the weekend beers/alcohol) but the belly isnt a problem because some weeks its there and others its totall flat (no abs) another problem. I also heard that crunches don't help with abs also, is that true?

Basically what i need is a schedule;

What days and how long to work out?

What exercises should i begin with? How long (how many weeks) is the beginners exercises? What exercises to move on to after?

Do i work the same body parts each day or which ones should be worked on together (does it matter?).

What foods should i eat and what should i avoid?

What is the ideal weight that a 5'7" person should aim for in terms of getting more muscles (actually being able to lift stuff rather than just looking like i can lol) and definition as well.

I KNW ITS ALOT TO ASK BUT IM TOTALLY LOST IN THIS REGARD AND THOSE ONLINE GUIDES ALL SAY SOMETHING DIFFERENT SO I WANTED TO KNW FROM PPL WHO EITHER KNOW OR HAVE TRIED IT AND IT WORKED. THANKS ALOT EVERYBODY...got a question in Singles n Dating? Top Contributor...leave the link under your reply and ill do my best.

THNX ALOT

Always rdy to fight no matter what, when, where or what we're wearing lol.

Did anyone see the pic? What do you think?

So basically this chick i started talking to its been all good til she said.......no sex?! okay i can wait....no she doesnt like sex?! like wtf...she said its way overrated and she been with guys who said that her ex's werent doing it right and she still didnt get anything from it..it wasn't nothing for her?!

Who da fck doesnt like sex? how da?! man i feel bad to not go thru with it because she would think thats all i wanted but i mean okay wait till you're married then sure but even if we do get to that stage she still wont wanna?

I mean is it bad to not pursue a girl because she doesnt wanna? I feel bad about saying no and not dating her anymore but i mean..no sex never. I laughed an thought she was gassing me for the night but the next day she was just as serious. She doesnt like it.

Can you be with a person you'll never have sex with? Even if you're married? I asked her what about kids..she's gonna go artificial insemination..... how, why man so many questions......

What the hell should i do?

I saw this guy on CNN say that all illegal immigrants should be sent home because they're stealing jobs. Even their children who were born here because they were born under illegal conditions therefore it is not legal. I mean from what i learned, the only true Americans are native Americans. If you ain't native american, then one of your forefathers came here from another country just like the Mexicans, Jamaicans, Africans etc. So there is virtually no difference between what is happening today than what happened back then. The same way "they" don't like illegal immigrants and everything else. I can make an assumption that is about 99.9% correct that natives americans feel the same way. Mind you what is mind boggling is that, your forefathers come to their country and decide to call them native americans, and they are just regular americans. I am yet to here an argument to refute this point, anyone that tracks their genealogy, unless you have a very distant native in your family, you're most definitely an immigrant. So my question is, how can you call yourself an American because you were born here and your forefathers are from Europe or some other place besides the USA and you want to kick out, children of illegal immigrants who were born in the US?