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I'm good looking, have a great sense on humor, have a good job at a bank, 20-years-old, graduate student, drive a new Lexus, don't drink, smoke, or do drugs, and hit the gym six days per week.

I know how to approach and talk to women because, when I approach women, it isn't awkward. The majority of them turn me down nicely because they claim they are already seeing someone. The ones that do give me their number seem to blow me off so I delete their number. Am I just having bad luck? Any tips (ladies)?

I recently traded my older Lexus to lease a new one. I've had the car for about one week and it took me that long to realize it's not much greater than my old one, especially how much they want for payments. I traded my old car and also put an extra $5,000 down.

Here's the thing, my co-signer never gave them proof of income, proof of residence, or references and I'm hoping that would void the contact or at least make sure no banks will finance the car. What would be the best approach to take the car back and hopefully regain my old Lexus and down payment?

I've been talking to this woman for a couple months now and recently, she tells me she only views me as a friend right now. She said that's how she views every guy so it's not just me. She tells me I'm the only one she can actually talk to and she likes hanging out with me. She recently got a divorce after several years of marriage so she said she doesn't want me to get my hopes up that anything will happen between us because she is focusing on getting her life back together and doesn't want to rush anything. What are your thoughts? Should I stop talking to her? Should I remain friends with her and see if something eventually happens?

I've known this girl since middle school and we are both 20 now, but it wasn't until eight months ago when we got back in contact. When we first started talking again, she said she was having problems with her ex so she just wanted to be friends. I agreed and about one month later, I told her how I felt. She said she wanted to try something with me but she wanted to wait until she was 100% over her ex before trying, which was very understandable.

Well nothing ever happened between us because she claims to not be ready and she doesn't want to ruin a good thing because that's what ruined her last relationship. The thing is, she dated two guys while we were talking. She went on a date with one guy and it didn't work. Then she started talking to another guy she had a thing with in high school. After she told me this, I asked her why it never worked with us and she said we keep putting it off. I told her we shouldn't put it off anymore so I asked her out on a date this weekend and she said I was stressing her out because she isn't ready. Yet, she went on a date with two other guys. I figured that she gave two guys a shot before me and I don't deserve to be someone's second, third, or fourth choice so I told her not to contact me anymore.

What do you think? It's not like I asked her to move in with more or to marry me. I simply asked her on a date and she couldn't give me an answer. So if she is unsure if she wants to try things with me, I'm sure she's not the girl for me.

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I know she really liked me because she would tell me many times how I was the best and that she was always thinking about me. In addition, she was always the first to initiate the conversations. What are your thoughts?

This woman has really been confusing me lately. We have been talking for a couple months and she would always call me or text me first. Last Tuesday, she tells me that I need to call her more (jokingly). I told her I would since I noticed she always makes the effort. Ever since that day, she has not called me first. I called her on Wednesday and we spoke for about 30 minutes (we usually talk for 30 minutes to an hour).

She called me on Thursday morning to reply to my text message and I told her to call me when she got out of work but I ended up calling her and she didn't answer. I called her again on Friday and this time she did answer and we spoke for about ten minutes. She said she was on the phone with family when I called, which is why she didn't answer and was busy the rest of the day, otherwise, she would have wanted to talk. So I called her again on Saturday and she didn't answer. I called her today and we spoke for a few minutes and I ended the conversation because I just wanted to see what she was up to.

Did she lose interest? I asked someone else for their opinion and they said she probably wants to see how interested I am. I do not plan on calling her anymore and if I don't hear from her throughout the week, I am going to try and forget about her.

I've been talking to this girl for a few weeks and just last night, we got to talking about something happening between us. She got a divorce not too long ago so she said she is not ready for another relationship.

I know she's somewhat interested because she calls me often, asks to come over my house, and last night she told me I need to call her more. She mentions me to her parents and she offers to pay for me when we go out. She told me she wanted to be friends first until she gets her life back on track to where she wants it and doesn't want to have to worry about pleasing anyone else. Then she assured me that she isn't against the idea of the two of us starting a relationship. So is she really not ready for a relationship, or is she not that into me?

Just about every time I take a piss, I spit in the toilet or urinal before I flush. Who else does this?

I just want to see what women have to say.

A little over a week ago, some buddies of mine and myself went to Buffalo Wild Wings on a Saturday evening. There was a waitress I seen that I was attracted to. I ended up getting her number and it seemed like she was looking forward to hearing from me. She told me "I have a 4-year-old so if I'm busy, don't think I'm trying to blow you off". I called her a couple days later and she didn't answer. I sent her a text telling her to get back with me if she was interested in getting together on the weekend.

She called me back about an hour later but her phone was breaking up and she said she was at work and they had her pulling a double shift. I asked her if she wanted me to call her when she got out of work and she told me just to text her. I was about to go into an appointment so I told her I would text her within the hour and I did. She never texted back. Two days later, I sent her a message telling her "Good Morning? How was your 4th of July?" Still, she never texted me back. I haven't tried to get ahold of her since then and she hasn't tried to get ahold of me. I was thinking about trying to call her one more time before the weekend. Should I?

Yesterday, me and my buddy went back to the same Buffalo Wild Wings for lunch because they brought the All You Can Eat Wings back to lunch. As you can see, we like that place. I did not see that girl whose number I got but I seen another waitress who is also cute. She was flirting with me and she was sitting next to me on the booth and having conversations, letting me try different sauces, etc, etc. We are going to go back tomorrow for the All You Can Eat Wings again and I want to get her number.

This is my plan: I will call the first girl one more time and if she doesn't respond, I will approach the other woman she works with. The way I see it, if the first girl doesn't respond, nothing is going further. I am just curious because they probably talk with each other and it would not look good if they know the same guy got both of their numbers. But if I don't ask for the number to the other one, there is zero chance of setting something up. If I do, I at least have a chance

Any comments?