beth

So my mom is letting me throw a huge Halloween bash, most the decor was bought from previous years or printed on the computer. I bought about $20 in decorations and my costume is mostly homemade. I went over the food list and she agreed to it all. It is now a few weeks before the party and when I wrote the list and made big cuts in food her response was we will see. After being promised all of it. Then I told her I just want a few decor pieces from the dollar store and she said "I don t know" like is it just me? I never ask for anything and just really want this one thing and now she is totally jipping me... Do I have a right to be upset?

She always tells me every little detail of her life even ones I don't need to know. She constantly criticizes everything I do and how I do it. She has a huge phobia of salmonella. She always thinks anything that happens like a headache she thinks it's because she will die. She tells me all her relationship problems. She is a huge gossip. She has an opinion for every little thing going on in the world just to be heard. It's frankly the most irritating thing ever. She has mistaken me for being her best friend not her daughter. It's like the roles have reversed and she gets pissed if I tell her to go see he therapist. What can I do? I can't tolerate it anymore we fight all the time. I can't move out until I save up enough money

So my friend and I have been rocky for years now and some days I don't want to deal with them, hear from them or talk to them. But I love them more than life so I can't cut ties. Any advice? I used to be clingy and constantly give them crap about hanging out and now it really doesn't faze me if we hang out or not. But I will get pissed if I want to but they say they are too tired or busy and secretly hang with others. I'm just tired and fed up with anyone's bull crap. What do I do? I love them so much but they are pushing me away.