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I don't know what to do about this anymore. I am leading my friend on. I am starting to feel guilty now. He loves me, very much and even tells me. But, I also tell him I love him, knowing that I don't.

I guess I just like having someone there, who loves me, and compliments me, who shows affection, etc.

We've been messing around for months now. The sad thing is, when we are intimate, sometimes I imagine him as a future 'significant other'.

He's asked me out as a bf, and of course I just told him I needed more time.

What do I do? How can I stop this? I know damage has been done already..

I recently took my car to an actual reputable mechanic for overheating issues and had the thermostat changed. That was the initial problem.

After a day of having it back, my car overheated on my drive after work. When I got back to my campus ( Im a college student), I realized that it had absolutely NO coolant/antifreeze.

He literally checked everything out, but Failed to check/add antifreeze. There are no leaks. Im thinking he assumed it had some in there, because I told him over the phone that I added some a while back. ( That was like almost a month ago)

Although I did stop a couple times to let it cool down, I fear that there may be possible engine damage due to the overheating, which I feel that this business is in part responsible for.

car : 05 Honda Civic Lx coupe

My mom was "cleaning" today and found a used condom under a drawer thing beside the bed. I completely forgot about it. (I'm such an idiot). First of all, I didn't have sex, I was just "learning" how use one and experimenting with it, should I ever have sex one day.

Here's the problem. She doesn't think its mine (which, at this moment, is kind of a good thing). I actually have a twin brother, who has a girlfriend. We're both 19. I'm single, and home for winter break from college. She has found unopened condoms in the room before, that were actually his, and confronted him about it. So my mom has already suspected they have had sex. (They are actually both Virgins just to clarify). Which kind of put a burden on his trust/ relationship.

She told me she found it and said that she's sure my brother and 'GF' do "dirty things," and asked if I knew anything. I explained it to her that they don't do "stuff" because he would tell me.

WTH do i do ? She obviously was searching the room. Talk about no privacy.

As terrible as it sounds . . Should I just blame it on my brother?? I already told him of the situation (and is not happy about it at all) . He could just say that he was practicing, should he ever have sex with GF. Worst case scenario, my mom will tell my dad, which she probably won't do, to avoid family problems. She will obviously believe me without a doubt.

If I do say it was me. . . I might say like a week later that it really wasn't mine and I was covering for him, but still standing up for his relationship. I just DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. This is beyond awkward and embarrassing. I'm more of a virgin under my mom's eyes than him. We've never had the sex talk or talked about anything related to it , as if it just magically happens in life...

There's about 25 days left until our last day. Honestly, its been bothering me lately, I know I'm going to have a difficult time letting go, especially considering that my senior yr is the best. I love all my friends..

I'm glad and proud of graduating h.s. but sad and scared at the same time.

Regardless, everyday is slowly counting down and I know I'm going to be such a cry baby on the last day haha.

Just want to get some feedback on how some of you seniors feel, please share thoughts, feelings, anything. Shanks :)

Our neighbor, whom moved in next door about a year or two ago, cut down some my fathers trees that separate the properties. The back yard of our home has trees/shrubs on the far left and far right. They clearly separate the properties from both of our neighbors. As long as the 13+ years that we've lived here, those trees have always been ours.

First, The thing that I don't understand is that we've never had a problem during the summer with her mowing her lawn. She would mow where she was supposed to be. Secondly, I myself am slightly irritated because she did not talk to my father before she did this mess.

My dad has -HAD* equipment and even a fence (for his garden) etc, leaned on the trees. She just threw it all off of the trees into an unorganized mess in our yard. Chopped down all the trees and is currently burning the trees/shrubs. Who DOES that?

We are certain that she is crossing her property boundaries. (1.) Who do we go to, call, hire, etc. to measure our property boundaries?

(2.) Should we call the police? Not sure if it is necessary..

(3.) If she is crossing her boundaries, would she be liable for ( I ) Property Damage, ( II ) Trespassing?

(4.) Any other ideas/ advice/ suggestions on how to go about this situation. Thanks YA

We just saw a quad and looked at it. Its pretty nice, We've never bought anything "atv" so its a new kind of toy to us.

the guy wants 1,000

and it has 8 hrs on it.

Body styles is nice and clean, however we noticed a little rust under between the two back wheels, close to the chain that it has on it. Chain is slightly rusted too.

I am 18 and work at a Nursing Home (health facility) part time in Dietary/Janitorial Services as Floor Cleaning/ Mop . I have [Two] issues at work. This past weekend my family and I went to Six Flags on Saturday. I had notified my boss( who was, and currently is, on vacation time) and called off. She failed to notify my supervisor that day. I explained the situation the next day, there was a misunderstanding somewhere along the line.

The cook that worked that night just won't let it go, she is not even my supervisor. This issue has escalated to a bigger deal than what it should be. I am subject to being written up for Level 2 (based on a 3-level disciplinary scale ) infraction for an Unexcused Absence/ No Call- No Show . I completely understand, they ( Boss, co-Boss) have every right to, However I feel that it is unjustifiable because I did speak to my supervisor days prior to leaving, also I notified my boss, She (my boss), herself, replied exactly " I'd guess they will have to cover for you then". Yesterday (Tues.) I was informed by an employee that the co-Boss received a message from Boss saying "She did not give me permission to go" She did not state that. (They lack professionalism when it comes to handling things, especially disciplinary actions. Texting? are you serious?) The only rights as an employee I have is to (1) write a response letter to my castigation that will be put into my file and (2) take it to the upper head administration.

Issue # : 2 As I stated Above, the Cook will not let it go. Its really her fault that all this is happening, as she has brought it up to the co-Boss multiple times. I, however, am going to counter- attack in defense by reporting her for a Level 2 infraction as well. (Employee Manuel/ Policies Book pg. 79; Level Two : Rule [2]. " Gossiping or revealing information of confidential nature concerning residents, their families, *FELLOW EMPLOYEES*, supervisors, those in authority, and [Nursing Home's Name that I cannot disclose] itself. " She (Cook) happens to be friends with my Cousin who is NOT an employee there. That day that I did not arrive to work (Saturday) she called him and told him about the situation and that I did not call or show up, etc. We have a strict policy in Privacy and Confidentiality. Her is excuse most likely will be that she was trying to get in contact with me, However she is not my supervisor so she has no right to, nor was that really her intention. I have a message of him stating her Name and saying she told Him.

I fear they will buy her Excuse, which is unacceptable to me. This is a Health Facility. He ( my cousin) is not under my emergency/ extra contacts, therefore, even if I died at work ( very unlikely) they cannot contact him whatsoever .****What law is this ??****, I know its a law regarding privacy, even schools use it, medical clinics and hospitals as well.

Please feel free to share what you think and answer my ****question**** . Thanks

On the right side of my nose, kind of close to my eye, I got a pimple a while ago and I put ZitAway, I think that's what its called, It contains Benzyl Peroxide. And this is what I usually use for all my acne problems and fixes things right up.

However, This time this pimple just turned brown and won't go away. Its horrible. I even put toothpaste once and that didn't help. I also did warm compresses for one day, didn't really help much either..It kind of looks like an ingrown mole beneath my skin. (UHHH) (Its not malignant melanoma)

Also find this hard to believe because I only drink water (no pop,juice,etc) and skim milk. I also eat really healthy, so my diet is good. Since I changed my diet, I've barely had acne problems.

I understand that I can call and go visit a dermatologist, that's not really an answer I'm looking for.

On the right side of my nose, kind of close to my eye, I got a pimple a while ago and I put ZitAway, I think that's what its called, It contains Benzyl Peroxide. And this is what I usually use for all my acne problems and fixes things right up.

However, This time this pimple just turned brown and won't go away. Its horrible. I even put toothpaste once and that didn't help. I also did warm compresses for one day, didn't really help much either..It kind of looks like and ingrown mole beneath my skin. (UHHH) (Its not malignant melanoma)

Also find this hard to believe because I only drink water (no pop,juice,etc) and skim milk. I also eat really healthy, so my diet is good. Since I changed my diet, I've barely had acne problems.

I understand that I can call and go visit a dermatologist, that's not really an answer I'm looking for.

or both ? I'm in desperate need of a haircut, but I don't want it short.

I've always wanted to grow out my hair, but it always turns into an ugly mess, quit on it, and get a short haircut.

A friend told me that its just in its " Awkward Phase" and that I need to get it trimmed and thinned, possible layered also.

I have really t h i c k and wavy hair. It also poofs a bit, which is so irritating. Its pretty much decent right now. I still get the " you need a haircut " comment which I personally take into offense.

Last night, I was on my computer and my iPod was there. I took the headphones off and plugged them in. Twenty minutes later I take off my headphones off my computer and as I try to grab my iPod, it was gone. Poof. Its really irritating that I can't find it. I literally searched everywhere, yes even the most ridiculous places like a shoe or my refrigerator. ALL F'n DAY I've been looking for it, and still nothing!

Whats even more irritating is that my mom saw it on the floor by the computer chair when I was on. (Yes I checked under the computer desk thing) We have come to the conclusion that my 3 year old sister got it and LOST it. Ughh She's 3, its not like I can ask her and she can show me...

So I guess it accidentally fell. Mom saw it (according to my mom) and ignorantly didn't think about telling me to pick it up (atleast). Sister got it. She possibly ate it (jk) but no its gone gone.

I'm very upset with my feakin mother because she saw it on the floor and didn't even tell me or pick it up ! Therefore, this is all her fault. Now I'm going to demand her to buy me a new one.

I need my iPod. idc if you disagree, it's seriously a need for me. I use it to go running in the mornings and to do all my exercises, I use it for entrainment, use it for relaxing. Not only that, I worked my butt off (when I didn't have a real job) and other crap to save up for it. My iPod was a 5th gen Yellow Nano. Yellow ones are pretty much rare too. Really fed up with this :(

Last night, I was on my computer and my iPod was there. I took the headphones off and plugged them in. Twenty minutes later I take off my headphones off my computer and as I try to grab my iPod, it was gone. Poof. Its really irritating that I can't find it. I literally searched everywhere, yes even the most ridiculous places like a shoe or my refrigerator. ALL F'n DAY I've been looking for it, and still nothing!

Whats even more irritating is that my mom saw it on the floor by the computer chair when I was on. (Yes I checked under the computer desk thing) We have come to the conclusion that my 3 year old sister got it and LOST it. Ughh She's 3, its not like I can ask her and she can show me...

So I guess it accidentally fell. Mom saw it (according to my mom) and ignorantly didn't think about telling me to pick it up (atleast). Sister got it. She possibly ate it (jk) but no its gone gone.

I'm very upset with my feakin mother because she saw it on the floor and didn't even tell me or pick it up ! Therefore, this is all her fault. Now I'm going to demand her to buy me a new one.

I need my iPod. idc if you disagree, it's seriously a need for me. I use it to go running in the mornings and to do all my exercises, I use it for entrainment, use it for relaxing. Not only that, I worked my butt off (when I didn't have a real job) and other crap to save up for it. My iPod was a 5th gen Yellow Nano. Yellow ones are pretty much rare too. Really fed up with this :(

My little brother (10) and sister (3) are out of control. I always take care of them and I HATE IT ! I dont have a ******* life because of them. Today they really pist me off, and right now Im contemplating whether I should just take them to the sitters. I had enough. Stress level is over my head, even feel anxious right now...The house is also a freaking mess.

Problem. Its my moms birthday today, and honestly I really don't care right now, but I will feel guilty later. If I take them, the sitter will charge her 30 dollars for the day, and she would have to go pick them up after work...

Someone shoot me please....

I changed my diet about a month ago Also exercise more, trying to change my lifestyle into a healthy one. I only drink water and milk ( I don't drink/eat anything with high fructose corn syrup, chemicals, sugary, modified). And only eat healthy, high nutritious food. 5 times a day. My digestion and metabolism have improved a lot. My face has cleared up (acne/blemishes). Lost a couple of pounds. I feel better too, more energized.

However, I don't really like eating what my mother makes to eat because its really unhealthy. We're Mexican, and Most Mexican food is really unhealthy and high in cholesterol. I do appreciate what my mom does for us, and I occasionally eat healthy things that she makes like fish, soups, light foods you know. Sometimes I feel like a picky eater, but I don't mean to .

Anyways, its mostly my mom, but my parents think that I have an eating disorder and that there is something wrong with me and that I don't eat well anymore. For example this morning during breakfast she offered me juice and I looked at the ingredients and it was not juice. All chemicals, corn, and flavoring. I refused and only got water. She was really furious.

I wish they would be supportive and encourage me on choosing a healthy lifestyle. I do not have an eating disorder. or do I ?

I apparently have an ingrown hair above my left eyebrow and it hurts so much, it feels like a headache(you can even say migraine) in a pimple, that's as best as I can describe what the pain feels like. Every time my eyebrow moves it makes the pain worse.

At first I thought it was just an ugly pimple, so i put ClearZit (it has like benzol peroxide) and it reduced the redness. But now I can see like a bump forming, and I'm afraid its only going to get bigger and redder.

I have ugly long hair right now to the point where couple of people and friends tell me that I need a haircut :/ (desperate for a hair cut) but my bangs cover it up so no one can see it, so no haircut until this thing is GONE. My hair is pretty much the only thing that protects me from people seeing this blemish...

I heard of the product TendSkin and its for ingrown hairs, BUT no local Walmart , Walgreens nor any stores within a 50 mile radius really, carry it.

My bump/pimple does have a little head on it like a normal pimple does,

I don't want to go to the doctor, due to the fact that I have had one on my knee before and he didn't help at all. ( I have a little brown spot of a scar from it) I also do not really want to mess with tweezers to try to pull the hair out because I am afraid I'll make it worse, I'm willing to try if I'm told how.

That being said, how do I alleviate the pain? ( pain level : 8.5/10) Should I continue to put ClearZit? What else can or should I do ? Any advice or help will be much appreciated ....

Normally when someone works out hard they drink Protien after thier workout.

Well now that i am starting P90X im going to be drinking the recovery formula.

Do i drink the recovery formula after every workout??(as instructed by Tony Horton) And then do i drink a serving of my wheybolic extreme 60 protein after??

It just sounds like im taking in too much supplements for one day.

P.S. I am also taking shakeology as part of my diet.

I already ordered shakeology and I am starting P90X when it gets here.

So that being said, I am taking shakeology and buying it over and over throughout p90x. I am also taking some type of protein (NOT w/ shakeology mixed etc) I was thinking about weighbololic xtreme60 . Or if you have a good recommendation for protein.

Is the recovery drink ABSOLUTELY necessary. There has to be some possible way to substitute this. I understand about the 4 to 1 ratio and how all your sugars are depleted after an intense workout.

Can someone give an example or product ( NO SPAMMING!! ) that worked or helped you.

If I have to buy this I am going to have to put P90X On hold AGAIN. I really want to start it soon

Okay so last night I went on a run , 1 mile , no stopping. I stretched before and after the run.

Anyways, I slept at 12 and today I woke up at 12. I just could not wake up. I was so comfortable and really tired than ever. As soon as I got up I immediatly felt sore, light-head/ cloudy feeling head ache, no energy and weak. I just feel like total s*** . I thought sleeping in occasionally was good for you.

Im starting p90x soon and I am getting Shakeology. My question is what flavor is the best?

Chocolate sounds really good to me, but my brother tells me that green-berry is the best according to some reviews that he read, that I can't seem to find online.

Choc or Green ???

For those of you that drive a G6, Do you ever jam out to the song " Like a G6" While you drive your G6 ???

I know the song refers to an airplane and not actually a car, but I'm still just wondering.