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My mentor and I are very close, she's much older, she's extremely rough with me (she just wants the best for me). She's a very blunt person so she doesn't show much affection, that's not her. But I notice in our conversations she's very straight up and rough but once we. Say goodbye or reach a important subject she'll always call me sweetie, dear or tells me to "keep smiling my sweet sunshine" (like a stay strong saying) she can't be sweeet but I'm just wondering why does she say/call me that stuff sometimes?

I sent a vase of flowers I arranged myself to a friends office as a little surprise. As a just because gift for her being so strong. We had a long talk on the phone (good talk) and she's been under some stress. I did it out of love and care simply letting her know I'm here. When she received them she send pictures of the flowers to me and put "wow ty. You amaze me" I didn't expect anything in return. But do you think she liked it? I feel like she didn't. I started feeling embarrassed for sending them, so I kinda haven't talked to her much since. even though I was just following my heart to do something sweet for her. I just feel embarrassed, like I've been a bother

My college instructor (he taught me cane mobility) recently died & we were extremely close, so it's been hard on me. Although his sister & I have become very close through grieving the loss of him.. We've never met, but we stay in contact through fb messages. sharing memories, stories, dreams we have of him, we've gotten very close. She basically is watching me grow up and sees all my accomplishments through the posts. Sees me honoring my instructor as he was my hero for helping me over come my big setback. Recently she sent a long message saying how smart, bright & beautiful I am. (She's a BLUNT straight up lady who hardly ever compliments) How I'm wise beyond my years etc. she even said "you are so blessed. I am so very proud of you!!!!" How could she be proud of me if we've never met?

I lost a close instructor of mine recently, lately I got in contact with his sister and we've talked a lot and have grieved together. We've bonded through the loss of him. I want to send her a jar of 101 notes, each holds a hand written quote I specially picked out. The quotes are filled of positive words, she can pick 1 or 2 daily incase her day isn't well. Do you think she'll like it? Or how would you feel receiving it?

I m 16 year old girl. mom used to dance everyday Zumba with her 2 friends Dona & Elsa. I got really close with do as son, were still good friends, almost dated. I m very close with both of them, but I m closer with Dona. She s been there for me a lot, 16th birthday, homecoming crowning, supported me when I lost & gained my vision back etc. she s a very reserved person, after losing her husband & daughter 4yrs ago. But she s always super loving, caring to me, always giving hugs & laughing together, always happy, we have a special bond. Last year she quit Zumba due to fight she had with Elsa, so we don t see her anymore but I miss her so much, so I text her "have a great day!" Every know and then.. My grandma died a couple weeks ago & surprisingly Dona had came to her funeral, I was crying very hard & shaking, She came down the line hugging family, we she got to me I bawled out crying even harder when I saw her, Life seemed at its worst & to see her after months without her, I missed her so much.cit was overwhelming. She gave me the biggest/longest hug. She kept telling me that it s okay, it s okay to cry. It was a special moment, very hard & overwhelming. Days letter she would text me checking on me. Was it bad of me to cry more, How do you think she felt seeing me like that? is it weird that we are close? (Me & my mom are very close, there s nothing my mom lacks) I just want your opinion?

I will ask a question & I will get 2 answers but when I go to look it says something about it being deleted due to community guide lines! I ask nothing innapropriate! Why is this happening?

What are words that will comfort a family member going through a hard time? Shiukd I text them a loving text, I'm scared, what if they don't like it?

I'm 16, my mom & her bestfriends (elana & Dona) do Zumba everyday for about a year, there instructors. I'm very close with both of them, we have a family bond. I'm really close with Dona, she's always supported me & celebrated my birthday with me & home coming, she supports me through my setback of going blind & gaining my vision back. I love her a lot, she's always so sweet & loving to me, me, Dona, my mom & elana hangout everyday. Recently Dona got frustrated because she couldn't get the dance moves as quick enough like mom & elana; so she got mad at elana, Dona feels she doesn't deserve to be on stage. She hasn't come to Zumba in 3 weeks, she's mad. It's been sad, because she's overexagerating everything, we love her so much & have tried everything for her to come back but she's not. She hasn't been acting herself for a while & no one knows why.. 4 days ago I texted her "just wanted to say I love & miss you so much Dona! Been thinking about you lately, I hope your doing great!" She put "aw I love you & miss you too!😘😘😘" (I know she's serious when she says that because she's a very serious, reserved lady who RARLEY shows emotion) today she wasn't on my Facebook anymore, turns out she blocked me & my mom & Elena. Why'd she block me??? She even got her son to block mud & it hurt me so much.. I cried to my mom about it, I miss her so much & I want her to go back to herself, mom said she's probably going through something. Why would she block me?? I didn't do anything :(

I wrote this sweet letter for my coach thanking her for always pushing me & training me hard during my basketball games, also telling her about my recent injury of going blind do to a bad hit to the head I had took during a game which caused me to end my athletic life. I was thanking her for being a great coach to me for 2 years, I'm scared to give it to her, will she think I'm weird? Should I? What if she doesn't like it?

I wrote this sweet letter for my coach thanking her for always pushing me & training me hard during my basketball games, also telling her about my recent injury of going blind do to a bad hit to the head I had took during a game which caused me to end my athletic life. I was thanking her for being a great coach to me for 2 years, I'm scared to give it to her, will she think I'm weird? Should I? What if she doesn't like it?

Recently in my dreams my guy friend has always appeared in my dreams. The dream setting is always happy & fun, in every dream he is in we are talking & laughing, taking pictures.. Long story short we met at the beginning of the school year after I won homecoming (I'm a sophomore he's a freshman) & he used to always offer to walk me to my 2nd period everyday (I can't see that well, just got my vision back) (I can read my phone) so he helped me. We became real close, he asked me to the football game & took me even though I couldn't see well. He admitted to liking me a whole lot, BELIEVE ME SO DO I. We had movie nights, we both really liked each other. Nothing bad ever happened. Well he started to become distant with me & ignoring me I guess after 2 months, I never knew why. I asked if he was mad at me or if I did wrong to him, he said no. It's been 6 months since we last hung out talked. Since then I've gotten close with his Bestfriend & his mom. Our parents are best friends and hang out a lot so I do see him often. He's very respectful to me & is still very sweet. He'll say hi & give me a hug, make very small, small talk. I still don't know what happened for him to ignore me. Sorry to make that so long, but he's been hard on my mind lately, I still really like him. Why is he always in my dreams? What do you think of all this. Is this all my fault ?

Recently in my dreams my guy friend has always appeared in my dreams. The dream setting is always happy & fun, in every dream he is in we are talking & laughing, taking pictures.. Long story short we met at the beginning of the school year after I won homecoming (I'm a sophomore he's a freshman) & he used to always offer to walk me to my 2nd period everyday (I can't see that well, just got my vision back) (I can read my phone) so he helped me. We became real close, he asked me to the football game & took me even though I couldn't see well. He admitted to liking me a whole lot, BELIEVE ME SO DO I. We had movie nights, we both really liked each other. Nothing bad ever happened. Well he started to become distant with me & ignoring me I guess after 2 months, I never knew why. I asked if he was mad at me or if I did wrong to him, he said no. It's been 6 months since we last hung out talked. Since then I've gotten close with his Bestfriend & his mom. Our parents are best friends and hang out a lot so I do see him often. He's very respectful to me & is still very sweet. He'll say hi & give me a hug, make very small, small talk. I still don't know what happened for him to ignore me. Sorry to make that so long, but he's been hard on my mind lately, I still really like him. Why is he always in my dreams? What do you think of all this.

What do you think?

I have this family friend, we've been friends for about a year, she lost her daughter (who was my age) a couple years ago. We are very close, we hangout almost everyday along with my family, they all workout together. Sometimes I feel like I bother her because I'm her daughters same age, & her daughters not around anymore..

She's really supportive, she was at homecoming watching me get crowned, my sweet 16, she's very loving & caring to me. Always gives me hugs & compliments, helps me, she's very sweet. Although the I feel like she doesn't like me because I'm alive & her daughter isn't.. Bi feel like a bother, what's ur opinion?

I'm a teen & I do have a mom, we are best friends & I love her soooo much! I already have her gift and card ready.. anyway I have this other special lady friend in my life & she's a mom too, I really wanted to send her a Mother's Day card but I'm scared she will think it's weird.. I really want to she's always been there supporting me & cheering me on, from my birthday, to homecoming, and so on.. she's special to me & i feel this vibe that I should do it but I'm scared.. in ways I don't even know exactly what to put, I just wanna give her sweet words.. help?

My very close friend (she's like family) lost her daughter in a car accident a couple years ago, she was my age. (This happened before I knew her) I'm around her everyday & we are super close & always laugh & have fun together. She's been to my homecoming & saw me win Queen, she went to my sweet 16, she always hugs me & tells me how proud she is of me, she says she loves me. she's very supportive of me, we have like a special bond. But sometimes when I'm around her I feel like I'm the cause for her pain of dealing with the loss of her daughter. I feel like I shouldn't be here, I guess like her daughter is gone & here I am, her same age, alive. Why do I feel like this? How do I overcome it?.. if she were to possibly see her daughter in me is that a bad thing?

My very close friend (she's like family) lost her daughter in a car accident a couple years ago, she was my age. (This happened before I knew her) I'm around her everyday & we are super close & always laugh & have fun together. She's been to my homecoming & saw me win Queen, she went to my sweet 16, she always hugs me & tells me how proud she is of me, she says she loves me. she's very supportive of me, we have like a special bond. But sometimes when I'm around her I feel like I'm the cause for her pain of dealing with the loss of her daughter. I feel like I shouldn't be here, I guess like her daughter is gone & here I am, her same age, alive. Why do I feel like this? How do I overcome it?.. if she were to possibly see her daughter in me is that a bad thing?