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I want to work things out, but it's been REALLY hard on me. On top of it all I think I'm suffering some pretty heavy postpartum depression, I can't tell if it's that or just the overwhelming emotional feelings I have towards my husband. We've been married 6 years, he did this after 3 years of marriage but I just found out recently by busting him with an email account he made up to communicate with this woman, which he was still doing. I have a family I don't want to break up, I'm hurt beyond belief and my husband suffers from depression himself so I'm not getting comforted for what he did because now he just feels sorry for himself. I want to make things right, I believe he does as well, but the constant hurt doesn't help and the last thing I want right now is intimacy and he wants it constantly. HELP!!!

He feels that since it's so long ago, he's cleared it from his mind. Obviously it's fresh in my mind and I'm furious and hurt. I found an email account he had setup that he still to this day spoke "dirty" to her on and tried to setup meetings which he swears he never went through with. He had sex with her twice while he was there. I have 2 kids and another 1 due in just a couple of weeks. I'm devastated!!! I supported our kids and was there for him while he was away and he betrayed me. He wants forgiveness but I don't know what to do. I'm trying really hard to forgive, I don't want my little ones without a mommy and daddy together forever, the pain is overbearing right now and I'm an emotional wreck from the pregnancy. Any advice would be greatly appreciated!!

I need advice, I refuse to have an abortion but my husband of 5 years doesn't want this baby. I have a 3 yr old and a 2 year old and I'm pregnant again. I wasn't planning on getting pregnant again it just happened. This is causing tons of stress in our marriage because of the conflict of my views against his. He didn't want anymore kids at all but he's the one who did the ultimate "oops" but he won't accept responsibility, Can anyone give me some advice on what I should do, I would never kill this baby, I'd leave my husband before I did that. Thanks!!