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He has always never told me its very hurting ans secretive and a matter of dis trust any advice?

My husband makes gross aboegalut2000.oo a week I make about 150.00 I'm fileing for a divorce at a free llegal aid service in bos .mass.,,, need to know cause I'm also homeless now.

Ok my husbands son was just getting out of jail after 10 yrs for shooting hid girlfreind 5 times but just hit her twice in the leg,,, so hes comeing home after ten yrs i was asked to quit smokeing,I gave it a good try ,, He hasnt changed he took over my car went on welfare hasnt looked for a job finds woman on the chat spends his time at the gym,, so all he does is that i can go on one night after dealing with so much change stress and what not ,,,,, i lit a cigarete, my husband grabed my hand so hard I never saw such anger in his eyes then he pushed me I was in the kitchen so he pushed me so hard up against the counter that I broke fractured two ribs!!! I had called the police cause was afraid at that point what else he might do so they came took him away,,,the son went with them they didnt come home ,the next day i had packed a bag left with my freind took me to the er, I had to come back i had no where to go,,,,,,,I do love this man so much but he and i have discused me leaveing,,and Im gonna his son in the meantime is liveing with his grandmother and i stay alone in my room with the door locked, I knew this would happen for 10 yrs I knew ,,, But its hard to move on ,,,lost weight i feel hurt inside and out, Seems tome to be very painfull when a man chooses and acts that way just for a son that will never change ,Iv been a good wife,,in everyway. But Iv given up and have no respect for him any more , and he says he didnt mean it.I dont forgive him and im very sad depressed ,,,and on line looking for advice and places to live,,it been two weeks of desparation lonleyness and a feeling of helplessness ,, I know Ill go on soon,,,over come it and stand up and do what I have to do.its just so hard. And I have no money,but I know legal aid will help, its just so hard to accept it all. How to forgive? I dont know if I can. Im 56 now not as strong as i used to be ,,,but I will try to.

HE DONE 10 YRSfor attmpted murder.. now sits back gets food stamps took my car dont look for a job I want him out he is a slob!!fowl mouth pig!

any thing,, do the cleaning cooking sex, everything is got to be paid by my efforts to do for him,because he pays the bills.Reminding me constantly that i owe him ,i do appreciate ,but the constant feeling of payback,,is a must.Otherwise its not happening. Iv been paying back this man,,takeing care of his house that im not ever gonna own,,cooking cleaning up after him every day purposely leaveing stuff for me to pick up and clean put away stay neat shineing,,,dropping stuff knowing i should pick it up,because i owe him that for takeing care of me,,,I pay the bills ,,so you do what you gotta do for me .thats the way its been for 15 yrs Im depressed feeling I constantly gotta pay him back in one way or anouther.What would you call this kind of relationship? Id like to know? How can I just stop feeling Im forever in debt?

Im not sure if i can stay in my mariage im older now no income nothing and no famaly no where to turn ,,?

my hands hurt,,,my feet hurt its so painfull ,,I dont know what to do ,I just cant do it any more,help!

It was about 6 yrs ago what can I do to get more Any aswer will be appreciated!!Help!!She starts Iron trasfusions this week every week and she said it was for months ?/What foods or other ways can sh do ??To avoid this?

She is 30 has two children one of another man age 7 one of this three yr marage,a 2yr old son , they got a house , are in debt, she tells me Her hubby says things to her like shes a looser and a lousy wife he said shes ugly and is jelouse of her every move, he treats her like a disrepectfull nobody, and constantly tries to lower her self asteem. What I did was nothing but listen to this for three yrs .She says she loves him ,at the same time has nothing good to say about the way he talks and treats her,he critisises all her freinds , And god onley knows what he says about me . well , after a episode of more verbal abuse and such I said I as a mother will say something to him ,,so I did, what i said was Look, just rem I am her mother before shes your wife. remember this. Thats all That was said by me in a text msg. Now my daughter tells me to mind my buisness And i should havent said any thing.!!So I said ok from now on dont tell me your buisness.What she then did was post something like this on her fb page, People should mind their own buisnes and keep their nose out of my buisness!!Meant tward me!!No doubt!!This double standard of hers was hurt full and also igorant!!To have other people comments there as well to boot!Im angry And feel Iv done nothing but try to protect my interest, my daughter! Now I ask You wise moms out there is this right is it right or fair to me? And how should feel and what should I do now?? Any reply will be appreciated Thanks.

Id like to know of any quick ideas

otherwise im nothing more than a door mat or something like that

For richer or pooer I feel like Im always oweing him because Im not very succesfull as he is?

cause most of them are and theres got to be one??

I would paint something every night but lateley Im lost for ideas can some one help me to get any?New subject Ideas and what not ., I like all mediums, Im open for all ideas at this point ,,thanks

Any tips on how i get started?I would love to be worth the talent I have without it all going to the boss.

any edderly in this severce need

can any one give me some tips on getting started?? I am tierd of working for people and co that dont pay what your worth..Please any info will help.

try to bring you down every chance they can for no reason

I recently made a mistake on a haircut it was a comunication error i gave a man a cut he didnt want at all i thought i did he made a scene and embarised me so much that i wanted to cry ,my boss was disturbed and every one there noticed ,,, how to avoid this from ever happening again.?????

Once it starts how can i releive this as soon as i can? painfull episodes of spasms ,id like to know how i get imediate relief please any one id apreciate any help.