JRSK007

... because your spouse has a negative attitude about sex (they think sex is a chore or yucky or you don't know what their problem is), or they have a low low sex drive (they might not have one at all). Do you find that nobody understands how crushing this is to your concept of loving sex? You know the special sex with the person you love? Are you even embarrassed that this is happening to you? Perhaps, you are sick of people telling you it is your fault, you're doing something wrong that is causing the problem?

Do you love your spouse? Are you a sensualist, do you love sex? Now, does your spouse say they love you, but are nonetheless sexless with you? Is it driving you crazy, right on up a wall of frustration, despair and heartbreak? They say they love you, yet they are indifferent to your sexual needs/desires? You want them, and you want them to want you, but it’s as platonic as can be. Do you see the rest of your life slipping away without the sweetness of sex ever again? I mean kisses that go to the bottom of your being, and orgasms that send you into another level of existence… never again?

Wanna talk to someone who understands what you are going through… I sure do.

... because your spouse has a negative attitude about sex (they think sex is a chore or yucky or you don't know what their problem is), or they have a low low sex drive (they might not have one at all). Do you find that nobody understands how crushing this is to your concept of loving sex? You know the special sex with the person you love? Are you even embarrassed that this is happening to you? Perhaps, you are sick of people telling you it is your fault, you're doing something wrong that is causing the problem?

... because your spouse has a negative attitude about sex (they think sex is a chore or yucky or you don't know what their problem is), or they have a low low sex drive (they might not have one at all). Do you find that nobody understands how crushing this is to your concept of loving sex? You know the special sex with the person you love? Are you even embarrassed that this is happening to you? Perhaps, you are sick of people telling you it is your fault, you're doing something wrong that is causing the problem?

It's another Saturday night and I'm married but I still don't have a lover.

I don't mean swinging... I mean another neglected spouse that is looking for someone who is also neglected. If you don't know, or if this upsets you, please just save it, you don't understand.

(If this doesn’t apply to you, then good for you.)

Are you married and passionately in love with your spouse, your spouse who says they love you, and YET they have no interest in expressing that love physically through sex? Do they reject your desires, do they act like sex is a chore and a scourge to be avoided at all cost? Is everything else o.k. in the marriage except for this one thing? Did it leave you crushed on Valentines day to be without physical intimacy? Did it hurt extra just because it was Valentine’s day?

It was Valentine's Day Night.

Are you married and passionately in love with your spouse, your spouse who says they love you, and YET they have no interest in expressing that love physically through sex? Do they reject your desires, do they act like sex is a chore and a scourge to be avoided at all cost? Is everything else o.k. in the marriage except for this one thing? Did it leave you crushed on Valentines day to be without physical intimacy? Did it hurt extra just because it was Valentine’s day?

... and they have no erotic joy in their life because they in effect have no sex partner in their life, and because they are married, they don't want anyone else, and they can't legitimately get with someone else either.

In other words, isn't V-day the everlovin' pits for those forced into sexlessness by their anti-sex or sex averse spouse?

Just reading the cards about how great they make your life cuts like a knive when all you get is neglect and/or sexual rejection.

You don't have to answer publicly if you're ashamed (though it's not your fault). Write to me at my email or

www.groups.yahoo.com/group/swa...

www.swagesupport.blogspot.com

... and they have no erotic joy in their life because they in effect have no sex partner in their life, and because they are married, they don't want anyone else, and they can't legitimately get with someone else either.

In other words, isn't V-day the everlovin' pits for those forced into sexlessness by their anti-sex or sex averse spouse?

Just reading the cards about how great they make your life cuts like a knive when all you get is neglect and/or sexual rejection.

You don't have to answer publicly if you're ashamed (though it's not your fault). Write to me at my email or

www.groups.yahoo.com/group/swage

www.swagesupport.blogspot.com

... and they have no erotic joy in their life because they in effect have no sex partner in their life, and because they are married, they don't want anyone else, and they can't legitimately get with someone else either.

In other words, isn't V-day the everlovin' pits for those forced into sexlessness by their anti-sex or sex averse spouse?

Just reading the cards about how great they make your life cuts like a knive when all you get is neglect and/or sexual rejection.

You don't have to answer publicly if you're ashamed (though it's not your fault). Write to me at my email or

... and they have no erotic joy in their life because they in effect have no sex partner in their life, and because they are married, they don't want anyone else, and they can't legitimately get with someone else either.

In other words, isn't V-day the everlovin' pits for those forced into sexlessness by their anti-sex or sex averse spouse?

Just reading the cards about how great they make your life cuts like a knive when all you get is neglect and/or sexual rejection.

You don't have to answer publicly if you're ashamed (though it's not your fault). Write to me at my email or http://www.groups.yahoo.com/group/swage

http://www.swagesupport.blogspot.com/

This CD seems to what to use flash to evenplay in my PC which is odd to me, usually a CD just plays via Window Media Player, but this CD wants me to load something new, register on-line, etc, etc. Anyone ever run into this? What can I use to rip the songs off into Mmp3 files that I can play wherever I want without lugging that CD around?

I know this is rather open ended, and I mean for it to be.

But just what to you do, when the person you're married to has completely shut down as far as sex goes? Everything else is fine, they just have turned asexual towards sex with you.

Before you ask, they've been talked to about this, and they feel like its your problem for wanting sex... and that they dont see it as unreasonable for them to expect you to just go without.

Also it been over two years like this.

I want to exchange thoughts with other erotic writers, but I don't want to give offense to anyone.

Though they say you can join for free, AFF, and MS want you to spend money to really be able to find someone in the same boat that you are (sexually neglected/sexless/sexually abandoned).

I'm just wondering if there's anyway to find someone without paying a bunch of money that you really don't have to spend.

This is not an invite for people to post negative comments.

... to promise me that she hated apples too. She did, we were perfect for each other. Everything else between us was supper. She was everything I wanted and nothing that I didn't want, and I was everything she had hoped for and nothing that she had been afraid of.

Well, one day I came home and kissed her... on her breath I could taste apple. I nearly threw up... and then when I thought of how she had lied to me, I nearly threw up again.

Why did she lie to me? Is it true that once a lier, always a lier?

Why oh why did she lie to me?

if there is nothing positive about an affair, why would someone have one unless they were in some way driven to it? Look at how hard it is to start one, and what is at risk for having one. Is any affair really worth it? If not, then don't people have to be extremely desparate to have one? What would make them so desparate?

Let's list the negatives and any positives you can think about an affair, and see what out weighs the other.

Anyone else have a spouse that has no appreciation for good kissing.

What's the point of having a mate who isn't into kissing.

Does anyone else think kissing is about the sweetest/bestest thing in the world, and yet their partner couldn't care less about good good kissing?

Have you ever wished for a kissing paramour, just so you can have some good kissing? Could you just die from the lack of good kissing?