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i did a study on homeless in our country and the average age is 12. for whatever the reasons are, and everyone one has a story, this is unacceptable. i know for a fact that alcohol/drugs and mental illness arent the only culprits. im about to become homeless and wonder if my sons father can take him from me. he would never give him back and i would probably die of a broken heart as a result.

ive had a very unstable and inconsistent work history. ive had to take all types of jobs just to feed my kids. but its haunting me now that im trying to get back into the work force. i dont even know how to due a resume effectively. i get depressed everytime i try to look for work and am very discouraged. i have education to back me up-but my work history is bad.

my family treats my indifferantly because i dont work-my fiance takes care of me and my children. but because we struggle sometimes with money and dont make close to 100,000 dollars a year, im considered a loser. the funny thing is that everyone in my family is or had a drug or alcohol addiction but its okay because they all make really good money. as for me, ive never been addicted to anything. i wonder if they treat me different because i dont do as they do? any thoughts anyone.

i just turned 35 and want to be single again. ive been in a relationship for 6 years and have always done the long term thing. i want to be free so badly and want to have fun. but i dont want to lose my boyfriend. i wish he would let me go out and have a little fun, but he doesnt trust me. now i want to lie and sneak around. but its such a hassle. im definately not happy and want to sow my wild oats so to speak. anyone else gone through the same thing. (ps. everyone says i look alot younger for my age).

im considering getting a second dog-a husky to be exact. anyone know if theyre compatible with other dogs/kids. my first dog is a 10 year old chow mix. i need a dog to go with me on my walks and my chow is arthritc and getting up in there in years. plus i feel safer walking with a dog.

does anyone else out there not wear sunblock because it make you break out? i dont really spend much time in the sun anymore. im olive complected due to being biracia, however, ive been told that i still need to wear sunblock. but i break out!! acne or wrinkles/skin cancer?

im freaked out by how thin young girls are these days, they look like pencils. maybe its a cultural thing, but i was raised that real men like meat on their women. latin men and black men (god bless them) seem to be the only ones who like "thick" women. lucky for me. anyone else know what these pencil-types think they might look good to guys? are they kidding themselves?

has anyone felt that being attractive makes it harder to make friends. my one friend is single, but everytime she gets interested in someone, she keeps me away. ive never done anything to suggest that i would move in on her man. she told me to stay away from this one guy she started to date, and i looked at her crazy. i told her maybe she should tell him to stay away from me. ive never taken anybodys man before. i cant help it if theyre more attracted to me than them. i hardly have any friends because of this. anyone else have the same problem.? i feel like its almost discrimination. or people assume your dumb if your attractive. im a college graduate with an almost 3.0 gpa. i hate being stereotyped.

my man has become very selfish in bed. i dont even want to have sex with him because it usually is very disappointing. all he wants to do is take care of himself. could this be the end?

im taking it in its pure form with no addtional ingredients because i have high blood pressure. it seems to be working. its only been a week, but this is a crucial week because im pms-ing and i usually eat uncontrollably. this may be my miracle that ive been hoping for.

how do i get a restraining order against someone whos already incarcerated, but will be released in january?

has been coming on to me over the phone and in person. it makes me nervous, but at the same time gives me a little thrill. im only 34 and my sons friend will be eighteen-how should i handle this?

i use products for acne prone skin, but i want to use something that will help with texture, discoloration and possible fine lines. know of anything?

ive heard of people getting custom license plates and frames but stickers that name their car? what does that mean?

i have a rebuilt engine from a 1969 pontiac catalina that i want to put in another vehicle. probably a truck would have to suffice since it is a 400 or even a 428. all i know is that is powerful and fast. i want to do this for my son. any mechanics out there.

i live in southern california and want to meet a guy between 30 and 35. i dont get out much and am not into the bar seen. ive tried church, but there are some weirdos there too. wheres a good place to go. im a full time student but the guys are way to young for me.

my boyfriend was 21, 6ft 1, and 185lbs when we got together. now hes 26, 310lbs and im frustrated. he does everything in excess, lies about what and how much he eats and stashes food in his closest. im completely opposite. its ruining our relationship and i hate having sex with him.

my sixteen year old wants to get a part-time job and has bugging me about it for well over a year. especially now that he has a girlfriend. i told him that he should just worry about school and he has the rest of his life to work. his last progress report showed four F's and 1 D. this kid was in the gifted program in elementary school and immediately went down hill when he went into jr high school. ive tried everything with him. also, since im a single parent, on disability and a full time parent myself, i need help from the state and am afraid that whatever he makes ill have to report and theyll take it from our monthly budget. i will be graduating from college next spring and wish he wouldnt put so much pressure on me about working. i give him an allowance, but he has to do chores which he fights me on tooth and nail as is. how will he hold a job then? going nuts.

my fiances grandmother invited us to dinner on several different occasions. each time she dissected the bill, complained and insisted we pay for our own drinks. then she takes whatevers left and takes it home for herself. she doesnt even care if we want to take it home. or she try to get someone to share a meal. we havent spoken to her in almost a year because of the last dining experience.