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What is with these guys? They just drop of the face of the earth and don't have the balls to just say, "Hey, I won't be seeing you anymore." How hard is it to leave a message or send an email? Even after you let them know that doing that is not cool and they agree, they still do it. And they do it from out of nowhere and after all is going well. This is the second guy that one day it is great and the next no call and no answer on the phone. I would not do that to someone. I would be upfront and tell them it wasn't working. This one even self-proclaimed himself my "boyfriend." Is it just guys in their 30s or just the ones I meet?

I went on four excellent dates with this great guy I met almost two months ago. Then I stopped hearing from him. He was calling on a regular basis. The last I talked to him he had a major blow up with the ex wife the week before (who he has kids with), he had been working more on his two full time jobs and was having medical problems. I figured he needed time and space. I left a message last week just saying I was checking in and I know he had a rough week and I missed hearing from him. It took a couple days for him to pick up the message. Still no calls and it has been over a week. My life is crazed at the moment and will continue to be for a few more months. Do I call again and let him know this or not bother calling at all? Or anything in between?

If I was already emailing a couple guys before I talked to him and it is platonic and I was up front with the guys that I can’t meet them or call them, is emailing them wrong? Or cheating? Even if I don’t know what the relationship is exactly but we are daying. I do know the relationship is evolving and getting deeper.

I told a co-worker about something intimate involving a guy I have been talking to. I told him I told the guy and he was embarrassed and mad. I didn't realize it would bug him (I repeat everything to my close friends). I apoligized, but he is hurt. I realize I was completely wrong in this situation and I know not to tell EVERYTHING. What should I do? Just tell the dude I am untrustworthy and he should not bother further? Or is there anything more to even do in the situation? I feel really bad.

How many days would go by before you figure the person is not interested?

I have been talking to this guy for 3 weeks. We never set a time and place to meet, just the day a week ago. He comes across okay, but narcissistic. we are supposed to meet tomorrow, but I think less than 24 hours is too little to set the time etc, don't you?

Thru work we can send each other a valentine. I want to get him thinking and show a little interest without propositioning him. I am not sure if I should put my name on it. What could I write?