hypnoticduck45

I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years. We moved in together in late september and I have been feeling kind of trapped ever since. We get along really well and we rarely fight but I can't help feeling old and married and overly settled. I am only 23 and I feel like I am stuck in a relationship for the rest of my life. My boyfriend talks about how he is 100% sure that he wants to spend the rest of his life with me. I am far from sure.

I love my boyfriend and I can see myself with him for a long time, but I also wonder what else is out there. I do look at other men and wonder what it would be like to date someone else. I miss the excitement and adventure of new romance. Am I just suffering from a case of "the grass is always greener on the other side" or should I be concerned about the future of my relationship?

I have been with my boyfriend for almost 3 years and recently moved in with him in October. Right about the time I moved in with him, I started finding myself attracted to someone else, who I slowly developed a relationship with and slept with a few times.

I still love my boyfriend and feel like we work really well together...but I feel bored, not to mention incredibly attracted to another person. I don't know if the fact that I cheated is an indication that I should end the relationship or if its just a phase that I am going through. My boyfriend and I are very settled and it is easy for me to be with him...We get along really well and I can see myself being with him for a long time. Its just that the passion is gone. Am I going through a phase or should I leave my boyfriend? Even if I do decide to stay with him, do I deserve to have him after cheating on him?