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I have known this guy for about 5 years. We have hooked up here and there for the 5 year period. Over a year ago he broke up with a girl he was with for quite a while that he planned on marrying. He is pretty messed up about the situation and is very skeptical about woman. He thinks they will all screw him over. So we have went from sex to meeting his family, going on family vacation, going to family events, going camping together, i stay with him almost every day i am can ( he invites and is sad if i dont want to or am unable to) and spending every weekend together. This has happened over a 10 month period it has slowly progressed. A few weeks ago i found out since we arent a couple he has been sleeping with other girls if he feels like it and i also found tinder on his phone. He is aware that i dont like it he says he could quit both. I havent asked about it again but i am still unsure if i should walk away from the situation or give him a chance. I really like him and would love for it to work out but i feel like he is stringing me along. I dont have a mans brain so i dont know how they work! Any advice would be great.

I have a crush on him but I get really nervous around him but I don't know if it's weird to message him when we hardly talk. I know him from work he doesn't work for the same company but we see each other often.

A male friend of a few years invited me over to catch up since we just moved to the same town and have not talked in a while. I went over to visit and we ended up hooking up. He was the one that started all of it and kept taking it further even after saying we should probably slow down. I didn t try to stop him so it s also my fault. He sent me a message a day or two later saying it was kind of a mistake and we had no business doing any of that stuff. I agree that we probably shouldn t have done it but it already happened. Why would he do this? He doesn t like me? It sucked? He s trying not to be the guy that only wants sex? Why did he initiate all of it if he didn t want to?

So i had sex with a new guy a few weeks ago. I tore a bit due to his size which has never happened to me before (not so worried about that). I then got a yeast infection but i have still been itching a bit down there. Nothing like when i had the yeast infection just a small amount of itching every now and then. Its not even bad enough that i have to itch it! but then last night i decided since he lives out of town i would touch myself and i feel like something feels different down there. and I feel like it was itching while i was trying to finger myself and it was not enjoyable. has anyone ever had an experience like this? do you think its an STD? any advice?

I like a guy i work with, alot! I dont get to spend a lot of time around him at work but when i do he makes me feel a way i havent felt before. It sounds cheesy but its just how it happens. Is it ok if i invite him to do go to an outting (we dont talk a whole bunch, but we know eachother)? should i invite him to an event with a bunch of people or invite him to do a one on one activity? I need serious help! Thanks!

what do you prefer?

i have been in love with my best friend for 7 years. he knows i love him but he is in a relationship(he says he is in love). it can get really hard for me sometimes and i feel like i need to find someone else but i dont know how to let go and i need to do that before i can move on i dont care to even look at anyone else im so set on this. i know if i pretty much cut him out of my life i will kinda let go but i dont want to do that?..should i do that?... any ideas of how to move on?

i asked a guy on a date (yeah i know girls dont normally ask.. or girls i know dont but i did what the heck!) . now im not sure what we are going to do! i need some ideas!

i only have one really close guy friend. he is pretty much my best friend. i just don't know if all guys act like him or if he just does it. he doesnt like anyone he told me he will never accept someone i am with. he freaks out if he thinks i even kiss someone. but the thing is he is in a relationship and i dont see why he cares so much. so do all guys do that to their friends that are girls.??

i really like taking pictures and i want to buy a good camera but i am not sure what brand is good or anything? do you have any advice?

ok, so i see this person almost every day and if i dont its really wierd. the places i run into them just doesnt make sense. i like him but im thinking maybe its just because we have odd run ins all the time. they arent planned but maybe im just thinking way too much into it, i tried texting him and stuff and he wont text back but when i see him he will talk to me so i just dont know whats going on.

there is a guy that everyone says is a player and he doesnt care about anything but getting laid but if he was like that it seems like he would be different. i am far from being easy or anything like that. he has never been disrespectful. we watch movies at his house and he doesnt try to get anything. hes really sweet and it seems like he would either have a easy girl over or try something if he was the way people say he is. what do you think?

if you thought you saw someone close to your house and asked them if it was them why would the ignore you? but once i said or maybe it wasnt you i could of been wrong he says yes it is him?

one more thing i was talking to this same guy telling him that i wanted to move somewhere and he said that if he needs a roommate he will let me know. i was not asking him if i could live with him or anything we were just talking about what i was planning on doing. why would he say that he has never had a roommate before.

there is this guy and he always talked trash about this girl to me and he dated her a couple days after he was talking a bunch of crap so i asked about it and he got really mad at me and said his life was none of my business and that he didnt like her or care about her it was just because he needed something anything at the time i didnt talk to him for a while and he had some girl text me and pretty much beg me to talk to him. and then there was another time when he liked this girl i knew he did it was just obvious and when i told him i was happy he was happy with her he freaked out on me again and said that i was being immature and stupid because he didnt like her and stuff when they dated i asked about it again and he just smiled. they arent together anymore as soon as they were over he started talking to me alot. i dont get why he does this we never fight unless its about some girl what is his problem?

there is this guy i have known and liked for almost 5 years and it just doesnt seem to go away. i have liked people after him but they meant nothing compared to what he means to me. he knew i liked him i dont think he knows i still do but when i did he didnt want anything more than a friend he said it was because he didnt wanna mess up what we already had which is probably BS but it was good enought for me at the time. me and him are never going to happen but i just cant get over it. i finally thought that i was over him and ok but that was because we had no contact with eachother for quite a long time and when he contacted me it felt like we never lost touch and now im back to feeling like i have no control over anything. do your feelings ever change about people or do you just have to go on with life with someone else will never make you feel like that.

this does not seem like jealousy to me but people have said it seems like jealousy, so im not sure. a (guy) friend of mine was asking me if i was interested in anyone and i said yes. he bugged me for over an hour to find out who it was. when i finally told him he had nothing good to say about the guy. he told me that he did not trust that guy with my heart and the guy had an some STD. we had not talked for a while before this but after we had this talk my guy friend talked to me a lot and has now stoped. i dont tihnk he was jealous or anything i tihnk he was just helping me out.but what do you think?

so there is this guy he openly admited that he was interested in more than one girl and unsure what he wanted at the time. it was like 2 months ago when we talked about it. i know that he is sleeping with this girl from work(she gets around) i just dont understand why he would still talk to me and stuff if he wanted her, im sure he could have her if he wanted so why isnt he just with her?

when we first met we talked every day and then we hardly talked for a while and now i don't really talk to him but he texts me and stuff and he doesn't really have anything to say . or he will just text me to say goodnight and he texts me while he's at the bar(it seems like someone would be busy and not want to talk while they are at the bar?) and stuff. we have hung out a couple times and he didnt even want to go home and texted me as soon as we were not together anymore. i just dont get it sometimes i think he is interested and other times i think he isnt.