stella

Because of severe trust issues that were caused by my husband I have resorted to checking his phone. (I know not a good thing). We were separated for approx. 6 months and decided that we would try again. To be honest I shouldn't even consider the idea. (Within our first year of marriage he cheated on my with an ex or shall I say supposedly ex). Well now fast forward While checking his phone I noticed that every morning he would call this particular number but *67 to block his number. I asked him about it and he said that one of his co-workers calls that number. He said his friend doesn't have a cell phone. Stupid me calls the number and finds out it was a woman. Husband tells me that the reason his friend blocks the number out is because he doesn't want this girl to know husband's phone number. Here's the killer just the other day I noticed that this same number called my husband straight through. On top of that he told me that this women is supposedly married.

When I was separated from my husband, I met this guy who was filing for divorce from his wife. We met for a drink a couple of time and had a really nice time. Well his wife has finally moved out even though the divorce is not final. It was established in the beginning that we would just be friends and enjoy each other, because he was not looking for a relationship. He stopped calling me a couple of months ago, (he said because he wanted to be discreet until divorce final). I haven't talked to him in months but he's telling my friends that I need to take care of business and pursue divorce with my husband. We never said we would be together anyway. Is he just trying to justify to my friends why he stopped calling me. What does he care if my divorce is final or not, if he's not even talked to me in months. His divorce is not even final yet. Where's he coming from with this?

Everytime me and my hubby are together his mother is always asking him for money..We have been married less than two years so we are trying to build our resources to purchase a house. His sister is always asking for something. Mind you her and her husband have just had a house built. When my husband bought a car she told him she wanted one too. It's things like that gets to me. Why do they ask him for money, etc. when they know he has a new wife? They both have nice houses and we live in a little cramped up apt.

Me and my hubby took a trip out of state for the weekend and when my sister in law called; because he was driving he told me to answer the phone. She was upset because he left her behind (he told her she would not be going). She was so nasty to me saying how pissed off she was and why was I answering the phone because she didn't want to speak to me she wanted to speak to him. I couldn't believe how nasty she was. He left her because we would have to had changed some of our plans to accommodate her. She has the tendency to be so controlling. Am I wrong to distance myself? Now what really gets me is that now she is acting like she was just playing and she can't believe that I think she was mad at me as well and so on.

Over the week-end me and my hubby decided to take a trip to see his family in another state, but he had asked his sister did she want to ride. She wanted to come but we would have had to change things around to accommodate her. ie. she would only ride in a rental car, we had to leave after she was done entertaining some guests, etc. After all this, my hubby just said forget her and we went on without her. (He told her we would be leaving without her) Well anyway she calls while we were on the rode, and since he was driving, he told me to answer the phone. When I said hello, she was so nasty to me saying things like I don't want to talk to you I want my brother, and she goes on about how pissed off she was and she was serious she didn't want to talk to me, she wanted him. So after speaking to him she wanted to speak to me because she realized how nasty she was, but I refused to get back on the phone. Now she saying she was just playing and she wasn't mad. Should I distance her?

I met a gentlemen a couple of months back who we seemed to hit it off really well, (so I thought) we both were going through some things in our personal lives so it was established in the beginning that he was not looking for anything serious because he was going through a divorce. So with that being said there was no physical elements added to the relationship. We talked several times a day, everday; then all of a sudden he just stopped all contact. Mind you I know he was going through a divorce so I know he possibly was grieving or whatever. Now he's calling again, but I am a little salty because he just dropped off the face of the earth. I never put pressure on him to do anything one way or the other about his relationship with this other woman. He text me on Valentine's Day, so I know it couldn't be about his soon to be ex checking his phone. Should I be mad for no contact or just let him go on about his business? Was he just looking for sex?

Can my sister add my 18 year old nephew to a rental car agreement as an additional driver on a luxury car?

My sister wants to rent a luxury car for my nephew to attend the prom. He is only 18 yrs. old. Can she add him as an additional driver or how does this work. His prom is in a week and she still hasn't reserved a car for him.

Sister's fiancee cheated on my sister big time, and they are now trying to work on their relationship. I think he was messing with this woman prior to them getting engaged. I told my sister to not trust them. Is he just being low-key now, or did he finally come to his senses? My sister busted him.

I met this wonderful guy who was going through a divorce. He told me he was just waiting for the divorce to be final. We got along just fine and had a lot in common. He made sure he text me every morning before I went to work just to say good morning and several times throughout the day. This went on for about a couple of months. Then suddenly, he just kind of pulled away. His wife has moved out but I still haven't heard anything from him. I heard more from him before all this had taken place but now that he is that much closer to being single he doesn't even call just to say hello. We have had the discussion in the beginning about not wanting anything serious right now, but just enjoying each other and having fun. Thank god I was not physically intimate with him. Did he just want sex and since I didn't put out, with no strings attached he just moved on? What do you think is going on with him?

I noticed that everytime I am around this one particular guy, and his friends call him on the phone he always lies about what he's actually doing. For example: One night we were at the video store and he said he was grocery shopping because someone wanted to borrow some money, and another time we were out eating dinner, and he told someone that he was waiting for me to meet him when actually we were already together. Why does he do this?

My husband has a couple for friends that we occassionally hang out with, mostly he spends time with them by himself. They have a teenage son who travels with a basketball league and they just so happen to be playing in the town where i grew up and some of family members still live. My husband told me last week that he was going with them to the game with or without me, so make up my mind what I wanted to do. He wants to go stay with my father's girlfriend whom my father no longer is staying with, but I say I want to go stay with sister. My father's ex-girlfriend doesn't drink or smoke and it just seems like he is really going out of his way to accommodate these friends. Well I drink and I do smoke and my sister does as well. Where were they going to stay if we weren't going? They are so cheap and don't want to pay for a room the entire week-end so my thing is why should I have to negotiate with them just so they can be comfortable. My husband acts like he doesnt understand. help

Why would a married man play games on the phone and have a woman relative his wife doesn't know really well answer it when the wife calls. He answered it saying the other woman was his girlfriend and asking the wife what she wants. I didn't think it was funny. We have had a situation like this before but only that time it was his friends' wife. Why would he do this if he knows it upsets me and why would the woman answer his phone?

After not talking to my man all day, I gave him a call and to my surprise he had a woman answer his phone. When I asked for him she put him on the phone I then asked him who that woman was and he answered me saying it was his girlfriend, and what did I want. He said this twice. He then told me that it was cousin. After she learned it was me, she didn't say hi or anything. She just hollered in the background that she didn't know it was me. He lied and said he told her it was me. He's done this on several occassions and he knows this pisses me off when I call him only to have him have other woman (even though I may know them) answering his phone. I never have men answering my phone especially if I knew it was him calling. Why does he do this?

My husband fought me so hard to maintain a relationship with his ex whom he had no kids by, until it ultimately just ruined any trust I had in our marriage. He cared more for her feelings than mine. Because of this we have been separated for approx. 4 months. Please help me to understand this; now he is acting like he is up for nomination for husband of the year award, being and acting like a husband is supposed to act towards his wife. But what i really don't understand is what happened to his ex that he acted like he wasn't giving up their so called friendship regardless of what I felt about it. How can someone just disappear out your life just like that when he destroyed our marriage just to maintain a relationship with her. What happened to her? ARe they just real low-key now or what?

If someone violates probation can they just pay what was owed and get a clearance or what's the procedure if you want to make things right? Will you go to jail?

When a man leaves the house with his wedding ring on only to come home with it on his key chain? He supposedly went out with some friends, but said he took it off because his knuckles were ashy. (what kind of bull is that) Is he living a double life? I know a couple of those friends knew at one time we went thru a brief separation. Is he trying to keep them from knowing we are working on our relationship? What's the real deal?

A guy I have been talking to lately says he is going through a divorce in which his wife has already signed the papers, but they continually go to family functions together. such as birthday parties, etc. Mutual friends have told me that you can tell that their relationship is strained, but in my opinion even though the divorce is not yet final all family outings such as still acting like a couple are supposed to be over. Am I being irrational?

I met a wonderful guy a couple of months ago who unfortunately was married but going through a rough patch in his marriage the last couple of years. They both mutually decided to divorce but she was not yet moved out of the house because she was trying to get someone to co-sign for her an apartment. Well anyways, he was very upfront about everything and told me what was going on with the divorce process. We talked basically everyday and then last week he calls me and tells me she is totally on the nut. (I think she is finally realizing that he no longer wants the marriage). He said they have been arguing basically everyday. He also said that she is going through old phone bills of his, etc. So why did he stop communication with me? Is it because he doesn't want her to think that the reason he doesn't want the marriage is because of another woman or is all this a bunch of bull. I just don't understant why he would pull away.

I met a guy a couple of months ago who told me that he was currently going through a divorce even though him and his wife still live together. We talked all the time and occassionally met for drinks. (No Sex). Suddenly he just kind of backed up from me and doesn't call as frequently. Just texting occassionally. He called me recently I guess to let me know that he hasn't forgot about me or whatever and things were getting real messy at home. He also said they have been arguing mostly every day. I can understand him not calling in the evenings when he is at home out of respect for his wife, but he used to call me at work, but has even stopped that. What's going on with him.