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  • Is it wise to file for bankruptcy if I have no assets and no job but I owe thousands of dollars to creditors?

    I have been unemployed for several months. I owe student loans, car payments and several credit cards. I don't own anything and I do not have any money in the bank or otherwise. I have medical bills, Credit cards and student loans totaling somewhere near $60,000. What should I do. I can't find a job. Is bankruptcy an option?

    4 AnswersPersonal Finance1 decade ago
  • Dell Laptop Monitor Help!?

    Hello everyone, I recently bought a new 21.5 inch monitor for my dell laptop. I was trying to install the monitor when I inadvertently changed my monitor settings. After my computer boots up there is only a black/blank screen. Everything else seems to work but I can't do much of anything else. I see the boot-up screens perfectly but after that I see nothing. My question is; is there a way to change that monitor settings before boot up? Please I need help, Thanks in advance for any assistance that anyone can provide.

    1 AnswerMonitors1 decade ago
  • How do I get rid of a program tha has hijacked my home page and put an undeletable program in add/remove?

    This website has taken over my home page and internet explorer does not work correctly. I am now using firefox and am having no problems unless something says that I need internet explorer 5.0 or higher. When I go to Internet Properties my home page is correct but not displaying when I click on the internet explorer icon. The site that hijacked my homepage is some internet security site and I can't get rid of it. I went to add/remove and it will not let me remove it because it says that it is in use. There are 3 related programs and I can't remove any of them. I had thought about using my restore disc and wiping out everything but I have so many valuable programs and I don't know where to retreive them again. The site is: http://theuptodatesafety.com/ PLEASE WHATEVER YOU DO, DON'T GO TO THAT SITE. You may end up with the same problem. I believe that it may be in dll files and that is why I can't delete it. I have scanned with Norton anti virus and others Please help me, I thank you.

    14 AnswersSecurity1 decade ago
  • 6 days since she left and the pain seems as great today as it was on the day she sneaked out, I hurt so bad.?

    I really do not have any family or friends, and my wife, whom was my only friend is gone. I am finding the pain increasing because I am reliving our life in my head. I went back 12 years ago to when we first met and I can't seem to stop. Day by day, in my head and it is causing so much hurt and pain for I really do love my wife so much, I really do. It is my fault that she left, I neglected her, didn't spend time with her, I didn't show her that I really loved her, (I think because I didn't realize that I had so much love in my heart for her). She has always been a truly wonderful person and I was an idiot. I never beat her or cheated on her or yelled at her but I abused her through neglect, which I now regret so much. If she ever has it in her heart to forgive me, I have learned a valuable lesson and I will treat her like the queen that she deserves to be treated like. I can't seem to deal with this pain it is so hard. She is a good woman and I care for her a great deal and I miss her

    18 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • I love my wife, I want her to come back home, I am not an abuser mentally or physically, I just neglected her.

    I love her to death and I miss her so much, I have talked to her on the phone, not by her choice, I call her at work. We have been married for 12+ years and she suddenly left while I was at work a few days ago. She says that she was miserable for 12 years and she stopped drinking 5 months ago and changed. I asked her why she stayed with me for 12 years if she was miserable, and she replied that she was young and stupid, (she is 12 years younger than I, she is 34 now). I have never even yelled at her but I do admit that I neglected her and spend too much money, mostly on things for us, not going out. Sometimes I'd rather watch TV than have sex with her, which was wrong. I do really love her and want her back. I will love her like she could never expect. Her leaving is an eye opener and I would get rid of every TV in the house just to have my best friend back. I am going through so much gut wrenching pain without her. I don't know what to do to convince her to come back home to her lover

    18 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How do you stop the gut wrenching pain after your wife of 12+ years leaves unexpectedly while you are at work?

    I'm 45 and have loss both parents unexpectedly to death but the pain that I feel now that the woman that I have loved for so long has left me. How can I stop this gut wrenching pain from controling my life. I walk in the house and I just start crying my eyes out because I don't see her on the patio waving at me with her lovely smile. Everything that I look at from the coffee mugs that we had coffee in every morning to the bed, decorations that she hung and placed around the house, everything makes me so sad. I had no idea that she was so unhappy, at least to the point of sneeking away. I've talked to her on the phone and she says that it is not another man, just that she didn't feel loved. She stopped drinking 5 months ago and since then she went on a health kick and I didn't. I love her with all of my heart and would do anything for her. I have no family or friends, 2400 miles from where I grew up and no money. I just don't know what to do with my life, I am so sad, the saddest ever.

    24 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How to cope with the pain of coming home to find out your wife of 13 years has moved out?

    My parents have passed away, I have no siblings, no family nor friends. I live 2400 miles away from where I grew up. The pain is so great that I can't work because I am in the customer service field. I cannot go to work and be chipper and smile in my present condition. I just do not know what to do. I have no money.

    I have never abused my wife phycially or mentally. I did not see this coming. Several months ago she suddenly stopped drinking achohol and her mood changed, exercising and getting up early in the morning. I love her more than life itself and I am hurting so bad, I have never felt pain this bad in my entire life, even when my parents passed it was not this bad. I feel like my life is over. I can't remember how life was before my wife came into it. I need help and I can't afford consul . I can't seem to deal with the pain of her loss. She was my backbone, my pillar, my foundation, the love of my life. My life feels worhtless without her. I can't stop crying. I love her.

    19 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Does anyone know where I can get motorcycle financing with poor credit but have the income?

    I have poor credit but I could afford, with my income, a motorcycle payment. Does anyone know where I can get a loan to purchase a motorcycle?

    6 AnswersMotorcycles2 decades ago
  • Do you think there was a conspiricy involving the crash of flight 77 into the pentagon?

    do you think there was a conspricy involving the crash into the pentagon?

    5 AnswersGovernment2 decades ago