Young mom of 4

I'm sorry but I have to ask because I am so confused. Why celebrate day of guadalupe? My Husband is catholic but even he can't help me to understand. I grew up believing in celebrating on the birth of Jesus and that it was wrong to hold anyone or anything as high as Him. So, if someone could help me to understand this, I would appreciate it. Along with, why is the virgin mary so special. Yes, i understand that she was the chosen one to birth Jesus, but what if it would have been someone named JoAnn? Would catholics be celebrating the day of JoAnn? It just doesn't make any sense to me.

Here's my poetry website. It has a variety of poems listed. I just need some honest opinions please!!!

www.poetrypoem.com/love14

If you've been told that a child is yours, and then you've been told that weather it's yours or not, the mother is going to sign a document stating that she has no clue who the father is (not that i've ever heard of such a document) then turns around after finding out that you're pulling 2 jobs to support your [now] wife and other 2 kids, then she states that it is your child, then what is the best form of action to take and in the event she does sign such a document, how can you fix that in terms of in the event it is my husband's? Any help would be most appreciated.

This is not something that i'd normally ask here, but i've gotta ask. is it normal to be spotting lightly while you're pregnant. I already had dark spots once, and that was from having sex the night b4, but now i just realized that i've spotted again, just lightly though, like a light pink. this is my 4th kiddo, and you'd think i'd know the answer, but i've never went into labor normal. could it just be stress? although as of right now i'm not stressed out?

My b/f of a yr. now has already cheated on me once, when i first moved back into this state after 6 yrs. After a couple of months, I did end up cheating on him, but I finally admitted to it b/c i felt real guilty, especially b/c it was his (now) ex-best friend. He still stuck by me. His so-called best friend now told me that he has been cheating on me since december. When i asked him, he said no, why would he. I told him for revenge. He said 2 wrongs don't make a right. In my heart i feel as though he's telling me the truth, but I really don't know who to believe b/c I don't see him much anymore, which i can understand in a way why not. Who's telling the truth? Could it be that he's not cheating, but his friend is after me? We have a baby on the way, and I'm wondering if his strange behavior is from being scared. What should i do?

I'm trying to find out as much information as possible about COPD b/c my father has it. He's been living with emphazema for a while. He just quit smoking for the most, he's only smoked 2 cigs in 2 days, so i'm proud of him. But what are the final stages and how long does a person usually live after they've hit the final stage?