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I moved my friend here to finish school and get a job and all she wants to do is kick it. She has only been here for a week and all she does is complain about how boring it is here. She has not looked for a job nor a school to get her GED and she is 22 yrs old. All she does is sit on the computer, talk and the phone and smoke. She came here with a little money and all she has done is smoke it up. I paid for her ticket to get here with the understanding she would pay back half when she gets a job but now I feel like she should pay me back in full. She claims her BF is supposed to send her some money in 2 wks to go back and if not she is going to try to go back for her B day in 2 months. I want her to leave now if that's the case.

Am I wrong to want all my money back and to want her to leave? And what should I do?

What are some good suggestions for Potty Training an almost 2 year old when he has to be taught by 2 people... Grandma (day care) and mom?

We have been a couple in aobut 2 years but he has been asking for another chance for the last 6 months... so I deceided to give him one. He is in a relationship but I told him I would give him a chance if he ended it. We made it offical and he was supposed to go end it with the girl while I was at work and then we were supposed to meet up and go home. But he wasn't at the location and he didn't even call. He knows where I live and how to get there and he knows my number. It has only been almost a day but I still think he could've at least called. I have a feeling he didn't have the guts to end it with her and that's where he is.

It hasn't been a full day for us a couple...

What should I do... If he calls... comes over? I want to just call it quits but I don't want to give up to fast.

Please be reasonable and open minded...

On Friday night after I dropped my 1 year old son off at his fathers mothers house an hour and a half away his father called while I was taking my mom to the liquor store and he thought I was going for myself and he was mad because I wouldn't let him drink with me. So he hung up.

Yesterday I had to go pick the baby up from his granny's and I didn't want to do that drive by myself. So I called around for my BD and he told me **** no he wasn't going to go with me and he hung up. So now am really pissed. I don't ever ask my BD to do anything for me or my baby. It's not like he had anything to do and this is his son not a cousin or one of my friends. I'm trying to help his mom out by bring my baby out there. That's not benefiting me, I lost about $50 worth of gas. He would be mad if I would've had another guy take me to HIS mom's house to get HIS son.

So I need to know should I snap or just play it cool?

My son is one and he has a serious attitude problem. He likes to throw things, hit you and yell directly in your face when he is angry. We don't display this attitude around him and the only channels he watches are Disney cartoons (barely). I think he is to little to spank and he isn't old enough to grasp time out.

What should I do?

When you call it quits with an Ex do you really move on?

What colors are most intriguing to you?

And why?

If my brother got married, is it wrong for me to date his wifes brother and get married eventually? I've seen stuff like this before and I just wanted to see if any one agrees with me.

Since I can remeber I was lied ot about who my father is.

My so called father knews that I'm not his daughter but no one else does. I have brothers and nieces and nephews that really aren't. I feel like a big phonie. Should I put it out in the air? Or just let it be? I'm 22 years old, is it to late to let it be known?

I want to find my real father but my mom is no help. Is there any way I can find a non expensive way to find him besides going on a talk show?