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So I went out with this guy for about 4 and a half months and we broke up becuase we both needed to deal with some personal things that were getting us down individually and affectign the realtionship. WHen we broke up we both knew that we would get back together once we had both sorted these things out.

So its been almost three months since we broke up and we arent back together, we are great friends and still hang out a bit. But I have been really needy and almost forgetting that he doesnt owe me any of his time, we arent in a relationship.

I really am working on being less needy and my other issues so that we can get back together. (He has dealt with his.) I know he still cares about me a lot, he just doesnt seem to want to spend as much time with me as I do him.

How do I get him to 'miss' me or want to hang out with me more? To get him to love me again as more than a friend? and How do I stop being so needy?

Thanks for your answers :)

iwhere do u think u wil be in ten yrs and is that different to where u wish to be in ten years?

Signs he loves me as much as he says he does....

How do i deal with rejection? people will start talking to me on here or over other random sites and we will become friendly and then suddenly they will stop talking to me. I am beginning to wonder if there is something I do wrong that drives people away? I do not so much have this problem in real life but then I am a lot shyer normally and dont talk to as many people so therefore less chance of rejection. What could I be doing wrong? I mean u dont know me so that makes it hard to answer but what are common things that drive people especially guys away? And how do I deal with these stupid mixed up feelings of rejection but not being able to hate that person cause i have gotten to know them and care about them

I have been chatting with a guy I met on here for a couple of weeks we had become friends but now suddenly I try to email him adn his account doesnt exist and I cant get into contact with him. And he has not contacted me. Why would you be friendly with someone and then randomly stop talking to them when it seems that nothing has changed between us.

I emailed a friend earlier today and it went through and has been working previously. but then later today i have gone to email this friend again and get failure to send address doesnot exist. Why? Has he deleted his account? If you are blocked on here do you lose your mail also??

Bit of a random question but what animal do u think is most like u and why? not which animal would u like to be.

Has anyone fallen in love online? Did it work out? Or why didnt it?

Where would you be?

Why there?

3 people with you ,who would you take?

3 items, what would you take?

am so tired during the day but then it gets to night time and i just cant sleep why?

Have you ever felt like u wanted to be alone but at the same time u didnt want to be alone? Does that make any sense to you at all? Thats how i feel right now. I dont want to be alone but I dont want to be around the people around me at the moment. I just am having a bad few weeks everything just seems to be going wrong at once and i dont know i just feel crowded and want to escape it maybe by being alone but i dont want to be alone. I think i'm going insane.....

Just curious thought this might be a bit of fun

Mine:

Taller than me, nice smile, caring eyes.

Kind, loving, funny, smart, honest.....

Which one do u like best? Why?

I like summer cause it's warm, but dont like the sunburn :(

You dont have to tell me your name but

If You could change your name would you?

What to?

Why?

Me, I wouldn't cause it would take me to long to learn to answer to a different name lol and I dont mind my name. :D

what is the oldest and youngest you would consider