rvogelpohl2001

I was recently involved with someone who, I was very connected to. He didn't even have to be in the room for me to feel his presence. I had to basically make him hate me to make him get back to his life. It's complicated but, I need some answers :-(

My ex husband and I have been through so much the last 15 years since we have divorced. He has been my rock through my sister's murder and my other sister's death from cancer. He has is so kind he watches my younger son from my 2nd marriage. Now, his new girlfriend of three months is telling him to break off contact or she is gone. I want his happiness with this woman but, what about me losing my best friend? I am in so much emotional pain over this!

I want what is best for him... pure and simple!

is now raising my sister's four boys with their father.

How in God's name am I supposed to forgive this woman?

I try, for my sister's sake. She made some sort of peace with it.

Why can't I?

My nephews seem to be okay. Except the oldest. He is 15. He knows what has transpired.

HELP!

Why is it that, a woman cannot be honest about her feelings?

If you are crazy about someone, why does that scare them off?

If you just want to be around someone, what is the problem?

Love was never mentioned...

Relationship was never mentioned...

I just wanted to relax and enjoy his existence.

After 3 weeks of attention, constantly phoning, I was stood up...

Very confused!

The problem is, I literally cannot lose something else I love in this life. I am so confused. When I am around him, I am absolutely mesmerized! When I am not with him, I start all this rationalization of why I should just be happy raising my two boys.

I have literally been hurt by, abandoned by, or lost every important person in my life.

He is the most wonderful man.

He doesn't know all of the things I have gone through.

Should I talk to him and let him know?

I don't want to scare him off but, I want him to know why I feel things the way I do, why I tick.

Please, no haters .

I really need input!

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