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I've just broken up with my g/f of three years. During this time I've fallen out of touch with my friends as she never seems to get on with them (especially female ones), I've found that we always spent time with her friends and family instead of mine even though as a doctor I hardly have any free time. Ironically I find myself having spent more money on her than vice versa 'as I earn more money'. I'm not asking if this relationship was right but how much other people have put up in relationships too. I'm just suprised I stayed with her and her insecurities for so long.