Toni

I work with teenage parents and their children. I use a lot of resources to help explain parenting issues they may not learn elsewhere. I am really having problems with the babies having long and dirty fingernails. I am looking for articles or resources to explain to parents the health dangers of this. Can anyone help me?

My children's biological father gave them up. So when I remarried my husband adopted them. Their name changed. Then he decided he did not want me or them. We are divorced and he has not seen or talked to them in almost 2 years. Now I am about to remarry. I do not want to allow another adpotion. But my kids want a different last name. They even asked if they could have his last name. There is so much hatred for my ex that they want any name but his. Do I change it to my madien name? My new married name? Make them keep it? If I do a name change but not an adoption, will he still be responsible for child support?

If I go to any of the questions I answered that are now in voting, I am unable to vote - no way to do it. I can go to the In Voting section and do it though. Why is this? Anyone else having problems?

My boyfriend of a year and a half and I are not sexually active. Because of job changes and such he now has the opportunity to move where I live. He wants to move in with me. I do not know if a realtionship can survive that. Any advice?

Any single guys in their 30's or 40's here?