older&wiserforit

My husband has OCPD. It is getting more and more difficult to deal with him. He refuses to go for help. Just everyday things are such a production. It's destroying our marriage and I really don't know what to do at this point. Is there anyone here who lives with a person who has OCPD that could give me some advice?

I stopped having my period when I was 49. Then when I turned 50 I started spotting on and off. I went to the doctor and he did a pap test and said there was nothing wrong. Now I'm 51. Again about 8 months ago, I started spotting again, but for longer periods of time. I went to the doctor again and he did a pap test and put me on hormone treatment for 1 week. No change. Now I'm spotting nearly 25 days out of the month. Anyone have this problem before? I'm tired of going to the doctor and hearing the same thing, "there's nothing wrong".

My son is bipolar and I want to understand all I can about it. I have found a couple of sites, but they don't go into detail. Thanks for your help.

This is my second marriage. It has not turned out the way I thought it would. We are not compatible in anything in life. We argue all the time. Our dreamns in life are so far apart. I'm in my 50's and only worked on and off during my first marriage, so I do not have a career in anything. I want to divorce him, but I'm so afraid. I don't know how I can support myself on a minimum wage paying job. What have others my age done to get on their feet to start over, alone.

I'm trying to find a makeup call San Loran for my sister-n-law that lives overseas. She said her dermatologist suggested it for her. I've searched online but can't find it. Is there any such makeup?