ms_italian_butterfly

I am in a relationship at the moment and I am not happy to say the least. This situation has been going on for a while. About a month ago my first love came back into my life after 30 years. We had a baby together but our parents pulled us apart. We did try a few times over the years to find each other but no luck at all. This past spring I was able to find his children to his ex-wife. My sons half brothers and sisters. It was an awesome reunion. My first love found me through one of them. However my son does not want to talk to him because he wasn't there for he past 30 years and plus his ex-wife really painted a bad picture of him. I went to see him for the first time in 30 years and it was like we never parted. He was very respectful because I am with someone. But you can tell he never got over me. Feels from the past stirred up in me as well. I realize 30 years is a long time and people change. We both have grown up since then. And I do not want to think it is because of the past ghost we may still have feelings. He said he lost me 30 years ago and doesn't want to lose me again. I told him we need to be friends all over again and see where it goes. He agreed. So should I act on it or just walk away and leave the past in the past? Plus my son does not want anything to do with him. We did not separated on bad terms. Our parents did not want us together after I got pregnant. My parents sold the house n we mover far away. So tell me what you would do?

There is this guy. We are friends.I am really interested and attracted to him. I know he is interested in me? But I am lost. He says he is interested but isn't ready for a relationship. Which right now I'm fine with. We both have been hurt. He said he is over his ex. And has done the rebound thing. But is afraid of another rebound thing? We talk off n on. I stopped sending text. Cause he hardly ever replies. But when we do spend time together we have fun. And he always gives me a big hug goodbye and a peck kiss. And always says I smell good. But still I am getting mixed signals? So I decided to play it by his rules and let him come after me. So am I wasting my time? Or should I hang in there a little more to see what happens?

I have been in relationships all my life with losers. And everyone was a rush in type of guy? Meaning calls n text all the time. Now recently I have meet someone that I am very attracted to as well as interested in. He says the same? But he is different from the others. We do not talk a lot or text a lot. We have only known each other a few weeks. We had out 1st date. We got along great. A few days later I text him wanting to know if he was interested or not. And if he wanted to be friends it was fine. He texted back saying slow down mama we are just dating for now. The other day we spent sometime together. He hugged me and kissed my neck. Then I was at his house. He was a perfect gentleman. Now what I need to know is he really interested? Am I wasting my time or is it cause I am use to losers? What should I do? I really like him and wish I knew if he felt the same? But I don't wanna ask again and scare him off?

My fiance lives with me. I haven't been happy or in love with him for sometime now. I have been pulling away. Hoping he would see the signs. But he really hasn't. This has been eating away at me. I tried to tell him last night that it was over. But he won't let go? This is a one sided relationship. And I am done carrying him. But I know if I push it too hard he could flip. What am I suppose to do? I want to move on with my life without him in it?

I have a friend that just got pulled over with 15 oz of marijuana. He has never been in trouble before. But I know he'll get jail time. How much will he get?

I know I should know by now if someone is truly falling in love with me. But having bad relationships through the years you are never really sure anymore? I know this guy. We started out as friends. At that point and time he was interested in a friend of mine. I tried to hook them up but she wasn't interested. We started hanging out, going places and doing things together. Through this we got to really know each other. Became good friends and now we are dating. He is younger then me by 10 years. But everyone says I do not look my age. Nor do I feel it. He says he is falling for me. We have slept in the same be bed several times. But no sex. He said he wanted to make sure he was in love first. He has been hurt as well in the past. To me this is also a sign of respect. Most guys would be all over you in a matter of seconds. What I want to know. Is he falling in love with me? Or am I setting myself up for another fall?

How do you know if you have found the right one? This guy I work with. We just started to date? He caught my eye right away when he was being interviewed. After he started working the following week. We would exchange glances often. To me he is very attractive. We have talked and seem to have a few things in common. I never hang on the phone and we have talked for hours? We have had a kinda 1st date, He came to my house and ordered dinner. With some of my family here. Now we are going out this weekend. He has stated to others he likes me. I have dated losers in the past. And am hoping this one isn't. I really don't want to waste my time and fall for the wrong person? I should be old enough to know if he is the right one or not? But I thought I would get a few opinions and see what others thought? I know we have all wondered the same thing I am asking.

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I was dating this guy for 7 months? And we got along great! No fighting nothing? Then he broke it off? He got hurt really bad in a relationship and when he gets close he runs? We didn't talk like 3 three weeks n then started again. But we just hung out on a regular basis. Then things progressed again. But now I think he is starting to run again? I really like him and am tired of waitting for him to get over his fears? His kids love me and want us together. But it is him? Does this guy really care? Should I wait? Or tell him to wake up and smell the roses? I am so confused? I am afraid if I push I will lose him all together. But at the same time I hate keeping this all inside. Help!?

I am a single mother that has worked full time all my life. I have missed so much as my children were growing up do to this. I still have one more child at home and am so tired of not being able to attend school functions or just be there for her. I refuse to go on welfare. So in exchange for working outside the home I have been looking on the computer for jobs you can do on line? But it seems none of them are truley legitmate? I really do not wanna spend $40-$100 for a package that says you can make money from your pc then get ripped off? Does anyone really? So I am asking if there is anyone out there that really knows if there are such buisness that offer people like me the chance to work from home and still make a good living and have the time to spend with their families?

My neighbors little girl had contacted head lice. I know they are tranferred from person to person. But how do they really orrinate? There has to be an answer where they come from to begin with?

Please help? I know pc's but this one I not really sure of?

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I started dating this really sweet guy. First one I have ever been with in my entire life that treats me like a queen. I love talking to him n being with him. But I was in a very long relationship a few months ago with the wrong person. And I am a fraid I will never fall in love with the one I am with? Help!