jeffwalker_1

I think I am in an organization that will be resistant people that are "too" successful. Has anyone experienced this before in or outside the military? What should I do about it?

Divorced for year and a half.

I had a job for 5 years that really started to kill me after 3. It started when I was experiencing marital discord which ended up in divorce. The job was a contributing factor but more so with other stuff. Then for the last two years I just couldn't stand the isolation that accompanied my job and my supervisor was so motivated for this job, I couldn't understand it. I was putting in 1 hour worth of work and then watching television for about 7-8 hours. It felt like a prison, only without having to cover my butt and fight. Job Burnout was really bad.

When I finally got a new job with some real responsibility, I got so happy today, that my heart started to pound all kinds of funny, like it was all screwed up. I think all the pent up stress is coming out.

Does anyone see a trend here and can explain more?

Using things like---growing garlic.

I am in the military. Several years ago, the base installed cable TV in many of the workplaces here on base. Now, I think that people are making serious mishaps in part because their minds are not on their jobs anymore because their watching too much Cable TV and playing to many video games at work.

I can't say that too much cable tv and video games could cause rollover accidents and other costly mishaps; however, I wouldn't want to rule out the possiblity that Cable TV and video games are a contribuiting factor.

What do you guys think?

Our marriage ended for alot of reasons. However, I believe that the issues have been resolved and I also believe that if we could just get back together and start over and have some fun together and do some traveling and do things together that neither of us have ever done before, then I truely believe we can finish our lives together.

Or, I could start over and leave her with him, who she will eventually get bored with him and shed herself from that mistake.

Other facts include:

1. I love her, but it is really starting to get lonely on some nights

2. I see her often and we have a descent working relationship for the kids.

3. We still have sex

4. She is 28 and her husband is 22.

5. She married him out of fear that she couldn't stand alone with kids

6. She married him 3 days after we divorced and she had been seeing before the divorce

7. I did't cheat on her; I never dated anyone or kissed anyone, but I was beginning to have wandering eyes towards the end.

I have these 1 centimeter little bugs that look like miniture centipedes in my strawberry plant. What the heck is that thing and is it bad, should I get rid of it.

When I first planted plant, some of my leaves got some black dots and streaks on it. What was that? And when I bought my strawberry plant at store, it was kinda fuzzy. Now, the fuzz is going away from the leaves and stems...is that bad?

PLEASE HELP, I need my plant to grow.

Dear Amber,

You don’t know much about Montana, so I will explain to you what it’s like on some days. In some of the most wonderful evenings in Montana, when the days are arctic in length, the sun (my favorite thing in the whole world) positions itself over the Missouri River in such a way that it glorifies the Earth with its colors. During those few hours of sunset, in the cool of the evening, the sun superimposes yellow, orange and red colors over everything else. The water, trees, rocks and even the houses and buildings glow diverse hues of amber. The enchantment of the evening always and thoroughly captivates my attention and commands me to behold it. Sometimes, if I am lucky, I am fishing while the enchantment takes place enhancing the already exciting moment.

As you humbly positioned yourself in my arms and I kissed you under the moon hovering over the black Floridian water, my mind, body and soul was filled with brown, yellow and pink song. And, throughout the rest of my ephemeral visit your soft and warm touch commanded my universe to dream of nothing but you. And, if I am lucky, you will charm me again. For now or even maybe forever, I must be content with the visions and memories of you smiling, laughing and dancing with me. I have been glorified by your colors.

Jeff

I am in the military. Several years ago, the base installed cable TV in many of the workplaces here on base. Now, I think that people are making serious mishaps in part because their minds are not on their jobs anymore because their watching too much Cable TV and playing to many video games at work.

I can't say that too much cable tv and video games could cause rollover accidents and other costly mishaps; however, I wouldn't want to rule out the possiblity that Cable TV and video games are a contribuiting factor.

What do you guys think?

She doesn't love her current husband. We have two kids together.