Sheila

I had a C-section in August last year.. I was bleeding then for one month, stopper for 3 days and then again... Doctors said that it was menses the second time round although I was breast feeding. They said that some women do get their menses even when they are still breast feeding.. (Only breast feed no other formula).. I get occasional bleeding (not during period) here and there.. Its like getting menses twice a month and they last not less than a week. Anyway that stopped in March/ February, and now its started again. I have seen a gynae 3 times and he says nothing is wrong its just healing. Is this normal?

My husband is unhappy with our marriage, I can tell cause everything seems to be wrong. I can't even say something like the weather is hot..

I have a child, and a joint owner of our home. I don't want the house, all I want is my baby, but I am afraid that she will blame me for a divorce when she is big enough to understand as he doesn't want joint custody and is willing to give her up.

I cannot communicate with him.. without an arguament, we have tried taking holidays together but the more time we spend together, the more disastrous it is. Please advise

She changes my baby after bath right under the fan, baby is always getting sick... she puts her in the rocker... which I have told her to stop. I want her to sleep on the bed/matterss (which she can) but my sitter just wont listen. Everytime I go there to pick my baby she does the same thing. How do I tell her?