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  • FAMILY COURT DECISIONS?

    AFTER AN EX SPOUSE HAS BEEN ORDERED TO PAY FOR A CERTAIN LOAN AND HAS SIGNED AND AGREED, CAN ANOTHER COURT OVER RIDE THAT DECISION FROM THE FAMILY COURT JUDGE AND MAKE ANOTHER DECISION FOR SOMEONE ELST TO PAY SAID LOAN?

    2 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • CAN YOU BECOME HIV POSITIVE FROM SOMEONE WHO HAS BEEN EXPOSED, BUT HAS TESTED NEGATIVE?

    i JUST FOUND OUT THAT THE MAN I AM SEEING WHO IS 65, IAM 45 WAS MARRIED FOR THE PAST 8 YEARS TO A WOMAN WHO IS HIV POSITIVE. THEY HAD ONLY BEEN APART 7 MONTHS WHEN I STARTED SEEING HIM. HE DID NOT TELL ME THIS UNTIL AFTER WE HAD BEEN INTIMATE. HE HAS TESTED NEGATIVE, BUT HAD UNPROTECTED SEX WITH HER FOR 8 YEARS. COULD I STILL GET IT EVEN THOGUH HE TESTED NEGATIVE? AND WHAT ARE THE ODDS THAT HE WOULD NOT GET THIS AFTER 8 YEARS OF HAVING ALL KINDS OFSEX WITH THIS WOMAN? WOULD APPRECIATE SOME ANSWERS, I AM VERY WORRIED.

    2 AnswersInfectious Diseases1 decade ago
  • MAINTENANCE/ALIMONY IN KY?

    I LIVE IN THE STATE OF KY. MY DIVORCE IS ABOUT TO BECOME FINAL. MY EX WAS ORDERED TO PAY LIFETIME MAINTENANCE. I WANT TO KNOW IF AND WHEN I WOULD BE PERMITTED TO REMARRY AND STILL RECEIVE THE MAINTENANCE. WOULD APPRECIATE ANY HELP.

    1 AnswerMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • How may Ambien is too many?

    I recently took two 10mg ambien tabs with a full stomach. I did not go to sleepl After about 3 hours I took 2 more, this time I ate a little. Still did not sleep. Is it safe for me to take two more now that my stonach is pretty empty? Just want to stay safe as posssible and still sleep

    1 AnswerMental Health1 decade ago
  • Help Me, I am being drowned in a sea of bitterness,. I cannot even get in to our accounts,. I have nothing?

    My husbands treats me like yestedays trach. He is never wrong My daughter is disabled because of a tumor,. he just makes fun her becase cannon do ciertain things. No other way for me to expalin it,. I cannot have any access to our mone. I have to beg to get nibe=======jI just cannot writhe fast enugh. fraid hewill catch me and htg me gagin

    13 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Can my daughter claim her child as a dependent?

    My daughter is 22, lives with me and is on disability. She also has a 6 month old baby. We have always claimed our daughter on our taxes. So, can we also claim the grandbaby? Or could my daughter claim the baby even though she does not claim herself? Her income in 08 was around 3,100. Appreciate any help. My daughter is under the impression she should get back about 2,900. Thanks for any ideas.

    12 AnswersUnited States1 decade ago
  • Why cant Rush speak his mind without being labled a bigot?

    Why is it when Rush Limbaugh speaks his mind (or any Conservative) referred to as their "rhetoric"? When say a Louis Farrakhan speaks it is civil rights activist. It is clearly not fair or balanced in any way. No matter what any Conservative says it is always called bigotry. If everyone truly deserves and has a right to their own voice, then all opinions should be treated with respect.

    10 AnswersLaw & Ethics1 decade ago
  • How can I tell if I'm being emotionally/verbally/psycholologically abused by my spouse>?

    I am deaf, but wear a cochlear implant that lets me hear pretty well. But in social situations it is almost impossible. He (my husband) always puts me in those situations knowing I cannot hear and says things like "what's wrong with you can't you understand a simple question." I am now having such trouble with the implant that I cannot hear at all and they have found a growth behind it . It is serious and I am dizzy and in a lot of pain most of the time. He refuses to drive me anywhere and tells me he is tired and to f-off. If I even voice an opinion about him leaving egg in the kitchen floor,he yells at me to stop nagging and to thank him for taking in the garbage. I cannot have a conversation with him about any grievence because he never ever lets me finish a sentence. My daugther just had a baby and they live with us and he complains that it is to expensive and calls the baby the little bastard. My daughter works and contributes every paycheck, always. My daughter suffered a brain tumor five years ago and he says stuff like she needs another one to teach her a lesson. I have to beg for grocery money (my name is on none of the accounts) and when he does give me money and I spend it on exactly what he tells me to, then I am a spend thrift that spends too much money.I have not had a hair cut in three years, still wearing a winter coat from 4 years ago and wear my daugher old shoes and jeans.I need a lot of dental work, I am losing my two front teeth and he will not pay the co pay to fix them. That is just me being selfish and vain. I am only allowed enough gas money to take my son to school and back and to the grocery store and to pick my husband up at work . He is a professor at a major college. I cannot have an opinion and am repremanded for having one that differs from his. But, you see, I am stuck. For one I am deaf even with the implant it is hard in public to communicate really well. I am 44. with three kids ages 22 20 15 I do have some college and am a very good writer. But I have not worked outside the home since my first child was born in 1986 with my first husband. All three kids are from my first marrage. I get along well with my ex. I have no friends, I am not allowed. And if my sister in law or brother comes to visit, my husband acts like the nicest person in the world. He has shoved me several times and even tried to push me out of a moving car. If I have an emotion, any emotion he yells for me to calm down or accusses me of being on drugs, and to shut up. Sometimes, like lately with the concern about my implant I cry. He just tells me I am a witch and to shut up. He says so what is it you want from me. And all I ask for is a hug. He says go hug yourself. This is just the tip of the iceburg. There is no way to explain the way he thinks. If he loses his keys, glasses anything (and he does it often) he always says someone in the house has taken them to hide them from him. No way. And then he goes wild and runs and screams through the house. I have tried to talk to his family (who by the way are all normal and very nice) but they live in different states and they do not believe it. So, I have tape recorded a lot of it. What can I do if anything. I am completely dependent on him financially. My parents are 81 And live in Vegas. They send me money sometimes but they don't know the entire extent of what goes on. They have experienced some of it when they visited here a couple of years ago and are very afraid for me. My mom says she would go get on my knees and beg for welfare before she would take it. But I am deaf and very unsure of myself. Do I have any legal recourse (he is also a lawyer and knows most of the attorney's around here). I just need some advice and would love to tell more of some of the things he has done. If I did, most of you all would not believe that a normal human being could even think the way he does. He always assumes my son is having sex with his girlfriend on the couch when we are three feet away, we are and they are all doing drugs. Nothing could be further from the truth. He says my 15 year old son needs to get a full time job to help support the family (my husband makes about 140,000 a year) then he says he needs to take more time to study and make straight A's. My son just received 2A's 1B and 1C. The C was in spanish and he is just having trouble with it. My husband says he is lazy and needs to study harder. But he also needs a full time job. He does work part time with his father landscaping in the summer and spring and snow removal in the winter. He pulls his weight here and is very respectful. There is no winning with my husband. But I fear I am stuck. Any advice would be appreciated. I just hope he don't hack into this as he has done with my e-mail. Any help, please feel free. And if you think I'm crazy just say so. Maybe he is right and I am just nothing but a dumb, deaf, witch.

    10 AnswersMarriage & Divorce1 decade ago
  • Do I have any rights or "say so" as a grandmother?

    My daughter who is 21, and not married, does not work (she is slightly disabled from a brain tumor 6 years ago, but is healthy mentallly and has some small physical difficulties), and had a beautiful baby girl 3 weeks ago. The "father" is 20, smokes "weed" daily, refuses to work and really does nothing. My daughter lives with me, but goes to his moms house where she lives 2 days a week. The rest of the week he is recording to be the next great white rapper. The baby was born with merconium aspiration syndrome (had bowel movement in womb) and has been on a respirator for the past 2 1/2 weeks. She is doing fine now and is about to come home. My daughter is on our medical insurance, but the company says the baby cannot be covered. We are working on that. I have a beautiful nursery, a nice home and will babysit for them to work. But they seem to not even be worried about medical coverage and diapers, formula and eveything that goes with baby. I tried to broach the subject of money and of the pot smoking and how it would harm the baby. I was told by both parents that I have absolutely no say so or any right to say anything about how they raise the baby. But, I think I should at least be able to set some rules since I pay for 100% of thier needs and my granddaughters. It is not her little fault and I want her taken care of, but this guy will smoke around her and does smoke and drive all the time. My daughter says he is not affected by it and it is none of my business. Anyway, I am so worried about this precious little girl. What rights , if any as her maternal grandmother do I have. I am fairly young at 44 and my husband is 64 and a professor and we don't mind helping, but I kind of feel they are, whithout actually coming out and saying it, that if I don't keep my mouth shut and continue paying for everything, they will keep her from me. And my daughter knows I don't want her at this guys house because his mother just lets him and his buddies run the house. The house is filthly and dirty and they have 5 cats that go to the bathroom anywhere in the house. How could my daughter even think of taking her baby to a place like that. I am not perfect, and when I had her, I did not know a lot, but I grew up the first time I held her. Of course I was married to her father and we both worked. I stopped working after having her though and I then had two more children and always stayed at home and cared for them. Maybe, as my husband says (he is my second husband) I am enabling them not to work. Sorry for rambling, but does anybody know if my daughter and the baby do live here do I have any right to say or ask for financial help from the father? I am already in love and attatched to the baby. Any advice would be appreciated.

    9 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Why is it okay to have a section for gays, lesbians, and bisexuals and not one for White Americans?

    Just seems biased to me. I am not racist, but just want to have the same rights as others. I mean there are groups for African-Americans only, gays only, Jews only, Mexicans only, Athiests (for God's sake) only.Why can't we, white European Americans who are not racist have a group for White's only. Sometimes it would be nice to just be able to hang with you own kind and not have to worry about sayiing the wrong thing, not giving a black the best seat, not worrying about being labled racist for telling a joke. Blacks and others have all these groups to themselves and talk about Whitey all the time. But it is okay, they always get a pass. Some free country. I am sick of all the whinning and "poor us, discrimination, race card" all of that nonsense, when it is white Americans who are discriminated against every day, but it is brushed off and lost in the sea of diversity.

    11 AnswersOther - Society & Culture1 decade ago
  • Has anybody experienced something called merconium aspiration syndrome?

    My daughter just gave birth to a beautiful baby girl named Presley Taylor. But while still inside the womb the baby had a bowel movement and swallowed a lot of it. She had to be transported to a Children's Hospital intensive care unit and is on a ventilator. I just want to know what her chances are of a full recovery. She weighed 8lbs 1oz and is healthy in every other way. Every time I asked her doctor or a nurse, they kind of change the subject. I am so worried. My daughter is only 21 and has been through too much. She suffered two brain tumor operations at age 13 and age 15. She has some lasting effects, and now this. I cannot think straight or sleep. I just want to know what her chances are. She is considered a severe case. Any help would be appreciated.

    4 AnswersNewborn & Baby1 decade ago
  • How can Obama say he will support hiring and firing based on one's faith?

    I read this today and could not believe it. The article stated that Obama is going to "expand" on Bush's faith programs. Just him committing another robbery of someone else's idea. But it also stated that he will support some ability of employers to hire and fire someone if the employer does not agree with employee or potential employee's religious beliefs.. What? Is that not discrimination? I mean if we can do that, then I guess it would be okay to do the same according to race. I think he is just setting the scene so when he steals the white house he can tell black employers that they can hire and fire whites at will. That is what we have to look forward. How can white Americans be so dumb as to vote for this guy. I get why the blacks are voting for him. I mean he is a brother and will give them anything they desire. And kill a few babies in between. Oh yeah,...just the moral "Christian" president we have been waiting for. Please. Help America and lose this fool!!!!!

    10 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Why do all of my Obama quesions and answers get deleted for violation?

    Just about every question or answer I ask or answer about Obama gets deleted for violation. Some say they are non-questions. Some say the content is wrong of my answers. Most answers are opionions as that is what the asker is usually asking for. But a lot of my responses have facts to back them up. But any questions that parallel my Obama questions but have Clinton's or McCains name inserted are never deleted. I have started a law suit against Yahoo and they will not longer deal with me. I not have to deal with thier legal department. My husband is lawyer (check it out Ky bar Assoc) Frederick William Rhynhart. He says we have a really good case of so many violations against my by Yahoo. lWe may lose, but just like America our rights are worth fighting for.

    14 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Why do colleges discriminate against white students forming organizations, but it is fine for all non-whites?

    Not allowed, I asked a previous question similar to this one, and was told by yahoo, that it was not a question. That question was "Why do colleges discriminate against white students forming clubs or organizations, but it is perfectly okay for minorities and special interest groups to do so? So, I checked and checked and even asked a lawyer, and my present question is absolutely a question and is not offensive to anyone. Or it should not be so. I have reviewed many such questions asked the other way around where the discrimination was on the part of whites and those questions, rants and raves are always allowed. So, once again, I just conformed again to get some answers and opinions. I have too much proof of this happening in colleges across America to publish on here. But if it is really wanted, I will be glad to try. But that proof, even though it can be substantiantiated, may be removed also. Sorry.

    10 AnswersOther - Cultures & Groups1 decade ago
  • Do you think the earthquake today is linked to Obama?

    There was an earthquake today. It originated in Chiacgo, home of Barry and Michael Osama. In the Bible it states that with the arrival of the antichrist there will be many earthquakes, floods and volcanoes. Maybe this the start of that. Maybe it is God trying to make those blind and deaf Bama supporters really look and listen to what his true colors are. He is a racist, muslim, terrorist befriending, American hating, grandmother bashing, liar who will destroy this country. Listen to God, the earthquake may be the first of many such things, because Obama the antichrist is here.

    26 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Why is Jesse Jackson Using Guilt Trip?

    Jesse Jackson is honing on superdelagates stating "How would you feel if you did not vote for Obama and was the single vote that prevented a black from becoming president? ]

    To me, that is using guilt and a threat. It is also the same standard used by most Obama supporters. Bully, bully, bully, cry, whine, and stamp our feet until we get our way. What do you all think of this? Please tell me I am not alone.

    9 AnswersElections1 decade ago
  • Should I buy my Jewish step-chldren Xmas gifts?

    Okay, here's the deal. My husband is 63 and I am 43. I have 3 children ages 21, 19, and 14. His children are 36 and 33 and are Jewish. I mean they claim to be very Jewish. My family is very christian. My husband is Christian also. His ex wife and her husband are Jewish. When we visit with them ( his son just got married to a Catholic) but insisted on a very jJewish ceremony. When they visiited us last spring, they stayed with us and were offended by the cross ihad hanging in our home and my cross jewerly that I wore. They would not attend chruch with us because they said that would be hypocritical. I did not expect them to go and was not offended. I completely understood.. So last Christmas I sent them both Hannaacha cards and good wishes. But they werer livid that we did not send them a Christmas giift. My husb and said that I was selfish and just wanted to spend more money on my own family.I don't know, call me crazy, but I thought that Jews did not believe in j Christ

    10 AnswersFamily1 decade ago
  • Am I really wrong to show my emotions?

    I am by nature an outgoing person who gets excited about the smallest o things. I love Xms, Birthdays and just eveyday things. I also have as of late been having increased anxiety and depression. I went to my doctor and she put me on paxil and klonipin. I feel so much better. But now, everytime I get really happy, or sad, or mad of aggitated etc. my husband says "calm down and ake a pill". before he just told me to calm down. Mot o the time I feel I am acing accordinly. I mean everybody has emotions and are allowed to express them. I try to kep negative emotions from showing, but lately even that has been difficult. I cannot even say to my husband that he left crumbs and spilled coffee spilled on our new white carpet. And m ind you I do not yuell about it. I do get aggitated (who wouldnt?) But he says I am just looney and to shut up. He calls me stupid in front of p[eople. There is so much more that I could say but it would truly take pages. Please help!

    13 AnswersMental Health1 decade ago
  • I have 300 milliters of a cough medicine and am to take 2 teaspoons a day.How long would that last>?

    I have a refill and I want to know how long I have to wait to get that refill. I am following the directions, but arm leaving town before I think the refill would be due. It is a cough medicine called Tussionex. It is a controlled substance. I have 300 milliliters and am to take 1 teaspoon every 12 hours. Just really wanted to know how many teaspoons were in the 300 milliters. Thanks if anyone can help . I dont want to take more or less than prespribed. I like to follow directions. But wtih the upcoming trip, I fear a frefill would be too soon. Pleas give me any help yo can.

    4 AnswersMedicine1 decade ago